First Steps.....

[Beehive4u]

Currently this is what's going on now..we have started to take our first steps...ME and my wife have been married for 10 years now..but we have been together since 19 years, since high School..in high school she was with my best friend...they broke up and I came into picture...my best friend and us we hang around alot now...he is also married...I know he a thing for my wife..she is a very sexy and seducing woman. For past 5 years we have been fantasizing about having sex with other couples....I recently started to fantasize her with my best friend. During high school my wife told me that she used to give him hand job and he use to lick her pussy...it was mainly oral...she also told me he has a large cock...and no i am not small..haha...well...recently we both have been fantasizing on how he would do her. This makes our sex session so hot. I told her that I want to see him doing her...she has agreed.
Last week we called him over for some drinks at a night club. My wife dressed up really sexy and hot. He came alone and I saw him sitting at a table when we entered the bar. I told her to take seat with him while i get some drinks. When I was buying drinks I saw his face near my wifes ears. I took the drinks to the table and we drank quite a few bottles. My wife asked me for a dance but I could not. So she took him. While dancing my wife told me that she felt his cock and it was hard and think. She brushed her hands on it a few times just to make him hot. He also rubbed it in between her butt while dancing. Later in the night she told me that he whispered in her ear that she was looking hot and he was turned on by her. Later that nite we had the dirtiest sex ever. My wife is doing this for me. We are trying to get him slowly. I would like to watch them do it infront of me. But its a long way to go. My wife wants to go slow but we have fixed another date for a dance nite out. This time I told my wife to really seduce him and make him masturbate while she watches. Lets see if this works out...i will update soon...

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by Beehive4u

...he is also married... My wife wants to go slow but we have fixed another date for a dance nite out. This time I told my wife to really seduce him and make him masturbate while she watches. Lets see if this works out...i will update soon...

It's not going to work out well if his wife isn't aware of what is going on and approving.

Back up, slow down, have an adult conversation. As hot as it is to seduce someone else and play with the dancing fire, getting him to cheat on his wife means:

1. Your wife is playing with a man who is willing to indiscriminately hurt his wife
2. The other man's wife is going to be victimized by your actions, and you will be directly responsible for her pain
3. If they have kids, you are victimizing the kids
4. You are both being incredibly selfish

If the other wife DOES know and approve, then fine. Sounds wonderful. Though, I'd be a bit concerned about the possibilities of re-igniting old fires between them, at the risk of your own marriage.

[Beehive4u]

Originally Posted by bbarnsworth

It's not going to work out well if his wife isn't aware of what is going on and approving.

Back up, slow down, have an adult conversation. As hot as it is to seduce someone else and play with the dancing fire, getting him to cheat on his wife means:

1. Your wife is playing with a man who is willing to indiscriminately hurt his wife
2. The other man's wife is going to be victimized by your actions, and you will be directly responsible for her pain
3. If they have kids, you are victimizing the kids
4. You are both being incredibly selfish

If the other wife DOES know and approve, then fine. Sounds wonderful. Though, I'd be a bit concerned about the possibilities of re-igniting old fires between them, at the risk of your own marriage.

Of course we are going to involve his wife...she has to be aware or this becomes cheating not swinging....secondly swinging life style can reignite fires between anyone....there has to be a line drawn and my wife and I have discussed it...first finding out if he is interested...step two talking to him about our plans...getting his Mrs involved too....victimizing is strong word to use in this society....also swinging is all about sharing and sharing is not selfishness....

[slevin]

Originally Posted by Beehive4u

Of course we are going to involve his wife...she has to be aware or this becomes cheating not swinging....secondly swinging life style can reignite fires between anyone....there has to be a line drawn and my wife and I have discussed it...first finding out if he is interested...step two talking to him about our plans...getting his Mrs involved too....victimizing is strong word to use in this society....also swinging is all about sharing and sharing is not selfishness....

Trying to seduce him, then involving his wife is just asking for trouble. Bring it up with them and discuss it as a group. Or have the girls talk, or bring it up with your friend and tell him to discuss it with his wife.

Otherwise you'll be back here in about 6 months with a story about how your friend fell in love with your wife, lots of drama, his wife finding out and being pissed.....