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First Time Experiences Share your first experiences here... whether it was your first time, or just your first time in a new situation.

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Well the time has come to move to another level and we are ready to meet a single male for a mfm. We have talked on msn everyday and talked on the phone about 3 times a week for the past 3 weeks and photo's passed back and forth so we feel quite comfortable with him. We can contact him anytime and we are meeting him on neutral ground. We are meeting him tomorrow.
I am very excited but nervous as it's our first time so wish us luck and if there's anything you could add please do. Oh yes got a babysitter lol. If things go well we will meet him the next evening and have some
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Mrs.Fun Can't you tell I'm nervous? Mr. Fun is just cool and relaxed.
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Good luck! Hope it goes good! Just relax & have a good time! Be sure to tell us how it goes!
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Old 05-27-2004, 02:46 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Sounds like you are on the right track with messaging, talking on the phone, and photos.

Those are some of our MUSTS before meeting a single male.

One thing we do different is we do not meet on neutral ground. We meet where mrs naughty is comfortable.

Any advice I can give.....

MFMs are great!!!

But make sure you talk about it with hubby afterwards. Since it is your first time for a MFM you are moving from fantasy to reality and that leap can sometimes bring up feelings not anticipated.

Make sure you let Hubby know afterwards he is still king of the jungle.


If the single male backs out do not take it personal. They tend to do that sometimes. Even when you think you are a definate go something will come up. No second chances. If he stands you up he is done . No matter the reason. They can come up with some good ones.

And finaly...
ENJOY Yourself!!! Let go and be a slut (while keeping your boudaries) !!!!
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One other thing...


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Mrs.Fun Can't you tell I'm nervous? Mr. Fun is just cool and relaxed .
Thats the way I ACTED to when we did our first MFM. I wanted Mrs Naughty to be as comfortable as possible. So I wanted to give her that feeling that she could lean on me to help her relax. If she thought I was cool and relaxed it would help her do the same. But I was a little nervous about what was about to happen. After all I was going to let another dude fuck my wife for the first time!!!

But we have no regrets!! it has been a wonderfull ride for us that just keeps on going!!
I hope you find as much pleasure in your experiences as we have!!

Good Luck and remember......Have Fun!!!!!
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SO WHAT HAPPENED??

We must know! We're also new, and we're excited about trying it too!!
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Well the time has come to move to another level and we are ready to meet a single male for a mfm...If things go well we will meet him the next evening and have some
Ummm condoms, wine, oils etc
Mrs.Fun Can't you tell I'm nervous? Mr. Fun is just cool and relaxed.
If things didn't go well and you decided not to play I would like to know that too.

I'm sure you have lots you're thinking about no matter how things turned out.

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HI Guys, Well it happened, well sort of anyway Here goes........ we were getting ready to go out, you know the usual things.... shower, shave etc and I discovered I had just started my period which was not due anyway we looked at each other rather disapointed and agreed that we would still go and we would talk to him. We got to the meeting place and met him and explained and he was great about it. So we talked for over an hour and decided that it was too late to book a hotel and the meeting for the next day was postponed for another few weeks but we all didn't want to be disapointed so we drove around and found a little discrete spot and he put a show on for us and we got to do some things that we all enjoyed so it worked out well for us and we all had a great time facelick The single male was a gentleman and wasn't pushy and he gave me a bottle of wine to take home for being a good no I mean bad girl
All the nerves that I had before we got to meet this guy just melted away and it was a great first time experience.
And yes Mr. Naughty I got to be a slut and it was a very enjoyable experience. As for Mr. Fun well he had no complaints and has had a smile on his face since
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Sounds like you had a great time! I hate the pesky things, don't you? lol They always come at the worst time! But oh well! I'm glad your first time was a good experience!
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Good to hear that things worked out for the three of you, despite the unexpected 'arrival'!

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so we drove around and found a little discrete spot and he put a show on for us...
I always imagine women putting on a show, but what was the "show" that this single guy put on to warm you all up? I'm new to this and I need these lovely little details, even at the expense of publicly embarrassing myself.

Of course, 4forfun, you can always PM me with the details if you prefer.

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I always imagine women putting on a show, but what was the "show" that this single guy put on to warm you all up? I'm new to this and I need these lovely little details, even at the expense of publicly embarrassing myself.

Of course, 4forfun, you can always PM me with the details if you prefer.

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I can respect if you PM likeminds with the details of 'his show' but I too would love to hear the details since I've always imagined the woman putting on the show as well . . . of course I would take PM too if you don't want to post it.

I am glad to hear that dispite the unexpected you still had a good time and got a 'little bit' of play.

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I think we would all love to hear this!
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Old 06-02-2004, 02:02 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I hope next time you get the "Full Monty"!!

We have had the period thing show up on us unexpectedly as well. And like you we still managed to have fun!!!!!!!!!!!
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