Was your first swinging encounter with a couple or a single?

[MassageCouple69]

So my wife and I are now looking to find our first experience. This week we began to activlely look for our first couple or single to invite over. We have contacted a few people and have some potential matches.
To me, since this will be our first time, it almost seems more comfortable to start with a single woman or man. I am not sure why, but I think that it would be easier. Any one else feel this way or start off like that? It seems that after we have done that once or twice we could go for a couple.
My wife has no problem with a couple first, and no problems with single males or femals either....
Maybe it is the audience thing...I don't know.
Just wondering if anyone else had their first experience with a single first and then moved to couples, or if most just jumped right in to couples.
So, what did you start with?

[thump29]

We started with a couple that we had known for 9 yrs and then moved on to adding a single male or female. It was easier for us because we knew the other couple real well.

[Brit_Pair]

We started out with a couple, although our primary desire (the opportunity to experience some FF pleasure) could have been achieved through meeting a single person. In our case, we discovered that single bi females are a rare treasure, and that led us to take the couples route. We've no regrets about that. Through playing with a couple from the outset, we've explored and expanded our boundaries far more than we'd anticipated. And we've never once felt pressured to go further than we wanted (although that's probably down to establishing precisely where mutual boundaries lie prior to any meeting).

As for problems with an audience . . . although others have reportedly encountered such difficulties, we've never experienced them. The excitement of the situation has always swept us through.

Single or couple? Choose whatever suits the two of you - and your primary desire(s) - the best.

[BradAndJanet]

When we first started, we were looking for both single guys and couples. Couples seemed harder to find, but single guys were beating down the door, so to speak. Since one of our fantasies (out of many!) was an MFM, we decided to go with a single man for our first encounter, because it did seem to be an easier way to 'break into' swinging. We learned a lesson that 'easier' does not necessarily translate into 'good experience'.

Since then we have discovered that we really prefer to play with couples and that finding the right match is well worth the wait.

-B

[Bedmates]

Originally posted by BradAndJanet
When we first started, we were looking for both single guys and couples. Couples seemed harder to find, but single guys were beating down the door, so to speak. Since one of our fantasies (out of many!) was an MFM, we decided to go with a single man for our first encounter, because it did seem to be an easier way to 'break into' swinging. We learned a lesson that 'easier' does not necessarily translate into 'good experience'.

Since then we have discovered that we really prefer to play with couples and that finding the right match is well worth the wait.

-B

We can say that almost word for word - except our first experience was AWESOME! and we have had ZERO luck finding a couple that we can agree on...

[WesternSwing]

Our first experience was with a couple. Mostly because my wife and the F of the couple met at a party and until then my wife had never thought of a bi experience. Then, she wanted this woman really bad. So it was mostly for the FF action that we got in with this couple, but we knew it was going to happen with a full swap, too. And as has been mentioned, the single bi-fem is hard to come by, so if we want some FF action on a frequent basis it is going to be with couples.

And in a way it's good. We both get some (usually) and neither feels left out, so it eliminates one issue that raises the green eyed monster.

Mr. WS

[sensuality]

Our first experience was with a single female facelick And, now we're more into couples.However, a single female is something we will never pass up if /when the opportunity presents itself

[Bedmates]

We just need to find ways to meet people. We want to, we're just very nervous about it all (and timid). There has to be an easy way to get started! We had a single male come to visit her, but we haven't been able to move forward from there...

[mfmyeahbaby]

single male, my best friend. it was great. she loved it . and we still do it.

[twoplayful2]

We got into this group thing at a club for our first swing. I went outside to the car to get her coat, came back and some couple was hitting on her. Hmm, seems that's almost always how it happens! I'm starting to get a complex about it lol. Well that couple was meeting another couple and they invited us to join them. They were all way easy going and considerate to us as noobs so we had a very good soft-swinging time. Damn, I'm really not that homely, I swear!!

[Newswing2005]

Originally Posted by MassageCouple69

So my wife and I are now looking to find our first experience. This week we began to activlely look for our first couple or single to invite over. We have contacted a few people and have some potential matches.
To me, since this will be our first time, it almost seems more comfortable to start with a single woman or man. I am not sure why, but I think that it would be easier. Any one else feel this way or start off like that? It seems that after we have done that once or twice we could go for a couple.
My wife has no problem with a couple first, and no problems with single males or femals either....
Maybe it is the audience thing...I don't know.
Just wondering if anyone else had their first experience with a single first and then moved to couples, or if most just jumped right in to couples.
So, what did you start with?

Just like us! My wife seem interested every times she saw on HBO swing club. I try to talk her into it, and start looking. It looks like you guy very close to us, we live in Hillsboro. We might able to hook up in near future, gain some experience together. We never have any experience too, it could be our first time.