Help First MFM experience sort of

[fun4Ds]

Wow, allot of mistakes I would think, for sure.

The beginning starts as one of those "one time when we were all liqueured up" stories. Not good at all. Me and my buddies have a few of those. Most, are not good endings.

I don't know about your friends happy long term marriage. But if you saw a look of shock on his face I can imagine why. I don't know about you, but my few close friends I have now (in our non swinging world) would tell their wives, one way or another.

Thats why they are few. I can't stand guys that would put me in any position with, "don't tell my wife".....Anything ! That to me says get the f#ck outa my life then. I ain't hiding from no body, no body is hiding from me. Thats why I have few close friends.

I think you both carry that trait. Or you would have considered his wifes feelings before anyones dick came out. I can only imagine you two have dirt on one another. I can't believe this was not a major issue at the lunch with your wife later. I bet it will though, eventually....

Then the kids bumming ya all out ? Thinking his wife doesn't know about all this, back home .

Is. F%ckin KARMA... at its best..... If not Divine.

I'm just going to stop here, nothing else matters at this point.

If I'm wrong, can you clarify more ?

[Second of 2]

Originally Posted by fun4Ds

Thats why they are few. I can't stand guys that would put me in any position with, "don't tell my wife".....Anything !

I'm glad I don't have to worry about that. In my case my wife is in the director's chair. She says when, how and with whom. I like it that way. She knows what I like and she's never failed me. Personally, IMHO, I think women have better judgment in these situation and are less likely to be led around by their libido than a man.

[BiloxiCouple]

Sometimes reality and fantasy don't mix.

Ya'll really need to communicate some more and slow down.

Take the advice here and use it to help you. Some of these people know what they are talking about, they've been there.

[Edison Carter]

Ed here-- You had a good friend cheat on his wife ? Then your wife discussed how she would feel better if she were alone with this guy who is cheating on his wife ?! Then you have the audacity to be worried about your feelings ? I can only think of the woman who trusted her spouse in your company.

You are jerks of the first order.

This is going to express itself in some seriously awful ways.

[Second of 2]

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Sometimes reality and fantasy don't mix.

There's an old saying that with a modification or two is a perfect match for your observation.

"There is no greater crime than the rape of a beautiful fantasy by a gang of brutal realities."

[DesireCancunCpl]

its apparent that "your buddy's wife" doesnt know about this activity. that makes him a cheater. you should stop now, for the sake of your buddy's marriage and for your own self respect.

[nxgn1]

Originally Posted by Dienekes

Well really its about what you all are comfortable with. Personally, i aint playing alone, and neither is my lady. If we dont play together, we wont be playing. But that is my comfort level. Maybe someday i wont care one way or another, but i cannot envision my wife having sex with someone else and me not there. Just would not work for me, i would totally freak out.

In addition, you have yet to mention anything about your friend's wife. Which seems to indicate some apprehension about discussing what has happened and may happen again...Bad road to walk man. If the ladies arent cool with the whole thing, its going to blow up in your face sooner or later.

Good luck
Dienekes

My EX wife and I where into swinging a few years ago. I thiink I understand what she is thinking. It obviously turned her on alot. And more than likely She will go for this now. But It kinda feels like for the first time she would like to go buck wild and not worry about anything but her pleasure. Or you having an issue with the things she wants to do. But again as has been said its up to you.

For me a couple times that we did it with a new person I left the room for about 15 minutes but told her I would be back. And that I would be joining in. I would not expect to come in and find them both spent. It worked ok for her because she could get the feeling of being with someone alone for a bit and then when the serious action took place I would be there. When I came in she had a very wet pussy and a very thick 10 inch dick in her mouth. She was very much into it then.