1st encounter Bait & Switch

12-06-2001, 08:14 PM

We had our 1st encounter Saturday, but had a problem from the start. HE brought a 'substitute' partner with. And this one was butt-ugly! We didnt say anything and let everything happpen. Well he sure liked mine a lot and I spent most of the time watching him with my partner. I had a problem..I didnt get it up..probably from nerves or cause she was ugly..ha ha.. is this a normal problem on the 1st time...I think it was nerves.[/LIST]

**TNT** · 12-06-2001, 11:40 PM

Why did you continue with the evening if it was not the couple you were expecting? The biggest rule in swinging is No means No. If you were not attracted to the female of the couple and did not feel comfortable a polite, thanks, but no thanks would have been sufficent.

Teresa

JIM & Jodi · 12-14-2001, 11:47 AM

Sounds like a bait and switch to me, he know his partner was not as attractive as the one you saw the pictures of, hence the switch - our thoughts, BAD BAD BAD, It's OK to leave immediately at that point; any direct misrepresentations like that are just unacceptable.

danc694u · 12-14-2001, 12:12 PM

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Originally posted by <doublefun4u53>:
<STRONG>We had our 1st encounter Saturday, but had a problem from the start. HE brought a 'substitute' partner with.</STRONG>

Damn! How did we miss this one?

First off... HE LIED!! If we go to meet someone. It better be EXACTLY who we saw photos of!

Second... There is no second. Because they would both still be sitting at the table...alone.

Hell, I wouldn't even worry about not getting it up. Because there wouldn't be anything to get up for IMHO!

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12-06-2001, 08:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
<doublefun4u53> Guest Posts: n/a	1st encounter Bait & Switch We had our 1st encounter Saturday, but had a problem from the start. HE brought a 'substitute' partner with. And this one was butt-ugly! We didnt say anything and let everything happpen. Well he sure liked mine a lot and I spent most of the time watching him with my partner. I had a problem..I didnt get it up..probably from nerves or cause she was ugly..ha ha.. is this a normal problem on the 1st time...I think it was nerves.[/LIST]
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12-06-2001, 11:40 PM	#2 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Why did you continue with the evening if it was not the couple you were expecting? The biggest rule in swinging is No means No. If you were not attracted to the female of the couple and did not feel comfortable a polite, thanks, but no thanks would have been sufficent. Teresa
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12-14-2001, 11:47 AM	#3 (permalink)
JIM & Jodi Active Member Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 22 Location: Lansdale, Pennsylvania	Sounds like a bait and switch to me, he know his partner was not as attractive as the one you saw the pictures of, hence the switch - our thoughts, BAD BAD BAD, It's OK to leave immediately at that point; any direct misrepresentations like that are just unacceptable.