My first BJ from another guy

My wife and I have had several threesomes with a male friend of ours. Over the last year I've watched the two of them have sex probably half a dozen times. Last Friday night while my wife was giving me head she asked him if he wanted to help her. At first I was freaked out but honestly after it was all said and done I have to admit I liked it. My wife let him finish me off and it was one of the better blow jobs I have had. Last night I returned the favor. I've never considered myself bi but after last night I know that I am. I really like sucking his cock. Has anyone else ever discovered their bi like this?

[arvcpl]

Just because you gave and received a blow job does not mean you are bi. And just because someone is bi that doesn't mean they will give or recieve blow jobs from other men either.

There are tons of straight chicks out there that eat pussy and pop off orgasms from other chicks going down on them. and there are lots of bi chicks that don't eat pussy or don't like another woman going down on them. Just as there are straight chicks that don't give blow jobs and there are straight guys that don't eat pussy. This really isn't any different. It just isn't as socially acceptable.

Bi is if you are sexually attracted to both males and females. Are you actually attracted to males as your general orientation or were you just comfortable enough with this person to allow this to happen? My wife is straight but if she is comfortable enough with a situation she will give and receive pleasure with other women just for the extra pleasure. She doesn't really have the hots for them.

Orgasms are a physiological response to physical stimulation and will occur with the right stimulation regardless of the gender giving it. What is the deciding factor is if the recipient is comfortable enough to enjoy it and allow the response to occur.

Personally I'd probably run screaming out of the room if some guy tried to touch me but that is just my own hang up. I've seen a number of completely straight guys that couldn't even get it up with two hot chicks blowing them because they weren't comfortable in the situation. That's their hang up. I'd say you have a little advantage over them

[DosCoronas]

You make a good point. Actually I do not find myself thinking about other guys just giving this particular one a blow job. So I might not be bi just like giving head. My wife is totally turned on by this.

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by DosCoronas

You make a good point. Actually I do not find myself thinking about other guys just giving this particular one a blow job. So I might not be bi just like giving head. My wife is totally turned on by this.

If you enjoy it, the guy enjoys it, your wife enjoys it...then have at it

[spamcatcher]

My wife and I have now each experimented a little with same-gender oral sex. Neither of considers ourself bi or gay, but it was fun for each of us to investigate what the other experiences while giving and receiving head.

[JTcamp05]

Originally Posted by spamcatcher

My wife and I have now each experimented a little with same-gender oral sex. Neither of considers ourself bi or gay, but it was fun for each of us to investigate what the other experiences while giving and receiving head.

Guess it never can hurt to know what it feels like from the other perspective. I would call it openminded !

[DosCoronas]

Since I first posted we have had several more threesomes with our friend. Each time the male friend and I have given each other head. Last night my Wife wanted to sit back and watch us get each other off so we did. Afterward she jumped in and we all had fun.

[NakedInSeattle]

Originally Posted by JTcamp05

Guess it never can hurt to know what it feels like from the other perspective. I would call it openminded !

I'm glad to read the positive comments. To add to JT's reply, it not only can't hurt, it's a turn on to know how what you are doing feels when done to you. This is the same for both genders. Am I making sense?

[xxoticangel]

I did something similar to MrXxotic during a MFM. I was riding him reverse cowgirl while he sat on the sofa and the other male was giving me oral. At one point MrXxotic slipped out the other guy started giving him oral. That opened up a new aspect to our playtime.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by NakedInSeattle

I'm glad to read the positive comments. To add to JT's reply, it not only can't hurt, it's a turn on to know how what you are doing feels when done to you. This is the same for both genders. Am I making sense?

Makes perfect sense and I too am glad to see the positive comments.

Do what feels great if it's all consensual and safe. Have fun. Too much thought can ruin what could be a great night!!

[Begood03]

After reading a poll that showed many wives would like to see their husband be sexual with another man, I asked my wife if she wanted to be part of something like this. And she told me that she would. I can't say if or when it might happen, but the thought does intrigue the both of us.

Bill.