A night of many firsts...

NCfuncouple98 · 01-31-2009, 01:20 PM

Seems a little uncouth to kiss and tell, but yet there's something about first-time experiences that needs to be shared.

After meeting a couple for dinner, we went to a local pool hall for some drinks and conversation. And that's where it gets better.....

Mr. NC and I broke our "swing cherries" last night. Was definitely a night of many firsts for me:

First time in a strip club
First time putting bills in a woman's g string, and receiving a hug from a woman in only a g string
First lap dance. Wow, she was hot, and good at her job
First hotel room ever where we paid for a night and left within 3 hours
First time I kissed a girl, and then some...
First time I watched my husband pleasure another woman and be pleasured by her
First swap

We had an absolutely amazing night, and are so glad we were patient and waited for a couple that we really connected with. Yeah, I was pretty damn nervous in the beginning, but that didn't last too long.

So that's a lot of new things to try all in one night, but all I can say is

. We definitely are swingers now.

I do have to say without everyone here on the board, and all of the information and experiences here, we wouldn't be where we are. So thanks to everyone who helped walk us through our baby steps.

So now that I've shared the first time, here's to many more adventures that I won't be writing about!

MrkLin · 01-31-2009, 03:30 PM

I'm really glad to hear that your first full swap went well for both of you!

Nervousness beforehand is to be expected - Lin and I have been doing this for several years now, and we still get nervous from time to time - depends on the couple, and the situation. The first time you do anything is always the most difficult. I'm just glad to hear that you had such a great time with your first time. Bravo!

Now is the time for a lot of communication, and just spending time together. If there are any regrets, mixed emotions, or bad feelings, they'll come out soon. The point is to be there for one another and assure one another that you're still number one. A lot has changed between you two - maybe you don't see it yet, but it has. You each have to make it absolutely clear to each other that your love for one another is not one of those things.

**LFM2** · 01-31-2009, 04:10 PM

I can feel your excitement all the way over here in Idaho!!
Congrats!!

This board is GREAT for helping guide us and giving advice to our fears.

YAY!!

PB&J · 01-31-2009, 04:50 PM

Awesome!!!!!!!!
Have you stopped smiling yet?

NCfuncouple98 · 01-31-2009, 05:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PB&J

Awesome!!!!!!!!
Have you stopped smiling yet?

Nope. And neither has he.

NCfuncouple98 · 01-31-2009, 05:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrkLin

Now is the time for a lot of communication, and just spending time together. If there are any regrets, mixed emotions, or bad feelings, they'll come out soon. The point is to be there for one another and assure one another that you're still number one. A lot has changed between you two - maybe you don't see it yet, but it has. You each have to make it absolutely clear to each other that your love for one another is not one of those things.

Thanks for the advice. I took Monday off work, kids will be in school, so we will actually have an entire day alone together. At this point there's absolutely no regrets or anything negative about the experience. We're as much in love as we've always been.

**fun4Ds** · 01-31-2009, 10:30 PM

Thank you for sharing this you guys. If you don't mind we are smiling with you.

We know, we understand

2inSanDiego4u · 02-01-2009, 12:36 AM

Always nice to hear about such a great first-time experience! Enjoy the afterglow, it's pretty awesome!

xxxfunseekers · 02-01-2009, 07:51 AM

We've been there as well. Its all good and that first time out like that, you do smile for days! You keep replaying it in your head over and over - until you do it AGAIN! :-) Our sex life has always been good and it just added ito it and no regrets!

TravlParty · 02-01-2009, 09:13 AM

Congrats!

Thank you for sharing a wonderful experience.

MrkLin · 02-01-2009, 03:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NCfuncouple98

Thanks for the advice. I took Monday off work, kids will be in school, so we will actually have an entire day alone together. At this point there's absolutely no regrets or anything negative about the experience. We're as much in love as we've always been.

Glad to hear it!

And those smiles probably won't ever fade...

Enjoy 'em.

NCfuncouple98 · 02-01-2009, 07:26 PM

I'll put it this way. I schedule my life around sports - especially NFL and Nascar. Ummm. Let's just say I missed the first quarter of the Superbowl tonight, and I could care less.

Mrs. NC.

PB&J · 02-01-2009, 07:30 PM

You go girl.

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01-31-2009, 01:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
NCfuncouple98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 723 Location: North Caroliina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncfuncouple98	A night of many firsts... Seems a little uncouth to kiss and tell, but yet there's something about first-time experiences that needs to be shared. After meeting a couple for dinner, we went to a local pool hall for some drinks and conversation. And that's where it gets better..... Mr. NC and I broke our "swing cherries" last night. Was definitely a night of many firsts for me: First time in a strip club First time putting bills in a woman's g string, and receiving a hug from a woman in only a g string First lap dance. Wow, she was hot, and good at her job First hotel room ever where we paid for a night and left within 3 hours First time I kissed a girl, and then some... First time I watched my husband pleasure another woman and be pleasured by her First swap We had an absolutely amazing night, and are so glad we were patient and waited for a couple that we really connected with. Yeah, I was pretty damn nervous in the beginning, but that didn't last too long. So that's a lot of new things to try all in one night, but all I can say is . We definitely are swingers now. I do have to say without everyone here on the board, and all of the information and experiences here, we wouldn't be where we are. So thanks to everyone who helped walk us through our baby steps. So now that I've shared the first time, here's to many more adventures that I won't be writing about!
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01-31-2009, 03:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
MrkLin Your Tent or Ours? Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 706 Location: mm Status: Couple	Re: A night of many firsts... I'm really glad to hear that your first full swap went well for both of you! Nervousness beforehand is to be expected - Lin and I have been doing this for several years now, and we still get nervous from time to time - depends on the couple, and the situation. The first time you do anything is always the most difficult. I'm just glad to hear that you had such a great time with your first time. Bravo! Now is the time for a lot of communication, and just spending time together. If there are any regrets, mixed emotions, or bad feelings, they'll come out soon. The point is to be there for one another and assure one another that you're still number one. A lot has changed between you two - maybe you don't see it yet, but it has. You each have to make it absolutely clear to each other that your love for one another is not one of those things.

01-31-2009, 04:10 PM	#3 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,750 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Re: A night of many firsts... I can feel your excitement all the way over here in Idaho!! Congrats!! This board is GREAT for helping guide us and giving advice to our fears. YAY!!
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01-31-2009, 04:50 PM	#4 (permalink)
PB&J Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,308 Location: Southern Ontario Status: female half of couple	Re: A night of many firsts... Awesome!!!!!!!! Have you stopped smiling yet?
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01-31-2009, 10:30 PM	#7 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,487 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: A night of many firsts... Thank you for sharing this you guys. If you don't mind we are smiling with you. We know, we understand

02-01-2009, 12:36 AM	#8 (permalink)
2inSanDiego4u ♥♥♥ Lovin' This! ♥♥♥ Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 768 Location: San Diego Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:2inSanDiego4u	Re: A night of many firsts... Always nice to hear about such a great first-time experience! Enjoy the afterglow, it's pretty awesome!
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02-01-2009, 07:51 AM	#9 (permalink)
xxxfunseekers Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 21 Location: Pennsylvania	Re: A night of many firsts... We've been there as well. Its all good and that first time out like that, you do smile for days! You keep replaying it in your head over and over - until you do it AGAIN! :-) Our sex life has always been good and it just added ito it and no regrets!

02-01-2009, 09:13 AM	#10 (permalink)
TravlParty Where's the party? Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 172 Location: Paradise Status: Couple	Re: A night of many firsts... Congrats! Thank you for sharing a wonderful experience.

02-01-2009, 07:26 PM	#12 (permalink)
NCfuncouple98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 723 Location: North Caroliina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncfuncouple98	Re: A night of many firsts... I'll put it this way. I schedule my life around sports - especially NFL and Nascar. Ummm. Let's just say I missed the first quarter of the Superbowl tonight, and I could care less. Mrs. NC.
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02-01-2009, 07:30 PM	#13 (permalink)
PB&J Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 1,308 Location: Southern Ontario Status: female half of couple	Re: A night of many firsts... You go girl.
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