Guess What We Did This Weekend;)

[Wonderful2nite]

A bit long, as more than just the experience, we wanted to share our experience of getting to the experience as well. So if you're interested in a lengthy narrative, here you go~

So... Back in December, after talking for months about what group situation(s) we’d be comfortable with, and all the ways we could pursue bringing another(s) into our sex lives, we decided to start we wanted a 3way with another man, and started with a post on Craigslist. We knew going in CL would be a difficult proposition, but not knowing how big a part of our lives this will become, we didn’t really want to drop any money on a pay site, and hassle with the profile setup and all that goes into a dating site. Our post was long and specific, (I’m sure not a shocker if you’re reading this), and really portrayed we weren’t just looking for a wham bam quickie, but a meet and greet, followed by another date if the chemistry was there. I think showing some intelligence and a bit of flirtation in the post really helped get responses from the type of people we were looking for, vs. some of the two line descriptions of those just looking for sex (nothing wrong with that, just not where we were at). After narrowing down our list, the meetings we setup kept getting canceled. So with that first post not working out, early this month we figured we’d try it again.

After weeding thru all the replies a second time around, and trading some emails with quite a few, we eventually settled on and met a couple guys for pre-dates if you will. Both had many great qualities, but one stood out, and this past Saturday we saw him again, having him over for dinner and drinks at our place. He was also new to any sort of group activity, but the nerves and uneasiness that were there, when discussing that aspect of why we were all together during the first meet and greet, seemed to be gone very quickly

After dinner, probably one too many drinks, and some flirty fun talk, the Mrs. got things going when we found ourselves standing in the kitchen, with her between us rubbing both of our arms, with the cutest smile on her face while looking to a fro, telling us how sexy we were. We then quickly proceeded to the bedroom, where she sat on the edge of the bed and asked who would help her out of her boots.. In no time both of us had helped her out of them, which then allowed all her, and our, clothes to fall off fast. Our guest and I then took our time caressing her all over, rubbing all her sensitive areas, and covering her in kisses. The look on her face when she found herself with both nipples covered by a mouth was amazing! She was so completely turned on, which in turn had me aroused beyond anything I could have imagined from this.

After quite a bit of the rubbing and caressing, there was only so much pleasure she could get from rubbing her crotch up to meet which ever hand found its way down there, and we all knew she needed more. So it was at this time our guest began to focus on rubbing her clit, which quickly led to him fingering her. In no time she was bucking her hips, not just bending up and down to meet him, but actually planting her feet, and lifting herself to meet him full force to get all he had to offer. Thrusting like this is nothing new, but it’s just not an all the time thing, and again, really showed just how into all of this she was.

The heavy petting quickly progressed to him going down on her for some oral pleasure, which to both our delight, he was as gifted as I, and knew how to find, and press her button just right. And he took care of her so well, she definitely wanted to return the favor, and after some playful teasing on her knees between his legs, started to lick him up and down, and give him a fantastic BJ. He was obviously in ecstasy, and let us know, which came as no surprise because without a doubt, the Mrs. is the most gifted giver in this way I’ve ever known. As she was taking her time with him, I wanted to give her a little something too, so at this point I got up behind her and gave her her first penetration of the evening, slowly working my way in and out, so she could give him the best experience possible without me knocking her around.

So here we all were, the 3 of us all receiving pleasure at one time for the first time of the night, and what an unbelievable sight it was, to take her from behind, and watch her take him at the same time, bobbing her head up and down and stroking him in kind! So hot!

It didn’t take long though before I wanted to see him take her, so being in no rush to cum myself, I laid back down next to them, and watched as she blew him a bit more. She certainly was into giving him oral though, and was in no rush to get on to doing it with him. But in all good time she found herself on her back, with him wrapped up and kneeling in front of her. And then it happened.., she raised her hips off the bed to meet him again, he grabbed her by the hips to help support her, and then slid it in!! There She was fucking him!! And when I say fucking him, I mean fucking him It was just his style, very different from me, more aggressive, more pounding, but all good as she certainly liked the mix-up, especially in this situation. And she definitely fucked him right back! And what a sight it was, I loved it, every minute of it, every position they tried. And I could tell from the looks she gave with the twinkle in her eye, and smile on her face, from the moans and groans she gave, to the little dirty talk she spoke, to the pelvic thrust she continued throughout the night.., that she loved it too

So on and on we went, for two and a half hours. Way too much to describe here. In many ways it was way better than we’d ever imagined it in fantasy! She was SO HOT! I’ll never forget midway thru, lying next to her, watching the look on her face as it meandered thru all the expressions as she built to a racking orgasm, and came from him giving her oral. Amazing! And such an incredible turn-on!!

The only real downside to the evening, if you can call it that, and the only reason it wasn’t better than any way ever imagined in fantasy, was the unfortunate reality of safe-sex. But in this day and age we feel we cannot be too careful. And though condoms have their limitations in disease prevention, they do offer significant protection above and beyond bareback in our minds. But the condoms certainly led to a bad taste in the mouth for the Mrs., and a diminished sensation and small performance problem at one point for our guest, which contributed to it lasting as long as it did, which in turn led to a bit of soreness for the Mrs. the next day. But still, a great time was had by all!

We certainly feel taking our time, from the two of us discussing at length what works for us and what doesn’t, to the weeding thru responses, to trading emails with many, to the meet and greet with a few to find the right guy, all really contributed to making this first time a most memorable one, for all the right reasons! And for it being so great, I thank you on this board, and other boards and articles out there like it, for your contribution to all the great advice on how proceed, and how to do this a right way, that worked so well for us!

[funcoupledayton]

Wow great story! So glad you had a good experience.

You might want to try the SKYN condoms, they're non-latex so you can whip them off and go right to oral. I don't think they taste like anything at all. They are also better for heat transfer so they feel more natural. They have a regular and large size.

Latex condoms do taste bad, but condoms with spermicide are the worst! Spermicide is also very irritating.

So happy for you! Thanks for sharing your hot time.

[doug39]

This story sounds too good to be true.

[Wonderful2nite]

Thanks for the tip on SKYN condoms, we'll definately be looking for those!!

And yes, I must agree, it all played out too good to be true! After reading some of the other experiences on here I know just how lucky we were

[doug39]

Your experience is basically what I want for my wife and I.

I too want to meet the guy and get to know him before he touches my wife. But the bad side of that is that feelings between my wife and the guy could develop.

The other side is to pick up a stranger and fuck him and never see him again; but that is scary.

[Wonderful2nite]

Originally Posted by doug39

Your experience is basically what I want for my wife and I.

I too want to meet the guy and get to know him before he touches my wife. But the bad side of that is that feelings between my wife and the guy could develop.

The other side is to pick up a stranger and fuck him and never see him again; but that is scary.

I know my wife and I have such a serious bond that the thought of her developing feelings for another is not an issue for either of us, at all, and if it was, we wouldn't go there. If you're not both there, the first question may be why would you want to risk her over something like this?

With that said, if it's not a real risk, but just something in the back of your mind.., and not hers.., I would recomend trading emails to get a feeling about the person, where they are at in life, and do the meet and greet first, to be sure it's someone you are both comfortable with.

By taking your time, and being selective about who you invite into an intimate relationship, I think you could put yourself at ease if the feelings of her developing feelings for another are from you. And if you are selective, and chose someone that's in a completely different place in life, (just out of a long term relationship, lives somewhere else..?) but you all get along, I think you can put your mind to ease, especially since you aren't talking about taking the time and getting to know someone intimately, just experiencing them intimately.

And if you go into this with it not about her being with him, but it's the two of you being with him, more like a toy, that could help too..?

[doug39]

Yes it all sounds good on paper but actually trying it will be the test.

[tetero]

Damn, hot story and glad it worked out for you two. I'm still trying to convince my wife lolx.

[Coffeeblack]

Damn, that was HOT!