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Forum: Approaching potential playmates

  1. How to show/determine interest at 1st meet

    Started by 2 in C-bus, 04-21-2011 12:39 PM
    are they interested, showing interest
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 1,370
    Dont.Stop
    04-24-2011, 05:43 PM Go to last post

  2. "Sexually aggressive" vs "Sexually expressive"

    Started by Mr.GeekChic, 06-27-2010 02:45 PM
    aggressive, approaching others, passive
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 972
    Mr.GeekChic
    07-02-2010, 07:25 PM Go to last post

  3. Signs of unapproachability

    Started by JustAskJulie, 04-28-2009 03:13 PM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    approaching others, showing interest, swinger clubs
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 3,078
    PB&J
    06-03-2010, 10:49 PM Go to last post

  4. Cool Wall-flowers in need of HELP!

    Started by hppycpleus, 01-31-2010 11:50 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others, ice breakers, shyness
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 1,581
    Gordo
    02-07-2010, 10:37 PM Go to last post

  5. How do you approach a single woman "Unicorn" ?

    Started by UnicornChasers, 08-22-2009 11:30 PM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    approaching others, single women, unicorn 1 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 36
    • Views: 3,370
    ConnieJim
    09-22-2009, 12:22 AM Go to last post

  6. Men: Do you approach women?

    Started by JustAskJulie, 02-19-2009 05:06 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,712
    xyzzy07
    03-01-2009, 08:23 PM Go to last post

  7. Second Choice or backup plan

    Started by JustAskJulie, 12-01-2008 12:35 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    second chance, showing interest
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,019
    Playful1
    12-13-2008, 05:20 PM Go to last post

  8. Just One Question...............

    Started by Menage_a_Trois, 05-31-2007 10:42 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    connecting
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 1,979
    Cpl2share
    11-28-2008, 09:05 AM Go to last post

  9. Couples that will say anything to get the hookup

    Started by JustAskJulie, 11-15-2008 02:00 PM
    connecting
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 912
    spamcatcher
    11-25-2008, 08:17 AM Go to last post

  10. Breaking the Ice

    Started by Alura, 10-09-2008 11:53 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    ice breakers
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,682
    sahajacpl
    10-31-2008, 01:31 PM Go to last post

  11. The Pickup Artist

    Started by JustAskJulie, 10-22-2008 11:09 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others, swinging on tv
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 1,465
    slevin
    10-28-2008, 01:45 PM Go to last post

  12. Initiating Conversation

    Started by K&JIntimates, 10-14-2008 10:35 AM
    communication, ice breakers
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,042
    LFM2
    10-24-2008, 10:08 PM Go to last post

  13. Question What Do We Say to close the deal?

    Started by JM153, 03-18-2006 12:31 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    making the first move
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,194
    Mr.Essex
    10-08-2008, 09:07 PM Go to last post

  14. Do you GIVE a second chance at first impressions?

    Started by JustAskJulie, 06-06-2008 03:00 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others, expectations, first impression, second chance
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,151
    Malachista
    06-22-2008, 08:00 PM Go to last post

  15. How likely are you to approach?

    Started by JustAskJulie, 06-05-2008 04:14 PM
    approaching others
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,039
    lotsoffun201
    06-10-2008, 08:21 AM Go to last post

  16. Lonely Unicorn having trouble approaching couples at clubs

    Started by mosmis84, 11-19-2007 08:39 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others, single women, swinger clubs, unicorn
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,078
    absingleman
    05-06-2008, 10:51 PM Go to last post

  17. Are they trying to have a threesome with me?

    Started by mango84, 01-22-2008 04:06 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching friends, are they interested, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 4,703
    LFM2
    03-17-2008, 08:32 AM Go to last post

  18. Cool Cock Blocked!

    Started by Styles-N-Heidi, 02-29-2008 11:33 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    attraction, cock blocking, different pace, discretion, experienced, playing with newbies
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,105
    sweet_tna
    03-03-2008, 12:35 AM Go to last post

  19. Remembering names????

    Started by TNT, 03-24-2004 11:20 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    meeting others, remembering names
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 2,024
    MtnSwing
    03-01-2008, 05:38 PM Go to last post

  20. Conversation Starters

    Started by JustAskJulie, 04-08-2004 11:12 PM
    communication, ice breakers
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,640
    JustAskJulie
    01-22-2008, 06:01 PM Go to last post

  21. Poll Poll: Who is the seducer, the woman or man?

    Started by Sweetdevil, 08-18-2002 12:02 PM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    approaching others, seduction
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 7,234
    rckycooper
    12-22-2007, 03:35 AM Go to last post

  22. Hot Tub Scenario, not knowing if everyone swings.

    Started by Lee55, 11-23-2007 05:20 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching friends, are they swingers, friendship and swinging, hot tub, neighbors
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 4,327
    Alura
    11-26-2007, 05:27 PM Go to last post

  23. Bartering sex?

    Started by J&RNNJ, 06-18-2007 07:25 AM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    approaching others, bartering for sex, swinging for money
    • Replies: 37
    • Views: 3,498
    ShellyM
    07-07-2007, 06:20 PM Go to last post

  24. How crude is too crude?

    Started by Spoomonkey, 01-24-2007 08:00 AM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    approaching others, changed mind, rude behavior, turn offs
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 3,609
    Spoomonkey
    01-31-2007, 06:57 PM Go to last post

  25. Approaching People at clubs

    Started by JustAskJulie, 01-10-2007 11:15 PM
    approaching others
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,649
    JustAskJulie
    01-11-2007, 10:49 PM Go to last post

  26. Not sure how to ask guys for MFM

    Started by itbus69, 10-17-2006 05:21 AM
    approaching others, single males, threesome
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 3,808
    KenRachel
    11-01-2006, 08:46 PM Go to last post

  27. Playing Hard to Get and Hurt Feelings

    Started by nice_cpl_n_bama, 10-02-2006 12:14 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    aggressive, approaching others, hurt feelings, mind games, passive, shyness
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,737
    riswingcpl
    10-06-2006, 06:19 AM Go to last post

  28. What to do next when your "PlayDar" alarm sounds.

    Started by SuAndBud, 08-29-2006 03:44 PM
    approaching others, are they swingers, swingdar
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 2,046
    Bedmates
    09-05-2006, 12:57 PM Go to last post

  29. Poll Poll: Do you prefer the male or the female to initiate in-person contact

    Started by Menage_a_Trois, 07-25-2006 12:16 AM
    approaching others, preferences
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,807
    WesternSwing
    08-02-2006, 10:58 PM Go to last post

  30. Ideas on how to bring up MFM with a male friend?

    Started by us242, 07-19-2006 05:47 PM
    approaching friends, friendship and swinging, threesome
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,396
    Edison Carter
    07-22-2006, 02:36 PM Go to last post

  31. Chatting with Couples Online

    Started by Roxysbayou, 12-23-2003 03:07 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    chat, communication, gauging interest
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,946
    2jersey
    06-02-2006, 10:11 AM Go to last post

  32. How does a guy know when women are interested?

    Started by Tybee Swing, 05-20-2006 01:13 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    gauging interest
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 2,826
    TeamSoBe
    05-24-2006, 05:45 PM Go to last post

  33. Breaking the ice?

    Started by couplentulsa, 08-15-2004 10:23 PM
    4 Pages •
    1 2 3 4
    ice breakers
    • Replies: 50
    • Views: 6,599
    blondie77
    05-11-2006, 10:36 AM Go to last post

  34. Interested in swinging with roommate, not sure how to progress the situation

    Started by SMB1913, 03-11-2006 03:22 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching friends, friendship and swinging, roommate, threesome
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,321
    LOL_OMG
    04-10-2006, 12:28 AM Go to last post

  35. How to open up more at initial meetings

    Started by Mr. Fuse, 03-07-2006 10:13 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    flirting, meeting others, showing interest, shyness
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 4,201
    The Fuse
    03-25-2006, 11:49 AM Go to last post

  36. Question We think they are interested in us for swinging, how do we find out for sure?

    Started by cplfrmthnrth, 08-10-2005 04:47 PM
    approaching others, are they interested, are they swingers, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,791
    cplfrmthnrth
    08-11-2005, 04:45 PM Go to last post

  37. Question How do you approach someone at a party?

    Started by tracy1878, 11-08-2004 03:02 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 4,959
    roadkingklp
    02-19-2005, 09:20 AM Go to last post

  38. How do you ask people to play?

    Started by flywithus, 01-17-2005 07:26 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others, transitions
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,665
    MrSnozzberryBlu
    02-02-2005, 01:20 AM Go to last post

  39. Question Letting them know we are interested

    Started by CuteCouple2004, 08-29-2004 11:33 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,205
    CuteCouple2004
    08-30-2004, 11:17 PM Go to last post

  40. Question instant turn-offs when meeting new people

    Started by 2newbies, 11-22-2003 04:44 PM
    common questions, first meet, turn offs
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,459
    BodyScape02
    06-16-2004, 08:54 PM Go to last post

  41. Question Are we being approached to swing?

    Started by CAM, 03-09-2004 10:59 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others, friendship and swinging
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 4,299
    imsnowman
    03-10-2004, 11:49 PM Go to last post

  42. A Piece of the action?

    Started by JanetAndBrad, 06-16-2003 11:20 AM
    aggressive, approaching others, discouraged, first club visit, showing interest, swinger clubs
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,916
    J & K
    07-02-2003, 03:09 PM Go to last post

  43. Do you talk on the phone before meeting potential swing partners?

    Started by Handyman69, 01-23-2003 01:27 PM
    common questions, phone
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,005
    OhioCouple
    01-24-2003, 03:52 PM Go to last post

  44. Smile Approaching a couple when you don't know if they swing or not?

    Started by Titon, 11-05-2002 08:59 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    approaching others, swinging with vanillas
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 4,998
    Alura
    11-15-2002, 06:30 PM Go to last post

  45. Post Hubby's (Soon to be) Ex- boss

    Started by Testdiva, 10-27-2002 04:47 PM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    approaching others, co-worker
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 3,821
    Testdiva
    11-07-2002, 11:53 AM Go to last post

  46. Post Letting others at a social know we are there to play?

    Started by Soscol, 03-27-2002 07:05 PM
    approaching others
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,409
    Stratecpl
    04-08-2002, 06:14 PM Go to last post

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