meeting with single girl, left me uncomfy ? NOT ! anymore...

[1of2]

Hi everyone ,
for anyone that has been following my story about my thoughts on the single female, well we had our meeting , and i must say, iam the sort of girl who likes to stand with her toes of the edge.... well last night, i jumped !!!! and this is my tale.....
Lisa arived for dinner half hour early which i didnt mind , as it gave me another chance to chat with her, about things , while bill was still in the shower. Dinner went well, and we had a few drinks and a few laughs , and the topic turned to sex , like it was exspected to .
We ate desert and then headed up stairs , and i must admit , i wasnt nervy or anything , my mood was good , and feeling very much at ease. We watched a dvd for awhile and then , i thought my lord is anyone going to make that move......? So i leaned over to Bill and said something to him , looking into his eyes , and gave him a very long and slow kiss, Lisa who was sitting on the otherside, started nibbling at his neck and ear, so i left her to that and kissed his stomache allllll the way down , till i got tohis jeans. I took his cock in my mouth and started to blow him , he was in heaven , as Lisa is blond like me , and i think he thought he went to heaven , and he knew it was going to get better, after awhile i invited Lisa to taste him, which she did with eager , and then i kissed him deeply, telling hin , that i loved him , and he loved it. I removed my cloathes and positioned myself over his face , so he could taste me , ( the thought of her sucking on him and me , on his face , was so exciting ).
I asked Lisa if she would like to ride him 1st , she said yes and climbed on board , it was great watching and touching them , both as they where fucking, then we changed spots and i sujested we move to the bed. I rode him ,until i orgasmed , while she played and sucked on my nipples , it was wonderfull. Bill then took her on her kness and fucked her hard while i pinched and played with her nipples , then moved anround the back so i could play with her and him at the same time. ( iam naughty )
Then , he took me from behind , and did me, ( i asked lisa if i could touch her , as this was my first real girl exsperience and hers to, so both of us where in charted waters here ) she moved around and spread her legs on front of me , and i began to taste her , i was imagining Bills viwe, him fucking me , and watching me with my head between her legs ( by the way she said i was a natural.. hmmm, who knew ????? ). Time went on with more playing laughing and talking while we where enjoying eachother, and then Bill was ready to cum , we both sucked and played with him , until he was ready to cum , i asked her to swallow and she did , it was an amazing sight to see another woman drink his cum, such a turn on .
anyway so thats what happend, and i learnt some very valuable lessons...
1. Iam no longer Bi curioues , ( think i have past that stage )
2. dont be so judgemental
3. relax and enjoy the moment
4. and even though sexually, i wasnt the center of attention , i loved seeing my man happy
5. while it was happening i had no fears or thoughts , and i fell in love with my man even more, and he told me the same after when it was our cuddle and alone time , made it more special.
6. at one stage when i was going down on him and she and he where watching , he was telling her how beautifull iam , and how much he loved me
So there you go , alll that worry over nothing, she had no motives, so agendas, just wanted to try the couple thing , and exsplore the g/g thing
anyway , thanks for having a read hope you enjoyed my first fmf, as much as did Nerida xxoo

[LFM2]

I'm glad it went well and you enjoyed the evening with them.

Thanks for sharing your experience!!

[JustAskJulie]

I'm really glad to hear that it went so well. I have been following your other threads, so as soon as I saw this thread I had to read it. I've got to ask, what was the Tipping Point? What made you finally feel comfortable with this whole idea? And with this girl in particular?

[sweet_tna]

Congrats! Thanks for posting an update, and I'm glad to read that your experience was so positive.

=)

[1of2]

Hi Julie,
iam not sure there was a tipping point, i guess iam the sort of person who tends to think about stuff and over analize ???, and in between 1st meeting her and last night , Bill and i spoke often about it , and i was able to voice any concerns i had, and he listend and we talked them through, made me feel and think more clearly. like i said i like to take things to the next level , but never totaly out of my comfort zone , would never do anything , that i thought would be detremental to others or myself.
But one thing that dose supprize me about this hole thing is this. Naturaly iam sub, and Bill always takes the lead , but now we have had two swinging exsperiences and both times i have taken the lead, that puzzels me , as iam not like that sexually ????. And when it comes to the girl thing, i have always been interested, but in my previous life as wife and mother with my ex, was never allowed , to think , alittle outside the square of what my ex husband thought was the norm. So..... i guess , i just went with what, i felt was right at the time , and let my intuition guied me , once it wasnt so clouded by thoughts of anger, jealousy, self doubt, and what at the time to me was a very threating situation. just enjoyed the moment .
By the way thanks for taking such a interest in my situation , thoughts and feelings
Nerida xxoo

[cocpl2007]

Sounds like a great experience for all involved. Thank you for sharing it with those of us who were not there! ;-)

[cordovaswingcpl]

as far as you taking the lead,

in 1 on 1 situations guys normally take the lead. but out of respect in swinging situations i think that most respectful guys let the women take the lead.

david

[2LFM]

I agree with david. Not that we have alot of experiance we have never really swaped, but when we do fool around with other girls, I may encourage her to make a move, but I never try to drive. I let everything go at her pace.

As for your little story. I loved it. I hope that we can experiance such a good time!!! I am glad it worked out well for you. You say you are not curious anymore. does this mean you are just bi, or you realized you are not intrested in girls?

[1of2]

hi,
since then i have been with a few more women , and each time i have thoroughly enjoyed each exsperience, even the full on dominatrix one , ( even though my first thought was RUN ! ). A ladys touch is alot differnt from men , and we all just seem to know what we like, wich makes things alot easier. I never feel shy or self concioues with another woman, and my partner loves to watch, and i know that gives him a great deal of pleasure, and he never intrudes only joins in if invited, wich i think shows a great deal of respect, so yes i know iam bi, and iam free to be that in my relationship, and i think iam very lucky to be with someone who lets me be me. ( wish i met him when i was 25 ). And when we meet cpls now, i love to start with the lady 1st, to me its a very special and intamit time, just us.
When i look back at my original thread i cant belive how much my attituides have changed and not just as far as swinging gos either, seems i look at everything alot simpler now ( we as humans can be silly duffas sometimes )
nerida xxoo