Our/My first gangbang.....

[MrsHidalgo]

Well....Mr. H and I have been talking about a GB for me for over a year, and it finally happened over the weekend. We originally had 5 gentlemen invited and committed, but only 3 showed up. (take note of that all you first-timers) I was disappointed at first, but in the end it was all for the better.

We weren't too apprehensive about this, but Mr. H insisted on handling a few things in a manner that made him comfortable (for my safety, he insisted). He met all of the gentlemen beforehand (a week earlier). Saturday night, he met them in the bar at the hotel we were staying at. He wanted to make sure that there were no "surprises" and someone hadn't taken it on themselves to invite another man into the group that we weren't expecting. This also assured that they didn't know our room number and wouldn't/couldn't pass it along to anyone else. They all sat at a table, chatted over a couple of drinks, and went over the "ground rules" before they came up to the room where I was waiting.

If all of that "safety" stuff sounds like we were paranoid, rest assured that we aren't. But we thought it easier to handle a situation BEFORE it happens rather than deal with it later and ruin the entire night for everyone involved.

Our rules for the evening were simple.......(1) No anal unless I ASK for it (2) When/if I say no it means NO. (3) Condoms for everyone anytime I'm penetrated. (4) Oral without a condom is great, and unloading in my mouth is fine.

When they arrived at the room, I was lying on the bed watching a porn movie and only had on panties. I figured they'd know my body pretty well be the end of the evening anyway, so why hide my boobs now? Besides...they're my favorite part, lol. Anyway, no names were exchanged, we simply shook hands with each other, I gave them each a deep tongue kiss, and then they started getting undressed. None of them was what I would consider "hung", but all were very adequate.

During the evening everyone was very gracious and treated me with respect (even when they were pounding the crap out of me from behind). We started around 8:00, and they left at 1:00. Five hours of non-stop sex. It was undoubtedly the most erotic and satisfying thing that I have ever done.

Here's what I/we learned.......

Like has been said before....they all don't show up. So plan accordingly.

Let your man participate also......he'll thank you later.

Five hours of sex is EXHAUSTING! The next morning I was sore from being penetrated non-stop, and my jaws were sore from the constant oral. My back muscles were sore, as well as my neck and legs, and my nipples are the worst. While the sensation was very pleasant....it is very much a physical workout for the girl.

We aren't into BDSM, but since my hubby was participating also, I let them tie me up for about an hour. I wouldn't have done this without my man in the room, but let me tell you it was incredible. The "being taken" feeling was astounding, but knowing my man was there took away the threat of being harmed and allowed me to fully enjoy it. I had most of my orgasms while they had me tied up!

When YOU cum....they cum (must be a guy thing). Most of the shaking orgasms I had were immediately followed by a load in my mouth or a pulsing feeling between my legs. So keep that in mind.

Have your man present. You'll feel safer, and you'll both enjoy it. Actually, Mr. H coached the guys by giving directions (let her blow you, etc) and kept the party moving along. He knows what I like, and has heard me fantasize about this. It really helped.

All in all, it was a great experience. We didn't count, but I think I swallowed 5 times, and was penetrated 10-11 times total.

If you really are considering a gang-bang, I would suggest that you talk it over for a long time before you plan it. There are things that you need to get resolved and you must HAVE A PLAN for the evening. We could have went about it haphazardly and probably have gotten through it, but having a firm plan sure helped out by keeping a man in the places I needed without long lulls in the action.

Will we do it again? Probably not. It was great, but now that we've fulfilled the fantasy, I doubt we go back there again.

[CXXC]

Mrs. Hildalgo
Thank you for the report! Mrs. CXXC has expressed great interest in this activity and I am certain I will have 100's of questions for you when the time comes. I am certaint here are so many things to do in preparation for the event. Just a couple quesitons if you dont mind.

Did you wear a blind fold at all?
Were you in constant contact with all 4 men (your hubby included) the entire time?
What was your favorite part of the entire experience?
What was you least favorite part?
While restrained, what parts were restrained?
I truly have a ton of questions.

Thank you so much in advance!

[LFM2]

I'm glad it was a great experience for you two.

[MrsHidalgo]

Did you wear a blind fold at all?

No...no blindfold. I HATE blindfolds and want to see what's happening

Were you in constant contact with all 4 men (your hubby included) the entire time?

Most of the time. There were times when someone would back off and take a short break. Yes, my hubby participated the entire time. I wouldn't have done it without him being involved in the sex.

What was your favorite part of the entire experience?

The frequent orgasms !

What was you least favorite part?

The awkwardness when everyone first met. It went away quickly, but the uncertainty of doing something new of this manner is concerning. Imagine meeting 3 strangers when you are nude, and then immediately kissing them and feeling their hands on your breasts. While it was stimulating, and planned, it was still very strange at first.

While restrained, what parts were restrained?

Only my wrists were tied to the bed. My legs were free so I could turn by body and wrap my legs around the guys. (I liked that scenario) Any more restraint might have been too uncomfortable (scary).

I truly have a ton of questions.

Well....I'm definitely a first-timer on this one, but I'll be more than glad to tell you what I can.

[CXXC]

Mrs. Hidalgo

Thank you for your input. It will really help Mrs. CXXC and me in the planning and creation of this activity. I have plenty of time in which to make this happen. I am actually thinking about having a little LS party for her Birthday in August. This would be a great gift as she has fantasies about it. I want to make it as perfect as possible.
Now, Naturally, she will have to know about it. You dont just have a GB without the intended knowing about it. Im sure there are those out there that would like that, but MRS. CXXC is not one of them.

When the men came, were you taken vaginally or orally or both?
How long would you say each man was inside you?
did your husband organize this in a round robin fashion?
Were the men lined up in order of penis size or was it just random?

I dont mean to seem so excited about this, but it is somehting Mrs. CXXC would like very much and I want to make it happen for her!

More Q's to come!

[MrsHidalgo]

When the men came, were you taken vaginally or orally or both?

Both.

How long would you say each man was inside you?

Not very long at first. Then after their initial orgasm, they lasted a little longer. Not everyone stayed for the next orgasm before they moved to another location. That is...I know for certain that a couple of times they pulled out and removed the condom and went for my mouth. One guy liked to rub himself on my breasts (never had that done before) and sprayed a load there once after he pulled out.

did your husband organize this in a round robin fashion?

No, it was just at random. Seemed to work OK that way.

Were the men lined up in order of penis size or was it just random?

It was random. And there was no "lining up".....all three of them initially were rubbing me and kissing me at the same time. I had to hand-job one while the other two were occupying themselves, but after that it was pretty random. I don't think anyone went home afterwards disappointed. I know I sure didn't.

I don't mean to seem so excited about this, but it is something Mrs. CXXC would like very much and I want to make it happen for her!

You're a good husband. Remember....this is something that you & your wife will have to discuss and orchestrate to suit HER (and you of course). All women have different tastes. I was fortunate in the fact that my husband thoroughly screened these guys, and made sure beforehand that they knew my preferences. If they had "attacked" me immediately it wouldn't have been as exciting. But he informed them that they needed to take me slowly and be considerate of me. An all-out piling on wouldn't have worked for me at all. After some kissing and stroking, I started getting into it (6 hands can get you going). After the first hour or so, it became more physical and intense, but it still remained very controlled. Not one time did anyone cause me any intentional pain. Like I said...hubby spent a lot of time going over things with them. And I'm sure he told them, "If you make HER happy, she'll return the favor".

[CXXC]

Mrs. Hidalgo
Thank you so much for all of your answers. This helps me in my planning.

This activity is truly for and with Mrs. CXXC. My involvement will be as one of the lucky men involved in PLEASING her! Like you said, it is all about HER!

The group of men who will be involved have already been with Mrs. CXXC. Most of these men already know each other from other parties or clubs. So the familiarity should not be an issue. I was thinking of having the ladies of these men get Mrs. CXXC all worked up before the men begin anything. MRs. CXXC loves to be touched, pleased and any attention.

Did you need any lube durring these activities?
Do you have a guestimation of how many minutes each man penetrated your vagina?
What was the bed like? Can you tell us about the play area itself?
Were there other people in the room with you or just you and the three men?
What were some of the other rules your husband pointed out?

Like I said, just a ton of questions!

[MrsHidalgo]

Did you need any lube during these activities?

Personally, I did not. Of course....that varies amongst each individual.

Do you have a guestimation of how many minutes each man penetrated your vagina?

Not a clue. It was practically non-stop with a very short break for me to "freshen up".

What was the bed like? Can you tell us about the play area itself?

Just a very nice hotel room with a king bed.

Were there other people in the room with you or just you and the three men?

Just them and the hubby.

What were some of the other rules your husband pointed out?

Not sure what else he advised them on.......he's away right now. I'll ask when he returns.

[CXXC]

Mrs. Hildago
Thank you for your time and efforts. I truly appreciate your information.

[lustylearning]

Thank you for taking the time to post so thoroughly and answer questions. I think anyone considering the idea of a gang bang will find your information helpful.

[YZF]

Mrs. YZF here: My first gangbang was pretty spontaneous. I tried to take a guy anally that was just too big at first. So Mr. YZF suggested that I build up to it by taking progressively bigger cocks. It worked out so perfectly, I've done it twice more.

[MrsHidalgo]

Originally Posted by lustylearning

Thank you for taking the time to post so thoroughly and answer questions. I think anyone considering the idea of a gang bang will find your information helpful.

I'm by no means an expert......I'm a first-timer who was fortunate enough to have a great experience the first time around. As for answering questions, that's the LEAST I can do in return for the information and wisdom that I have gained from this board since I've been a member.

[CXXC]

Originally Posted by MrsHidalgo

I'm by no means an expert......I'm a first-timer who was fortunate enough to have a great experience the first time around. As for answering questions, that's the LEAST I can do in return for the information and wisdom that I have gained from this board since I've been a member.

I am still interested in the rules your husband discussed with the members of the activity. Have you had an opportunity to ask him? I dont mean to badger you. I am curious and, well, I dont want to be a dead cat and all, but informaiton is very important to me. I am certain others would agree.

Thanks again!

[traveling cpl]

Originally Posted by MrsHidalgo

Well....Mr. H and I have been talking about a GB for me for over a year, and it finally happened over the weekend. We originally had 5 gentlemen invited and committed, but only 3 showed up. (take note of that all you first-timers) I was disappointed at first, but in the end it was all for the better.

We weren't too apprehensive about this, but Mr. H insisted on handling a few things in a manner that made him comfortable (for my safety, he insisted). He met all of the gentlemen beforehand (a week earlier). Saturday night, he met them in the bar at the hotel we were staying at. He wanted to make sure that there were no "surprises" and someone hadn't taken it on themselves to invite another man into the group that we weren't expecting. This also assured that they didn't know our room number and wouldn't/couldn't pass it along to anyone else. They all sat at a table, chatted over a couple of drinks, and went over the "ground rules" before they came up to the room where I was waiting.

If all of that "safety" stuff sounds like we were paranoid, rest assured that we aren't. But we thought it easier to handle a situation BEFORE it happens rather than deal with it later and ruin the entire night for everyone involved.

Our rules for the evening were simple.......(1) No anal unless I ASK for it (2) When/if I say no it means NO. (3) Condoms for everyone anytime I'm penetrated. (4) Oral without a condom is great, and unloading in my mouth is fine.

When they arrived at the room, I was lying on the bed watching a porn movie and only had on panties. I figured they'd know my body pretty well be the end of the evening anyway, so why hide my boobs now? Besides...they're my favorite part, lol. Anyway, no names were exchanged, we simply shook hands with each other, I gave them each a deep tongue kiss, and then they started getting undressed. None of them was what I would consider "hung", but all were very adequate.

During the evening everyone was very gracious and treated me with respect (even when they were pounding the crap out of me from behind). We started around 8:00, and they left at 1:00. Five hours of non-stop sex. It was undoubtedly the most erotic and satisfying thing that I have ever done.

Here's what I/we learned.......

Like has been said before....they all don't show up. So plan accordingly.

Let your man participate also......he'll thank you later.

Five hours of sex is EXHAUSTING! The next morning I was sore from being penetrated non-stop, and my jaws were sore from the constant oral. My back muscles were sore, as well as my neck and legs, and my nipples are the worst. While the sensation was very pleasant....it is very much a physical workout for the girl.

We aren't into BDSM, but since my hubby was participating also, I let them tie me up for about an hour. I wouldn't have done this without my man in the room, but let me tell you it was incredible. The "being taken" feeling was astounding, but knowing my man was there took away the threat of being harmed and allowed me to fully enjoy it. I had most of my orgasms while they had me tied up!

When YOU cum....they cum (must be a guy thing). Most of the shaking orgasms I had were immediately followed by a load in my mouth or a pulsing feeling between my legs. So keep that in mind.

Have your man present. You'll feel safer, and you'll both enjoy it. Actually, Mr. H coached the guys by giving directions (let her blow you, etc) and kept the party moving along. He knows what I like, and has heard me fantasize about this. It really helped.

All in all, it was a great experience. We didn't count, but I think I swallowed 5 times, and was penetrated 10-11 times total.

If you really are considering a gang-bang, I would suggest that you talk it over for a long time before you plan it. There are things that you need to get resolved and you must HAVE A PLAN for the evening. We could have went about it haphazardly and probably have gotten through it, but having a firm plan sure helped out by keeping a man in the places I needed without long lulls in the action.

Will we do it again? Probably not. It was great, but now that we've fulfilled the fantasy, I doubt we go back there again.

Would it have been better or easier for you, had you meet with the men first in a causal setting, such as a bar or over dinner before they come to the room?

[JustAskJulie]

Great report!!!

How did you go about finding the guys? Had you met any of them prior?

You said he met them all about a week before, did all 5 show up to meet him? Or did just the three who showed up later show up?

From my own experience, I'd agree that it's normal that about half (if you are lucky) of those you invite actually show up - especially when dealing with guys you don't know. You can increase that by dealing with guys you already know/ have had sex with before.

I don't think your methods sound paranoid at all. I think having your husband meet them ahead of time was a great idea. At the very least I would suggest that if he didn't, that you should still meet them in a neutral location (the hotel bar, perhaps) before taking them up to your room (for the same reasons you mentioned).