Our first threesome

[DigginIt]

So, those who are reading this, it’s a two part thread and in reverse order. We decided to post our “bad” experience first even though it happened on the last night of three nights at an on premise club in New Orleans. These three nights were our first swing experience, EVER!

We are sure this is tame by most standards but it was exciting for us all the same!

We went to the club the first night on a Thursday and the club was pretty slow. The upside was that it really gave us a chance to explore the club without any pressure. There were perhaps 13 couples in the place which wasn’t really a bad thing for us on our first night. Unfortunately, we were just too new to really approach anyone. We ended up spending a lot of time talking with the bartender and were able to ask a lot of questions.

While we didn’t connect with anyone that night, we did go up to a semi-private room and we had several people who watched us have sex which was a lot of fun. We have been caught before by surprise by others completely unintentionally (umm….really) but this was our first true/intentional voyeuristic display. We have had a pretty wild “vanilla” lifestyle up to this point but being voyeuristic was still very sexy. We finished up and then went back to the hotel and just talked about all of the possibilities. Sorry no details, saving page space for the details on night number two.

The second night we had our minds set that we were going to talk to other couples. We met a really nice couple from TX pretty quickly but we didn’t quite fell the connection so I politely told the couple. About 30 minutes later a single guy came into the club. I hate to sound judgmental here but all of the single guys we had seen in the club previously just seemed to be “slimy” or just dirty old men. This guy was very atypical.

He was very young, in his mid-twenties. The bartender told us that the guy was new to the club. We had NOT planned on our first experience to be a threesome but I could tell right away that my wife was attracted to him. He did not look like any of the other men in the club. He looked…lost, lol. We decided to walk over and invite him to chat with the two of us.

He was very shy. Almost to the point where we were tempted to ask him what he was doing at the club. If he was putting on a show then we bought it hook, line and sinker. He was under the impression that there would be single girls at the club, which we are sure there are on occasion, but there were none that night.

We had his life story in about 45 minutes and we decided that we were all a fit. We went up to a private room where it was obvious that he was very uncomfortable in the situation. I politely said that there were no expectations and I left the two of them alone for a little bit so they could chat some. I knocked on the door a few minutes later and walked in and my wife asked me if I had gotten lost, lol.

They were still standing where I had left them, at the base of the bed. My wife started kissing him. It was a mixture of uneasiness, anxiety and arousal but I was amazingly, not jealous. I was holding off joining at the moment. My wife would look up from kissing his neck every few minutes to ensure that I was still “okay” in the situation…very important to her. Her dress was a wrap so she untied it and it basically fell off. She had bought a new matching black VS bra and panties which she absolutely looked hot in. They did the whole undress each other thing. It was sexy as hell.

The guy ended up being a little awkward but he had a very good body and a cock that was definitely thicker than mine. The foreplay was much shorter than my wife would have liked and when they actually began to have sex; the poor guy ended up cuming very quickly. He tried to play it off that it was the rubber that killed the erection but the situation was obvious to the both of us. We really felt bad for the guy but we were having a good time despite the trouble.

I undressed and joined the two of them. We both took turns kissing my wife and she was really trying to build the guys confidence back up. I kissed my way down between her legs and began to orally please her. I looked up several times to see him kissing her and her stroking his cock. It was wildly exciting. The excitement of knowing that my wife’s heart was again beating rapidly, just like back in our lustful days, was an incredible turn on.

We had anticipation of other fun things and we still have our silly “check list” of things we want to experience in a threesome but we have plenty of time and it gives us something to look forward to. He was never able to get hard again so I ended up taking my wife from behind while he watched. She still stroked his cock and kissed him while we were having sex. Overall, the experience would have seemed like a failure but we all had a good laugh and had a good time. It was a very good introduction with a very nice guy.

[applevenus]

thank you for sharing

[lustylearning]

I'm glad you weren't disappointed and had fun Sounds like he was nervous and will improve with experience, and I've no doubt you were a wonderful experience for him.

Thanks for sharing

[fun4Ds]

WOW, congratulations. You guys handled everything so well.

Would you play with him again ?

[J&RNNJ]

Glad you had a great time. We had our first experience aa little over a year ago and it also went very well. We were able to meet with the same guy a few times, and just as you, I had the same feelings. But to see her in enjoying herself like that and watching as she played with him was incredible. She was also nervous about me "being OK", which I certainly was!

Jim & Rebecca

[If_You_Please]

Kudos to all parties involved for being good sports and for being adaptable. Your story just made me very happy.

Thanks so much for sharing!


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Okay, I was proofreading and that second sentence sounded dirty...just to clarify, not what I mean.

[MLN1932]

It seems like the experience was OK, but could have been better for your wife. Perhaps it was just the first time for the guy in a 3-some. When my wife was still alive and we found single or unattached guys, she would invite them for MFM and more often than not, the evening turned out to be a success and some became long time partners for her.

[DigginIt]

I really feel lucky that I have such a great wife. This is a really exciting time for the two of us but it just wouldn't be the same if we both didn't have the deepest respect and love for each other. We know each other so well and she really went out of her way to ensure that both of us were comfortable as I tried to go out of my way to communicate my approval. It's difficult to present that side of the story without spending too much time on details that mean a lot to me but maybe not to the audience reading.

The sex isn't the part that MAKES the event for us. The sex is just the physical side of an emotional encounter that we are sharing as a couple. You really have to open yourself up to the experience and as the emotionally guarded creatures we tend to be; you just never know how either of you are going to feel up until that exact moment. We are both really happy with the way it turned out.

My wife and I have our first couple "date" tomorrow night and while we may all just walk away as new friends. We wouldn't change anything we have done.

-D

[DigginIt]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Would you play with him again ?

And not think twice about it

[realcplub2]

Congratulations!! A great time seems to have been had by all.. Can't ask for more than that.