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Forum: Making the First Swinger Move

How do you approach other swingers you are interested in getting to know and having sex with?

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  1. trouble moving things along

    by redzhubby, 09-26-2013 11:06 AM
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    getting started
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    10-02-2013, 11:10 PM Go to last post
  2. Question How to Progress Things Along

    by Enigma346, 05-22-2013 08:22 AM
    getting started, swing-curious
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  3. [Archive] Foreplay/Ice breaker Question

    by M&S, 08-15-2012 12:57 PM
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    foreplay, ice breakers
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    05-14-2012, 12:14 PM Go to last post
  4. Not Sure On The Game Plan

    by fresnocouple, 02-21-2012 03:57 AM
    drinking and swinging, making the first move, rules and boundaries, shyness
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    02-24-2012, 03:24 AM Go to last post
  5. How do I know it's the right time?

    by Danielle87, 10-15-2011 03:38 PM
    fmf, getting started, swing-curious
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    10-22-2011, 12:22 AM Go to last post
  6. Unhappy Friends without the benefits

    by shy kitty, 05-16-2011 06:59 PM
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    disappointing, getting started
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    04-24-2011, 05:43 PM Go to last post
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    03-16-2011, 03:27 AM Go to last post
  7. First Step

    by MyWife&Me, 07-31-2010 04:45 PM
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    first time, mfm
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    07-02-2010, 07:25 PM Go to last post
  8. Signs of unapproachability

    by JustAskJulie, 04-28-2009 03:13 PM
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    approaching others, showing interest, swinger clubs
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    06-03-2010, 10:49 PM Go to last post
  9. Cool Wall-flowers in need of HELP!

    by hppycpleus, 01-31-2010 11:50 PM
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    approaching others, ice breakers, shyness
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    02-07-2010, 10:37 PM Go to last post
  10. How do you approach a single woman "Unicorn" ?

    by UnicornChasers, 08-22-2009 11:30 PM
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    • Replies: 36
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    09-22-2009, 12:22 AM Go to last post
  11. Men: Do you approach women?

    by JustAskJulie, 02-19-2009 05:06 PM
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    approaching others
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    03-01-2009, 08:23 PM Go to last post
  12. Any advice for couples with a straight female?

    by arvcpl, 12-20-2008 12:27 PM
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    connection, intimidation, straight female
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    12-22-2008, 04:14 PM Go to last post
  13. Second Choice or backup plan

    by JustAskJulie, 12-01-2008 12:35 AM
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    second chance, showing interest
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    12-13-2008, 05:20 PM Go to last post
  14. Just One Question...............

    by Menage_a_Trois, 05-31-2007 10:42 PM
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    connecting
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    11-25-2008, 08:17 AM Go to last post
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    11-18-2008, 05:17 PM Go to last post
  15. Breaking the Ice

    by Alura, 10-09-2008 11:53 AM
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    ice breakers
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    10-31-2008, 01:31 PM Go to last post
  16. The Pickup Artist

    by JustAskJulie, 10-22-2008 11:09 AM
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    approaching others, swinging on tv
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    10-28-2008, 01:45 PM Go to last post
  17. Initiating Conversation

    by K&JIntimates, 10-14-2008 10:35 AM
    communication, ice breakers
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    10-24-2008, 10:08 PM Go to last post
  18. Question What Do We Say to close the deal?

    by JM153, 03-18-2006 12:31 AM
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    making the first move
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    10-08-2008, 09:07 PM Go to last post
  19. Do you GIVE a second chance at first impressions?

    by JustAskJulie, 06-06-2008 03:00 PM
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    approaching others, expectations, first impression, second chance
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    06-22-2008, 08:00 PM Go to last post
  20. How likely are you to approach?

    by JustAskJulie, 06-05-2008 04:14 PM
    approaching others
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    05-06-2008, 10:51 PM Go to last post
  21. Are they trying to have a threesome with me?

    by mango84, 01-22-2008 04:06 PM
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    approaching friends, are they interested, friendship and swinging
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    03-17-2008, 08:32 AM Go to last post
  22. Cool Cock Blocked!

    by Styles-N-Heidi, 02-29-2008 11:33 PM
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    attraction, cock blocking, different pace, discretion, experienced, playing with newbies
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    03-03-2008, 12:35 AM Go to last post
  23. Remembering names????

    by TNT, 03-24-2004 11:20 AM
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    meeting others, remembering names
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    03-01-2008, 05:38 PM Go to last post
  24. Getting things started

    by talltim123, 01-19-2008 04:18 PM
    making the first move
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    02-11-2008, 11:24 AM Go to last post
  25. Conversation Starters

    by JustAskJulie, 04-08-2004 11:12 PM
    communication, ice breakers
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    01-22-2008, 06:01 PM Go to last post
  26. Poll Poll: Who is the seducer, the woman or man?

    by Sweetdevil, 08-18-2002 12:02 PM
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    approaching others, seduction
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    12-22-2007, 03:35 AM Go to last post
  27. Good ice breaker or opener to sex..

    by Tojo99, 05-12-2006 11:15 PM
    ice breakers
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    11-28-2007, 02:14 PM Go to last post
  28. Hot Tub Scenario, not knowing if everyone swings.

    by Lee55, 11-23-2007 05:20 PM
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    approaching friends, are they swingers, friendship and swinging, hot tub, neighbors
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    11-26-2007, 05:27 PM Go to last post
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    07-14-2007, 11:08 AM Go to last post
  29. Bartering sex?

    by J&RNNJ, 06-18-2007 07:25 AM
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    approaching others, bartering for sex, swinging for money
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    07-07-2007, 06:20 PM Go to last post
  30. How crude is too crude?

    by Spoomonkey, 01-24-2007 08:00 AM
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    approaching others, changed mind, rude behavior, turn offs
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    01-31-2007, 06:57 PM Go to last post
  31. Approaching People at clubs

    by JustAskJulie, 01-10-2007 11:15 PM
    approaching others
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    01-11-2007, 10:49 PM Go to last post
  32. How to ask would you like to???

    by twoartists, 11-09-2006 03:03 PM
    making the first move
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    11-27-2006, 11:44 PM Go to last post
  33. Not sure how to ask guys for MFM

    by itbus69, 10-17-2006 05:21 AM
    approaching others, single males, threesome
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    11-01-2006, 08:46 PM Go to last post
  34. Playing Hard to Get and Hurt Feelings

    by nice_cpl_n_bama, 10-02-2006 12:14 AM
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    aggressive, approaching others, hurt feelings, mind games, passive, shyness
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    10-06-2006, 06:19 AM Go to last post
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    09-05-2006, 12:57 PM Go to last post
  35. Poll Poll: Which male initiates a MFM?

    by dezaray, 05-24-2006 08:39 AM
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    initiating threesome, making the first move
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    09-04-2006, 08:38 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 12
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    07-22-2006, 02:36 PM Go to last post

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