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So I have been poking around here for a little bit gathering info and what not and the wife and I had discussed checking out a club.....however after several months of not being able to line everything up, work, babysitter, club being open, etc.........it finally happened this past Friday as if the stars were aligned perfectly, we had a last minute sitter, wife didnt have to work, and the local club just happened to be having a event!!!!

 

So the wife calls and lets me know we have a sitter and she was off work and to see if I wanted to go out. I said sure and immediatly checked to see if our local club was opened...it was!!

 

So I didnt say a word and kept it a suprise just told the the wife to dress up and I was taking her out for a night on the town.

 

Sorry trying not to drag this out to much but want to give some of the back story......

 

So we go out grab a quick bite to eat a few drinks a few local bars killing time for the club to open.

 

So finally we pull up in the parking lot and she then knew right away where we were going and it was pretty funny she was suprised and nervous as hell as was I a little bit.

 

Once we got in the door everyone was awesome, the guy at the front desk checked us all in, got someone there to give us a tour, we met the owner, got situated with the bar and there we were at our first on premise swing club.

 

After a few drinks and sitting around we started talking with another couple around our age but a little younger had a few drinks with them and the female half of the couple and my wife kinda hit it off, had some more drinks, little more talking/flirting and then slowly starting having a little fun with each other, probably pretty lame compared to what most people areused to on here but it was fun and exciting to us all the same. Unfortunatly my wife was indulging the shots a little bit to much and started to feel a little sick so we ended the night a little early.

 

All in all though for a last minute, first time trip to a club I would say it was awesome, the wife had a good time and said it is not something she would do all the time or very regular but every once in a while it would be fun.

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probably pretty lame compared to what most people areused to on here but it was fun and exciting to us all the same.

 

No, not lame at all, in fact, we love to read about good experiences. You are braving a new world, stepping outside of you and your wife's comfort level. It's not about what you didn't do, it's about what you did do and that was you took a step forward. A step that most could NEVER do and one that many dream about.

 

Good for you both!!

 

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We were also nervous about "taking the plunge" even after already having some MFM experiences. We told ourselves that whenever we go out we are going out for US to have fun and just go with the flow. Once you are out and mingling within the lifestyle you find out really quick that there are plenty of different people into plenty of different things. Some play a lot. Some are more selective and just like to hang out and have fun. The one thing that MOST of them have in common is that they are respectful of rules and boundaries. I'm not so sure now why we were so nervous in the first place! :-) Good luck and thanks for sharing your story.

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