Single male's first mfm

[jusfun2003]

Been having the fantasy of a mfm for awhile and tonight it may happen. Chatted online with the husband for about 3 hours and exchanged pictures (me and his wife). he ask if maybe i would like to come to his house tonight, . Is this normal, do couples ask others to meet in there home after chattin online? Also, gotta say Im quite nurvous or excited (maybe both). The opportunity is here, should i take it. Any advice. his is my first swinging experence. Thanks

[TNT]

Personally I would never go to anyone's home or have them come to my home for a first time meet.

Pictures do not always tell the truth as well as chatting with someone over the computer is totally different than talking to them in person.

Teresa

[DragonsLair]

I wouldn't feel comfortable going to someone's home for a first time meeting either. I'd prefer someplace like a restaurant. Have a nice meal or just drinks and get to know them without any pressure. Then after the first meeting, if all went well, then maybe a meeting at their house.

If you don't feel comfortable with their suggestion, let them know you'd like to meet elsewhere first. Trust your instincts.

Good luck and let us know what happens. Especially those of us who are still waiting for our first experiences. lol We learn so much from folks like you.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

[Roxysbayou]

I'd have to agree. It sounds strange that they would even invite you to there home like that. I wouldn't go, I would ask them to meet in a public place first. That would allow you to be sure that everything is good without having to worry about feeling obligated or what have you.

[jusfun2003]

Welll, I did decide to go a meet them. There were really nice people and new to swinging also. They have had other 3some though, so I was the newbie. They did email a pic of the lady, so i had an idea what she looked like. As I waited for there calll I felt realy excited and couious. Getting there I was nervous though. Felt weird the way things started,I guess because of lack of flirting or whatever. Had no problem gettin it up at first but as things went on found it harder to keep it up (took a lolng time to cum). Anyway, I was the last to finshi, then we just laid in bed for a good while till I had to go. I did enjoy myself and they said they did also, but wasnt all i expected (now I know). They did ask me to call them back though, guess thats a good sign. Anyway, think its going to be awhile before the next. Thanks for the advice

[OhioCouple]

Wow, I didn't see this until this morning. Everyone else's advice would have been the same as mine when it came to meeting someone for the first time at their home.

I'm glad that it turned out 'okay' for you and what you experienced with the up and down behavior of your 'tool' is not uncommon at all. What I am curious about though is you said that it wasn't what you expected. Do you care to elaborate further on that?

[Perseus]

Originally posted by jusfun2003
Welll, I did decide to go a meet them. There were really nice people and new to swinging also. They have had other 3some though, so I was the newbie. They did email a pic of the lady, so i had an idea what she looked like. As I waited for there calll I felt realy excited and couious. Getting there I was nervous though. Felt weird the way things started,I guess because of lack of flirting or whatever. Had no problem gettin it up at first but as things went on found it harder to keep it up (took a lolng time to cum). Anyway, I was the last to finshi, then we just laid in bed for a good while till I had to go. I did enjoy myself and they said they did also, but wasnt all i expected (now I know). They did ask me to call them back though, guess thats a good sign. Anyway, think its going to be awhile before the next. Thanks for the advice

First times with anyone are hard enough to deal with. Nervousness of new people and such, through in being at their house and being in that kind of situation for the first time, I think it probably worked out as best as it could have. I would bet if you do get together again it will be mind blowing because a lot of the anxiety will be gone. Do let us know if you do as I am sure I would love to hear about it.

Perseus