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Forum: Discretion and Swinging

Discretion is important to swingers. How to be in the swinging lifestyle and still maintain a level of discretion for yourself and others.

  1. Question Would you stop swinging if discovered?

    by ALilOEverything, 12-05-2004 08:23 PM
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    discretion, outted
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,565
    08-23-2009, 04:25 AM Go to last post
  2. Would you say anything?

    by TNT, 10-01-2008 10:00 AM
    3 Pages
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    discretion
    • Replies: 42
    • Views: 2,541
    10-11-2008, 12:06 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 1,689
    07-25-2010, 11:21 AM Go to last post
  3. Would you go on television and discuss your lifestyle?

    by TNT, 09-26-2004 04:03 PM
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    discretion, outted, swinging on tv
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,146
    04-03-2005, 04:28 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 2,265
    10-17-2005, 11:23 AM Go to last post
  4. When people found out.....the reaction!

    by ebsfgncu, 01-20-2010 10:40 PM
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    outted
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 2,983
    02-23-2010, 10:05 AM Go to last post
  5. When do you know that it's a "no"?

    by Spoomonkey, 01-23-2010 06:19 PM
    attraction, discretion, lost interest
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,284
    01-31-2010, 02:38 PM Go to last post
  6. What would you do?

    by swing.kidz, 05-27-2011 11:03 AM
    discretion, outting others
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 1,512
    06-14-2011, 04:18 PM Go to last post
  7. What would you do if you were outed?

    by JustAskJulie, 01-20-2009 01:44 PM
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    outted
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 1,622
    01-27-2009, 04:32 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 2,265
    07-23-2011, 03:08 AM Go to last post
  8. What to do when you see people you know join the lifestyle?

    by mwsw4, 11-27-2008 09:59 PM
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    common questions, someone you know
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,057
    12-08-2008, 12:11 PM Go to last post
  9. what mistake outted you?

    by interested-05, 07-25-2008 04:50 AM
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    outted
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,453
    08-28-2008, 10:38 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 3,475
    01-29-2004, 04:55 PM Go to last post
  10. Too well known locally, where else can we go?

    by westcan, 09-26-2008 08:54 PM
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    discretion, where to play
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,433
    09-30-2008, 10:24 PM Go to last post
  11. The Swinging 6 degress of seperation

    by ALilOEverything, 10-14-2004 01:43 PM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,015
    11-10-2009, 09:16 PM Go to last post
  12. The neighbors are Swingers! Help!

    by northindycpl, 01-29-2005 08:36 AM
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    neighbors
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 4,412
    02-07-2005, 02:31 AM Go to last post
  13. The jig may be up - co-worker's comments

    by curiousagain, 11-05-2004 11:24 AM
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    co-worker, discretion, outted
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,011
    11-07-2004, 08:08 AM Go to last post
  14. Telling people about the lifestyle.

    by couplefromma, 08-09-2004 10:27 AM
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    communication, discretion, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 4,499
    12-13-2005, 04:44 PM Go to last post
  15. Tell our friends about our swinging?

    by MassageCouple69, 04-05-2003 12:21 AM
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    discretion, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,389
    04-17-2003, 04:05 PM Go to last post
  16. [Archive] Swinging With Cameras Present

    by MrkLin, 03-11-2009 02:44 PM
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    cameras, photos, pictures during play
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 2,407
    03-23-2009, 06:33 AM Go to last post
  17. Question Swinging in a small town?

    by Atilla, 09-24-2004 04:44 PM
    discretion, small towns, travel
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,205
    09-28-2004, 10:50 PM Go to last post
  18. Swingers at straight parties

    by JustAskJulie, 01-02-2006 12:26 PM
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    discretion, mixing friends, vanilla
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,569
    01-09-2006, 09:41 PM Go to last post
  19. Strangeness

    by knb2004, 08-05-2009 07:39 PM
    discretion, outted, workplace
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,435
    08-17-2009, 06:19 AM Go to last post
  20. Strange reactions from vanilla friends and coworkers?

    by Newpants, 04-03-2010 02:12 PM
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    co-workers, communication, discretion, friendship and swinging, outted
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 2,314
    05-23-2010, 06:42 PM Go to last post
  21. Social Etiquette

    by eurotrash, 01-04-2013 02:23 PM
    discretion, open minded, relationship issues, secrets
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 823
    01-30-2013, 10:41 AM Go to last post
  22. Small Town - Playing in your backyard???

    by Mr.LoveUbye, 09-11-2008 02:42 PM
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    anonymity, discretion, travel
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 1,964
    09-15-2008, 08:18 PM Go to last post
  23. Sharing Pictures

    by OhioCouple, 08-22-2003 08:54 AM
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    discretion, photos
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 4,245
    08-24-2003, 12:20 PM Go to last post
  24. Secrecy vs Discretion

    by SunSignFun, 03-25-2007 08:16 PM
    discretion
    • Replies: 8
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    03-27-2007, 11:07 PM Go to last post
  25. Rumor mill - we're in it....

    by Trace Ekies, 05-29-2010 07:40 AM
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    being outted
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 3,400
    06-06-2010, 05:45 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,415
    04-11-2010, 03:00 AM Go to last post
  26. Require the ultimate in discretion

    by disturbed, 07-25-2006 08:50 PM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 57
    • Views: 4,986
    11-12-2006, 09:20 PM Go to last post
  27. Reputations

    by screaminggood, 02-09-2009 10:55 AM
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    discretion
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 2,514
    02-16-2009, 05:43 PM Go to last post
  28. Post Remembering to be discreet in non-swinger groups

    by TNT, 12-17-2001 09:58 PM
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    discretion, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 16
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    04-29-2003, 09:21 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,268
    01-17-2009, 09:26 AM Go to last post
  29. public information websites

    by interested-05, 04-08-2010 09:01 PM
    ad sites, discretion, personal information, swinger profiles
    • Replies: 5
    • Views: 380
    04-09-2010, 09:02 PM Go to last post
  30. Question Protecting Your Identity

    by OhioCouple, 11-05-2002 07:36 AM
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    discretion, fake names, honesty, personal information
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 3,635
    06-13-2005, 02:06 PM Go to last post
  31. Professional career and ethics??

    by alwayscurious34, 12-27-2011 02:56 PM
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    career, discretion, ethics
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 1,374
    01-25-2012, 01:34 AM Go to last post
  32. Privacy issues at Clubs

    by Ron2007, 12-31-2006 07:40 AM
    privacy, swinger clubs
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 1,523
    01-03-2007, 06:46 PM Go to last post
  33. Privacy being broken

    by InsatiableRed, 11-17-2011 10:03 PM
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    privacy
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,535
    11-22-2011, 04:44 PM Go to last post
  34. Potential of Blackmail and Swinging

    by nvrgesus2, 08-10-2005 07:21 PM
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    being outted, blackmail, discretion, drama, negatives of swinging
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 5,699
    08-20-2005, 11:23 AM Go to last post
  35. Posting Pictures..... NO!

    by BiCoupleTN69, 07-15-2003 03:24 PM
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    blackmail, discretion, posting pictures
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,207
    07-27-2003, 11:37 AM Go to last post
  36. People You SHOULD NEVER Swing With

    by JustAskJulie, 05-07-2012 05:19 PM
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    friendship and swinging, people from the past, people to avoid, swing partners
    • Replies: 41
    • Views: 2,310
    05-15-2012, 06:40 PM Go to last post
  37. Pathological Discretion

    by Spoomonkey, 11-14-2005 08:21 PM
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    discretion, good experience
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 3,372
    11-16-2005, 09:23 PM Go to last post
  38. Outed before we started

    by AdamInEve, 11-01-2007 09:15 AM
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    divorce, drama, friendship and swinging, outted
    • Replies: 38
    • Views: 5,143
    11-11-2007, 02:41 PM Go to last post
  39. Out of the closet?

    by BradAndJanet, 09-18-2003 04:39 PM
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    discretion, outted
    • Replies: 42
    • Views: 4,291
    01-02-2004, 10:44 PM Go to last post
  40. Unhappy On the topic of discretion...

    by CuteCouple, 08-02-2001 03:29 PM
    communication, discretion
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,786
    08-06-2001, 08:55 AM Go to last post
  41. Nervous about posting pictures.

    by Lundy, 11-07-2012 11:04 PM
    discretion, photos, privacy
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,761
    11-18-2012, 02:46 PM Go to last post

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