she had her first experiance with a girl

[2LFM]

Well this is matt, I am writting about Krisy's first real experiance with a girl.

The girl in question is a close friend of mine. We all went out to atlanta, went to a haunted house, and then a strip club. I gave them $40 and told them to bring me back a stripper, Well the got themselves dances. After the whole night, I never got a dance, but the friend danced with nearly every girl in the place. I had a great time just watching them have fun. And I honestly think the dancers enjoyed them also. The girls seemed to get bigger tips from the guys around them when they had one of my ladies dancing with them.

So I had a really great time. I had not expectations of anything happening. I was just out having a good time with a friend. Well On the drive home which is about an hour long, we got to talking about girl on girl fun. The friend admitted she always was curious but never had the nerve. Never had a girl she could trust, and didnt want anyone to think she was gay. So I suggested she kiss my wife. She was dumb founded. and told me I had no right to speak for her. So I stoped speaking and let them talk. about 20 mins from the friends house my wife layed her seat back, and my friend leaned over the top of her and started kissing her. The got very into it. I could tell they were both very much enjoying themselves. It really was alot more involved than i thought it would be. I didnt mind, I was just doing my best to watch the road. My wife had kissed girls befor, but never like this. this was intense.
We made it to the friends place, and went inside. We all talked for awhile and were discussing that they should see where it goes. My friend got the impression that I was trying to get a 3 some. And I told her that I wasnt interested in it, that I just wanted the 2 of them to enjoy themselves. so I went to the door, krisy came over to me, and I told her I wouldnt really leave, that I would just go wait in the car. She was ok with that and stayed. About 10 mins later she came out to the car. She said my friend was in the shower, and she wanted to stay. but she was nervous. I told her there was no reason to be, and that I really wanted her to go back in and stay the night. I really wanted to see her have a good time. So I left her there. she went inside having no idea what if anything they would end up doing.

I drive home, and spend the whole night letting my imagination run wild. The next morning I wake up to a text message from my friend.
"OMG Matt I am sooo sorry"
why?
"I sooo hooked up with your wife, Im sorry"
Dont be, I left her there. I wanted it to happen, did yall have a good time?
"Yeah we had a great time, your wife is a godess"
do you regret it?
"no not at all"
well then I am glad yall enjoyed yourself. I promised you a good night.

When my wife got home later that day she to said she had a great time. after a few weeks of talking about it, I think it has changed what we are looking for. We had been wanting a girl to have a 3 some with, or possibly a couple to swing with. Now we have talked about it, and think we are looking for a girl for krisy. A girlfriend. Someone that she can have a real, long term relationship with. That she can enjoy in and out of the bedroom. If they happen to want to suprise me one day with a FMF, then great, If I never get to be involved with it I am fine with that. All I want is it to be a girl I can enjoy being around and be comfortable with, so that we can spend time with the 3 of us together, and krisy doesnt have to feel like she has to keep the 2 relationships away from each other the way she might if it were a girl I didnt get along with.

Now we have a problem. Where do we find a girl who would be interested in a relationship with a married women, and more over, where might we meet a girl our age. It seems that we find girls who are either a little to old for us, or couples who want to swing. when we have met single girls our age they have been emotional wrecks. I honestly think we would even be ok with a girl that was not single, as long as she was not trying to set anything up with the hubby and he was ok with the girls having a relationship.

I am dumbfounded by how drastically one night has changed our outlook. I truely think that a relationship with a girl would provide her a fulfillment that I can't. We are working on the wording for her a new profile on Swing Lifestyle. anyone interested in giving us some feedback on it?

[Miss Sunshine]

Huh?

[2LFM]

not sure what the huh references. if it is in reference to the request for feed back, we are looking for someone we could email with what we are thinking about putting in her new profile, and get some feedback on it, to help us make it more attractive, or clear up any questions about it.

[Additude]

Huh? What?

I think that now you realize something your are seeking. I think you need to carry on as before, only this time keeping your mind and senses open to this opportunity.

This aint like you can run down to the corner drug store and get one off the shelf. I know that you know that, my point is that it is going to take time, patience and perserverance.

This isn't just going to drop into your lap either. Of course it is possible that it can drop into your lap, but chances are that it will not. It is out there, somewhere in the social jungle just waiting for you to find it. But your going to have to search for it. It's not common.

Your best bet is not to limit yourselves and look exclusively for what you seek, but rather to play the field and keep yourselves open to opportunities. When one presents itself, investigate.

Join AFF, Swing Lifestyle and other swinger type sites. I have seen single ladies (Unicorns) looking for such a relationship on those sites. Maybe you'll find one near you

[2LFM]

Thanks for the input. we definatly plan to keep open minds. Not to say we are up for anything, but we would definatly consider anything. We will likely continue to look into swinging, if only soft swap, we definatly will not be getting tunnel vision. After all it was an unexpected evening that resulted in us finding something that deeply interested us. We definatly do not antisipate finding a girlfriend for krisy will be an easy task, but if it is meant to be we will find a girl that meets her desires.