Christian couple, how we started with swinging.

[lustylearning]

Originally Posted by tn_softswing2

Where else can you find un-hibited folks?

Agreed. It's good to hear you are both happy

[dayhiker]

Hi Softswing,
Always good to hear that things are still working out. The vinilla world wants to tell us that swinging only works for a while as best and then we will be worse off. Yet over and over again people say its helped them.

dayhiker

Originally Posted by tn_softswing2

Just wanted to post that we have continued to get together with our friends and are enjoying their company in and out of the bedroom. We still like going to the swing socials but haven't done full swap with any other couples. The 'lifestyle' is great for enjoyment for both of us and keeps our passion alive. Where else can you find un-hibited folks?

[readytoplay105]

what difference does religion play in swinging? we never ask a persons religion

[lustylearning]

Originally Posted by readytoplay105

what difference does religion play in swinging? we never ask a persons religion

It may make no difference to you when you choose play partners, but one's religious beliefs can strongly impact the decision about whether or not to get into the lifestyle, as well as how one plays in the lifestyle. Some believe that Christians, for example, could not be lifestylers, simply because they are Christians. I suspect this was the inspiration for the opening post.

[tn_softswing2]

Lustylearning, you're exactly right about the intent of the original post. While not getting into "religion" here, I will say "religion" is a strict adherance to a specific set of rules. "Christianity" is a way of life knowing freedom through Christ's sacrifice. The trouble with folks on the outside looking at "Christianity" is that they see "Religion: the strict adherance to standards", not the freedom of Christianity. We enjoy the freedom of having 'friends with benefits'. And do not see anything wrong with a couple "sharing" with another couple. It's all done above board and honestly.

[WA_Cple]

My husband and I are very devout Christians - I teach Sunday School and volunteer a lot of hours. I find nothing conflicting about the lifestyle and Christianity. I am faithful to the man that I love - I choose to have sex with other people but I only love my husband. But nothing is more important to me then my relationship and faith in God and Jesus. I know there are a lot of people in the lifestyle who share these beliefs.

[readytoplay105]

all the swingers we know are either christian like us or jewish where have you been living that you never met or knew christian swingers. the moslem world.

[PB&J]

Originally Posted by readytoplay105

all the swingers we know are either christian like us or jewish where have you been living that you never met or knew christian swingers. the moslem world.

Well.... there are some pagans like me and atheists like my husband out there too, you know. It's not like everyone has to fit into a neat category of one of the major world religions. Lots of unaffiliated folks out there.

[JustMrJ]

My wife and I are human beings. The fact that we have our religious beliefs and swing are just some of the things that make us who we are.

Glad to hear that you are so happy together tn_softswing2!!!

[MLN1932]

Our family has always been quite religious, but quite sexual. Before my wife passed we had a fav couple we would full swap with, and I still join them as a single often. My grand daughter knows of my and her mother's (my daughter) actvity in swinging and suggested we approach a family from church, one of g/d's girl friends parents. As it turns out father and his daughter are both sexually active, but the mother was not really into it at the time. After a few evenings together, some wine and after dinner drinks, we convinced the mom to try a soft swap. Needless to say things are going well and she participates fully. BTW the daughter is 7 months pg, but not from the life style. For us swinging is a fun recreation not to be confused with religion. A pastor once told a class I was in that sex was God's dessert in life.

[djjwp]

Originally Posted by PB&J

Why "needless to say?" What was wrong with them? The cloven hooves putting runs in the stockings? And honestly, why does religious belief even come up as a topic when meeting potential sexual playmates? I don't get it.

Oh well, to each his own. Personally, religious beliefs aren't exactly at the top of the list when it comes to selecting partners. (Full disclosure: I consider myself a pagan) I won't even mention politics when chatting up a new couple, and believe me, that matters a lot more to me.

They had made seem to us they felt they were God. We just did not click!