our first time !

[cpl4playmass]

Well, after lots of talking and searching we met a couple we felt comfortable with and arranged a play date for the following weekend. we met at the same location, this time though we all knew what was coming. All boundries were discussed and everyone agreed. We had some drinks, flirted, most of the focus was toward girl/girl play. Well the girls ended up going to the bar bathroom and causing a comotion!!! lol..... We left and ended up back at their place and the clothes just flew off.... The original plan was girl/girl first then the boys to join in later, well the other guy was not into waiting and jumped right in. We both had a little two much to drink because of nerves and that did not help. I ended up standing there trying to figure out what to do as her and him devoured my girlfriend. I must say it was awesome to see her be pleasured so much. I ended up getting in there, but it all seemed to go at a very frantic pace (lots of chemistry). So as a first time for us it was good. We would have liked it to go slower, the girls really deserved to have some one on one time. I would have liked both girls on me. It was not perfect, but no one crossed the boundries and we all had a good time.

Thanks for having this board,
DJ

[Pinmonkey]

Sounds like a great experiance. Hope you have continued good luck.

[biblonde]

Sounds like a very fun evening. I agree with the girls need some time with just the 2 of them...I know my hubby loves watching us girls and of course i love the girl/girl time. It is such a turn on. But for a first time for you guys it sounded great....that means there is always a next time to do other stuff!! The first time doesnt always go exactly as planned but as long as it was good that is what matters! I hope you continue to have great fun! And as time goes on it gets even better!

my 2 cents for the day...s

[windsor4fun2]

Good to hear you enjoyed yourself. I don't think a first meeting ever goes exactly as planned. The important thing is you had fun and are thinking of the next time.

Jesse

[cpl4playmass]

Thank you all for responding. Yes, the fact that neither of us ran out of the room screaming is a good sign, and that the other couple didn't kick us out means we're good to go here. So we look forward to many more.

[Brit_Pair]

Congratulations on a successful first encounter. Here's to your future adventures!

[krustyandnancy]

At long last, Nancy and I finally had our first experience as swingers! The occasion was a visit to Starz, the most prominent on-premise club in the DC area.

There's a couple we've been chatting with online for a while, who we met through a Yahoo Group we're subscribed to. They were intrigued by our visits to the adult theater we like to get frisky at; we were interested by their endorsement of Starz, since we'd been curious about swingers clubs for a while but were too shy to check them out on our own.

We finally worked out a night we could all agree on, spent a fun hour at the theater (the other couple actually made themselves more at home than we did this time!), then headed to the club. At this point, Starz rotates between a more cozy location in the Virginia suburbs and a bigger club space in a very industrial area of the District. This particular Saturday night, it was at the DC location.

The owner and the lady at the front window were as friendly and welcoming as could be, and although a relatively heavy snowstorm had reduced the usual attendance by more than 50%, it took us no time to start having fun and to take comfort in being around other frisky people just like ourselves. Being soft-swingers, we were more than happy to have same-room sex among others, while the other couple swapped and shared fluidly after a period of dancing and socializing beforehand.

Now that we've finally visited a club for the first time, we are excited to follow it up with many subsequent nights of the sort. Starz is hosting a New Year's Eve party that sounds like a lot of fun, and there's another on-premise club up in the Baltimore area (The Private Affair) that sounds like it's at least as wonderful as Starz is. The only issue right now is that we're pretty shy among people we aren't close to, so I'm still trying to figure out how to overcome that.

Sorry about all the babbling, but I'm still brimming with excitement from the night of discovery we just had and couldn't help sharing. Thanks a ton to everyone here for all of the advice and encouragement to new soft swingers like us! I'm looking forward to a lot more of it.

-- Krusty (and Nancy)

[Botcpl]

We have now gone to "our local" club twice and had almost the same experiance. Our first time was during So.Cal's first rain of the season, but the place was packed. We went with the idea of checking out the scene.

The dancing was great and the atmosphere was very erotic with people in all state of undressed. We wound up in the back with ourselves and releaved some "tenson" and went back for the dancing.

We went back over the weekend and spent almost all of the night dancing and then they had their Ms (something) contest and that was fun to watch.

So Ms Botcpl (= Boat Couple) went from "I don't know," to, "Let's go again." We now have another activity to add to our busy schedule.

We haven't played with anyone yet, but we figure nature will eventually take it's course when all the pieces fall together. Right now the journy is as much fun as the destination (will be).

P (&V)

[NAbeast]

Really just trying to get my feet wet. New to this whole thing starting with this room. So if I mess up please cut me some slack. This is more of a test to see if I am going it right