We finally did it!!!

[shy_couple]

We have been talking about swinging for a couple of years. went to a couple of clubs but ended up just the 2 of us at the end of the night. What we talked about was meeting,sizing eachother up, and if all worked out same room sex. well same room sex turned into groping, sucking, touching, my wifes first bi experience and her first experience with another man besides me. lot of licking,sucking but fucking only my wife and he fucked his wife. My wifes pussy was soooo sore. We went at it for 2 1/2 hours. Cant believe that I held out that long.

We ahve had a few days to process the whole scene and I am just at work and will have a vivid flash of part of the scene and just smile.We cant keep our hands off eachother. Even though we only soft swapped we dont feel weird after. We feel closer to each other. We both feel sexier with renewed energy for life and sex.

What is also strange is, event though we did EVERYTHING short of intercourse with the other couple, we feel like we werent wanting intercourse from the other couple. I was between ther other girls legs fingering and sucking on her and thought to myself I am in the perfect spot to climb on her but that was not my desire. I loved watching my wife be touched by all three of us and we f'ed like animals next to the other couple while touching and groping.

I am sooooo glad that our first experience awesome with nice, normal people that we shared an attraction and a love for sex with (and it wasnt weird at all). No matter how well we planned, it could not have turned out better.

[LizAndChris]

I hope our first time is as easy going as yours.....congrats!

[LFM2]

YAY!! Glad to hear that everything went as well as it could.

Isn't the afterglow with your spouse wonderful? We've been swinging for a couple of years and we still go home, make love and talk about events for days.

[JustAskJulie]

YAY! Glad to hear that your first time went so well.

[spvcouple]

Congrats from us as well. Sounds like all the stars aligned properly to make the first experience a wonderful one. Our first time was very nice too.
Though it doesn't sound like communication is a problem between you two...I would urge anyone who is making the step to involve others (and might be reading this post) to really talk to their spouse (or S.O.) before, during AND AFTER. To our way of thinking, this is vital to making sure that all concerned are comfortable.
Also, though your playtime was "just" soft swing...many folks are happy with that type of recreation and there is not a dog-gone thing wrong with it.
Off my soapbox now.
Once again.....CONGRATS!!!

K and D

[NCfuncouple98]

I sure hope our first couples encounter goes as well as yours. Congratulations!

[CXXC]

Congrats!! Mrs. CXXC and I are so happy for you!
Soft swap is what we did when we took our first step together. It was a perfect way to get our feet wet. Welcome to a wonderful community.
The connection you feel now is a treasured gift Mrs. CXXC and I call "Re-connect Sex". We feel like we have never been closer. Never more excited, never so connected. The love, passion and desire for eachother is heightened from the experience fo sharing each other with our playmates.
GOOD FOR YOU!!! May your next steps be just as grand!!!

[shy_couple]

Wow, CXXC, it sounds like you were a fly on the wall in our bedroom since we did it. After our first child was born our parenting duties kept us busy and about a year in as we established a routine and things weren't as hectic, we reconnected thru sex. Just set aside more time and were really into eachother, as a result the twins came along. Now they are 4 and we are doing the same thing again.

You are right, we are more passionate,communicate better, and of course the sex is insane. I have my ups and downs and usually I am down around the holidays but I feel great, more energy, more creative, more masculine, and more clear of mind/thought. I feel like I got a hure shot of adreneline laced with testosterone. I feel like I did 10 years ago.

It has been a great experience and I look forward to more.