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Forum: Saying No Gracefully

  1. Unhappy Possible Drama with couple

    Started by Desdemona1980, 06-27-2012 04:05 PM
    bad experiences, cheating, drama, singles and clubs
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 980
    JustAskJulie
    07-01-2012, 11:36 AM Go to last post

  2. Question Meet up and then it doesn't click...

    Started by jnkrhot, 04-18-2012 11:03 PM
    first meet, meeting others, no connection, rejection, response time, saying no
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 956
    LiveLoveHaveFun
    06-20-2012, 06:39 PM Go to last post

  3. miscommunication

    Started by occ, 02-15-2012 07:28 PM
    communication, friendship and swinging, saying no
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 724
    two4youinswva
    06-17-2012, 08:20 AM Go to last post

  4. Question I chickened out & now I'm second guessing myself

    Started by freakyweds69, 12-27-2011 12:29 AM
    doubts, saying no
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,527
    fallon couple
    02-19-2012, 12:41 PM Go to last post

  5. is it possible to be shaken after years of being comfortable?

    Started by elizasnew, 09-20-2011 08:44 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,354
    DigginIt
    12-01-2011, 09:37 AM Go to last post

  6. Post Do we owe them an explanation?

    Started by EnjoyingLife, 11-01-2011 10:01 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 879
    magiriano
    11-25-2011, 11:02 AM Go to last post

  7. how do you say no, when you've already said NO?

    Started by rainbowskye, 11-20-2011 08:56 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 705
    rainbowskye
    11-22-2011, 06:28 PM Go to last post

  8. Repeat request to meet

    Started by exploringRM, 11-20-2011 08:11 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 495
    MN Tom
    11-22-2011, 06:03 PM Go to last post

  9. What's the etiquette in this situation?

    Started by Danielle87, 10-18-2011 01:39 PM
    etiquette, not interested, saying no
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 866
    DigginIt
    10-22-2011, 12:42 PM Go to last post

  10. Politely saying No

    Started by MattandBianca, 07-17-2011 09:39 AM
    saying no
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 494
    MN Tom
    07-17-2011, 07:41 PM Go to last post

  11. We said yes, now she says no

    Started by Dont.Stop, 05-28-2011 04:01 PM
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    1 2
    lost interest
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,871
    Alura
    07-03-2011, 12:25 PM Go to last post

  12. First club experience

    Started by Linkin40, 05-03-2011 07:59 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 4
    • Views: 1,252
    desertplay91
    05-24-2011, 05:45 PM Go to last post

  13. Interested in the wife, but not the husband

    Started by IvorieManiac, 05-07-2011 10:11 AM
    attraction, saying no, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,676
    Dont.Stop
    05-09-2011, 12:38 PM Go to last post

  14. Time for silence or honesty?

    Started by SsHubby, 04-26-2011 11:05 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    honesty, saying no
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,461
    ClosetSwinger
    04-27-2011, 06:16 PM Go to last post

  15. Rejecting ugly people

    Started by WhatisTruth, 04-17-2011 11:12 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    attraction, rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,221
    carrysmith
    04-23-2011, 11:32 PM Go to last post

  16. How do I handle this? (Telling a friend there is no chemistry)

    Started by ClosetSwinger, 03-30-2011 09:14 AM
    attraction, chemistry, communication, saying no
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,946
    sexcupid
    04-18-2011, 04:31 PM Go to last post

  17. Unwanted Bonding

    Started by Coffeeblack, 02-09-2011 08:37 PM
    bonding
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,754
    JustAskJulie
    02-12-2011, 01:43 PM Go to last post

  18. Turning down someone?

    Started by Desertbird, 01-29-2011 11:20 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,460
    fun4Ds
    01-31-2011, 09:33 AM Go to last post

  19. How would you all have handled this bad experience?

    Started by hardrockers70, 01-03-2011 12:35 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    escape methods, saying no
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 2,886
    bbarnsworth
    01-19-2011, 12:54 PM Go to last post

  20. How do I tell them I don't want to play again? - Help

    Started by Pretty Blue Eye, 01-06-2011 05:07 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,000
    Chicup
    01-08-2011, 11:03 AM Go to last post

  21. How to get out of a bad play situation?

    Started by ClosetSwinger, 07-10-2010 07:04 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    bad experiences, escape methods, quitting
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 1,480
    magnum
    07-19-2010, 12:34 PM Go to last post

  22. How do you "gently reject" someone?

    Started by funat40, 07-14-2010 08:44 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 1,087
    Newpants
    07-16-2010, 09:41 PM Go to last post

  23. The real reason the other couple doesn't want to play again

    Started by The Fuse, 06-06-2010 11:14 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    not interested
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 1,877
    Lascivious L&L
    06-27-2010, 04:24 AM Go to last post

  24. How to answer with a polite "no" to mail in swinger sites?

    Started by WonderWhat, 07-25-2009 02:09 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 1,539
    NYFunCpl
    02-07-2010, 09:16 AM Go to last post

  25. Not even receiving a "Thanks, but no thanks" Email

    Started by NDN, 11-04-2009 01:36 PM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 2,224
    twoforone100
    02-01-2010, 07:39 PM Go to last post

  26. Not interested but don't want to burn bridges

    Started by DrunknLaid, 03-25-2009 05:21 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,067
    The Fuse
    03-28-2009, 10:43 AM Go to last post

  27. Are we really full of it........?

    Started by Thundermerwe, 01-26-2009 10:35 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,303
    TheMiddleDoor
    01-26-2009, 10:30 PM Go to last post

  28. Why are you so rude to people on your profile?

    Started by jdavisauto, 09-25-2008 10:46 AM
    4 Pages •
    1 2 3 4
    rejection, rude behavior, swinger profiles
    • Replies: 47
    • Views: 2,508
    Tia Vampire
    11-23-2008, 04:28 PM Go to last post

  29. Does not saying "NO" imply a "YES"?

    Started by JustAskJulie, 01-14-2004 07:29 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 1,964
    tribbles
    10-31-2008, 10:33 AM Go to last post

  30. Rejecting someone else

    Started by AandC, 07-06-2008 06:51 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 835
    AandC
    07-08-2008, 12:33 PM Go to last post

  31. Dealing with Rejection

    Started by JustAskJulie, 06-23-2008 12:29 PM
    negatives of swinging, rejection
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 913
    JustMrJ
    06-26-2008, 09:12 PM Go to last post

  32. DON'T you smell it??? YUCK.........

    Started by swinger5, 06-06-2008 07:15 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    bad smell, pussy smell
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 2,764
    Couple-N-NM
    06-11-2008, 08:01 PM Go to last post

  33. Question Not Interested Sexually, only Friends!!

    Started by winnme, 05-13-2008 11:15 AM
    friendship and swinging, not interested
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 1,375
    curious_jorge
    05-18-2008, 01:42 AM Go to last post

  34. How to Uninvite a couple

    Started by exquisit1s, 04-07-2008 02:35 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,352
    redcouple
    04-26-2008, 06:59 AM Go to last post

  35. New Twist to an Old Issue (Incompatibility)

    Started by havefuninsun, 04-23-2007 04:25 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 2,060
    socolais
    12-02-2007, 11:51 PM Go to last post

  36. When They're Not Ready

    Started by WeMayTryIt, 10-01-2007 10:19 PM
    communication, not ready
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,579
    WeMayTryIt
    10-02-2007, 08:19 PM Go to last post

  37. How to say no, without hurting their feelings?

    Started by curiousswingers, 05-29-2007 02:12 PM
    aggressive, not interested
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 1,389
    BCinIN
    05-31-2007, 10:50 AM Go to last post

  38. I broke communications with a couple...they want a "specific" reason

    Started by bill&sabrina, 01-29-2007 01:49 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    communication, not interested
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,191
    NandTfromCA
    02-06-2007, 08:59 PM Go to last post

  39. We like the couple but the wife is too clingy

    Started by Unregistered, 11-06-2006 12:21 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,227
    hot couple
    11-12-2006, 11:05 PM Go to last post

  40. How to tell others you're not interested in a nice way

    Started by phishfan, 09-23-2006 10:57 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    common questions, communication, not interested, saying no
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 1,838
    ShellyM
    09-24-2006, 06:25 PM Go to last post

  41. Best Way to Say Not Interested Without Hurting Feelings

    Started by appleblossoms20, 06-13-2006 08:39 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    common questions, communication, hurt feelings, not interested, saying no
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,676
    Chip_n_Muffy
    07-02-2006, 10:44 AM Go to last post

  42. Question Only interested as friends

    Started by blinkey, 04-02-2006 12:36 PM
    common questions, friendship and swinging, not interested
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,486
    EvilMJ
    04-03-2006, 09:43 AM Go to last post

  43. When talk first, then Pics = no attraction

    Started by MarriedNY'ers69, 03-03-2006 10:56 AM
    attraction, rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,566
    MarriedNY'ers69
    03-04-2006, 01:31 PM Go to last post

  44. Red face Attraction or no attraction?

    Started by lordnladylawren, 02-21-2006 06:34 AM
    attraction, not interested, rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 1,301
    lordnladylawren
    02-23-2006, 06:56 PM Go to last post

  45. What is the best way to say no?

    Started by FloridaFlirt, 12-20-2005 08:46 PM
    communication, saying no
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,415
    Chicup
    12-25-2005, 01:52 AM Go to last post

  46. How to say we are only interested in the wife...

    Started by the 2 of us, 11-01-2005 07:24 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    one sided
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,264
    curiouscouple4f
    11-04-2005, 12:22 AM Go to last post

  47. Situation gone bad???

    Started by anon for now, 01-18-2005 02:24 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    bad experiences, saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,519
    Vespertine
    01-22-2005, 10:45 AM Go to last post

  48. Avoiding hurt feelings

    Started by inbeachcouple, 01-02-2005 11:23 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    communication, hurt feelings, saying no
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,949
    inbeachcouple
    01-05-2005, 11:25 AM Go to last post

  49. Question We don't want to swing with this couple anymore

    Started by intuition897, 12-18-2004 12:44 AM
    ending relationship, saying no
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,922
    Dr Jekyll
    12-20-2004, 05:42 AM Go to last post

  50. The good and the bad in swinging and how to end it when needed

    Started by Compersor, 12-08-2004 02:44 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    lost interest, saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,409
    JustAskJulie
    12-13-2004, 09:48 PM Go to last post
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