First time tonight - at a swinger club

Hello all.

Well tonight my wife and I go to our very first swingers party. I am nervous as hell, and hope I don't cancel out at the last moment because of serious nervousness. I hardly slept last night thinking about it. I am a shy person, and my wife is more outgoing. I am 34 and consider myself average.

Cindy is a beautiful 27 year old, long legged, blue eyed, long brown haired, sex goddess

We have talked about it for a few years on how much I would want to have a M/M/F experience with her, and it's gotten to the point she wants it very bad!

She isn't interested in swinging with another couple, she is jealous, and doesn't want me to be with another woman yet. That is fine and understandable, and I have no problem with that. The only fantasies we have really discussed seriously are M/M/F related. She has hinted she would be interested in trying out another woman, but first we will try out the m/m/f thing.

I don't really know what to expect tonight. I know Cindy will be dressed to kill wearing her short skirt, low-cut shirt, and her sexy black stockings. She will be a head turner, but I just wonder if there will be any couples willing to share half of themselves, while the other half watches us 3 in action? Or maybe there will be a few single guys to choose from?

Also how are the orgy sex rooms at these parties? Would we be allowed to go in there and just have sex with each other while watching the action? Or are the orgy sex rooms just that, everyone participates?

Everyone have a good one, and wish me luck!
Chris

[Alura]

Good Luck, Chris and Cindy!

We're looking forward to hearing from y'all tomorrow!

Cheers and Smiles,
Alura

[ 01-26-2002: Message edited by: Alura ]

[LIZA]

I would definitely seek out single men (as long as your club allows them!)

Telling a couple that the wife can only watch because your wife is too jealous for her to share you.........that will probably go over like a lead balloon!

[Chris]

Thanks Alura and Liza

And good point Liza! I don't know what I was thinking, just maybe that some couples get into that sort of thing, but probably not many at all

Three hours to go before time to get ready for the new couples orientation.(nerves a wreck)

But my wife said it best. Just relax, and whatever happens, happens. We are going to have fun, and will have fun!

[Atlanta43]

Hmmm...never saw an orgy room at a club...tell me, which clud are you guys off to?? Sounds cool :-)...good luck and give us a full report!!!!!

A and L

[Chris]

Okay, just got back home from the swingers party and here is the story of our first swinging experience. It maybe kind of long, but this is my story. Might as well write it now while all the info is fresh in my mind.

We arrived to check-in at the hotel at around 7:05. There was a semi-long line there, and we filled out the necessary paperwork. We got the hotel keys and soon discovered we didn't get a smoking room as requested. No biggie, as we did get a room with an outside balcony so that would suffice.

We arrived at the new couples orientation at around 7:37. They basically went over stuff that we had already researched such as no means no, have respect for everybody, and so on and so on. First impression was what a diverse crowd it was.

They then took us on a tour of the various theme rooms. Sorry if I forget the exact names they called these rooms, but here were the themes:

1. Tent room- This room just had a tent set up in it. A camping indoor kind of setting.

2. Swing room- This room consisted of a harness hooked up to a horizontal metal bar over a bed. A woman could get in the harness and be pretty wide spread open. A lot of possibilities for this

3. Under the sea room: Basically a room with a LOT of feathers and different types of fabrics and colorful lighting.

4. Dark room- This room was just as it sounds, a dark room. No lights, so you couldn't really see who was touching you. Turning the lights on was forbidden.

5. Massage room- A guy with a massage table. A woman could go here for a great massage with oil put all over her body, by who knows how many hands

6. Sybian room- A very powerful vibrator in the middle of the bed that a woman could sit on or do other stuff with. It looked like it was powered by a 12,000 volt power supply.

After the tour of the rooms, we left the hotel and went out for dinner. We didn't eat all day so we were starving and needed a few mixed drinks to loosen us up. We also bought a 12 pack of Michelob to bring back with us.

Now for the good stuff.

We arrived back at the hotel at around 10:00 pm. The whole 2nd floor was reserved and anything goes, such as sex in the hallway if we wanted too. As I mentioned in my very first post, Cindy was dressed to kill. Without a doubt, one of the sexiest girls there. We just mingled, did some dirty dancing, and decided to go check out some of the rooms.

First room we went to was the tent room. The room was empty, and we got inside the tent and Cindy started giving me one of her great blowjobs. A few couples walked in, and ended up leaving. A single guy came in, and Cindy was on all fours sucking me. He asked if he could just touch her ass, he said she had a great ass. I asked Cindy if this were okay, and she said yes, without turning around. That was all he did just touch her ass, but it turned her on. I came soon after, and we left the room to go mingle.

We met an attractive Russian lady, I'll call her Natasha, and her husband, I'll call him Steve, on the balcony of the hospitality suite while we were taking a smoking break. She was 27, and he looked to be in his mid 30's. Steve made a comment that if Cindy took off her dress she would take off her clothes. We could tell she was shy. They left, I think he wanted to take peeks in the rooms to see what was going on.

We ran into them a little while later into a small crowd of about 10 people in the hallway. Cindy reminded him what he had said about her taking off her dress and asked him if he still wanted that. He said yes, and Cindy took off a few straps, and told Natasha she needed to take something off. There were too many people around, and we could tell the Natasha wasn't interested, because she was shy.

I went back to the room to take a smoke, and Cindy stayed behind. Next thing I know, Cindy shows up in the room with Natasha. Cindy totally took control of the situation, and explained to Natasha the problem was that her husband wasn't listening to her. She asked Natasha what SHE wanted to do. Natasha said she wanted to be with her and to suck my cock. So Cindy left the room to find Steve and bring him back.

They came back, and Cindy told him, in a serious and joking kind of way, that he should be ashamed of himself for not listening to her desires. Natasha and Cindy got undressed and this was Cindy's first bi-experience. They started doing each other while we watched. Next thing I know, Cindy tells Steve to get undressed so she could suck his cock. Watching her suck Steve was very erotic! She is a great cocksucker. She is a woman that sucks cock because she likes to, not because it is a required act or anything. She was really getting into it and moaning while she was sucking it. Also, Natasha was sucking him too.

I got undressed and joined in. Natasha started sucking my cock, and by this time Cindy was sitting on Steve's face getting eaten. I told Cindy I wanted to fuck her, so she got on all fours and sucked his cock while I fucked her.

That was about it, our first swinging experience. I didn't fuck Natasha, and she didn't fuck Steve. It basically consisted of a hot oral sex foursome.

There were a few problems, and it wasn't perfect. He wasn't that good at oral sex, he sucked too hard, and the very same thing went for Natasha. She was a very hard cocksucker, almost to the point of me being sore today. The other problem was that when it was over and we were on the balcony, he was too touchy touchy with Cindy. Had his hands around Cindy holding her, while his wife was standing next to him. Natasha eventually noticed this, and grabbed his hands to put around her.

They left the room, and Cindy and I fucked again and crashed out.

All in all, I would say it was a great first experience. Cindy had her first bi, and we had our first foursome. We wouldn't be interested in doing it with this couple again, but it was great for the first time!

Sorry for being so long

[ 01-27-2002: Message edited by: Chris ]

[ 01-27-2002: Message edited by: Chris ]

[Chris]

Also, one of the best things about this experience is how much in control Cindy was.
Cindy is a GREAT social person, and a very good talker. She could tell Natasha was shy, so she took Natasha to the side, and had a girl girl talk with her. Next thing I knew, Natasha was loosened up, and we knew what she wanted. Cindy made her feel very comfortable, and that is what it took to make this happen.

Can't wait until next month

[danc694u]

And you didn't try the sybian room!?!?!

That alone may have been worth the money you spent going out LOL.

[Chris]

No, we didn't hit the Sybian room. Considering this was our very first time, we just wanted to get our feet wet and try to feel comfortable. Remember, I was an absolute nervous wreck for days leading up to this event.

However, she definitely wants to try the Sybian room, as well as the swing room. I think we will at the next party

BTW, I read your tips on your webpage, and they make a lot of sense. But what about this:

Next party if we run into this couple, and we aren't interested, (which we won't be) what is the best way to get this message across? Just tell them we are looking for something different? Doesn't sound too nice, so what is the best way to handle that?

[ 01-27-2002: Message edited by: Chris ]

[danc694u]

Excellent question Wish there was an emotionally easy answer to it.

We handle situations blountly. That may seem a bit rude or cruel. But, it's the only way we know how. We try not to hurt any feelings as best we can. But it doesn't always work out that way though.

Odds are, they may have their eyes on another couple the next time you see them.

Is there a reason for not wanting to do a repeat? Not that you really need one.

[JustAskJulie]

Chris, this sounds like a pretty interesting club. What/where was it? If it is one that we have listed here, be sure to submit a review of the club to be added to the site.

Glad to hear things worked out well for you, even better than you had hoped (in some ways) from the sounds of it.

As far as your question about running into the other couple. I have to agree there really is no easy way to handle that. It's a situation we've all been in I'm sure. Chances are tho if you don't go through the motions of exchanging #'s, etc then there won't be a lot of expectation on their part, so you may not have much to worry about. If you run into them again, be nice but don't make any moves for anything, greet them and move on.

[Vacouple]

Chris ,
I notice you'll are also from Virginia. Where was this swingers club ??
And do they have a web page ?
Thanks

[Chris]

The club was Hampton Roads Couple. They meet monthly in Yorktown. Their webpage is at:
http://www.hrcouples.com

I will be glad to write a review about this club, but I really don't know how it compares to other clubs considering this was our very first club adventure

I will do my best though

[ 01-28-2002: Message edited by: Chris ]

[Vacouple]

Chris ,
Thanks for the info. I will check out their site.