Popping our swinging cherry, take 2!

hornykat74 · 08-24-2008, 09:17 PM

Hi one and all...

I guess this really wasn't our first experience, but seeing as how the first one was over a year ago, and didn't really entail much more than same room sex and girl/girl play I've decided that this time round was actually more of swinging time.

We met this couple over a month ago, and finally arranged a night for us to go to their place for some fun. We set down some very loose guidelines, ie no full swap at this stage but didn't want to plan too much.

We arrived and were greeted with kisses and hugs and had some nibblies. She suggested that perhaps we have our fun, then dinner. We thought that sounded great....

We popped on some porn and all jumped up onto their pull out sofa bed....clothes slowly came off....and as it turns out I got the ball rolling! Surprised myself with that one seeing as how out of all four of us I have the least experience and was probably the most nervous. I started playing with her leg as I was playing with my man..moved up to her beautiful breasts then we began kissing.

From there on in it was one long sensual session with interaction between all..no male/male play although it would have been ok with all if their was and it had been discusses. The touch of a women is so different to a man that I was enjoying myself way more than I thought possible..when she went down on me I thought I would just die from pleasure.

No need to go into details I guess..there are other forums for that! But let me just note a few things here...for your reading and to remind myself in the future:

I thought I would be jealous of seeing my man with another girl, but I wasn't..it turned me on like nothing else.
I love watching other people having sex and when their bodies are moving against ours as we are moving the intensity just grows.
I want to see more...
I want to share her body even more...her taste, her smell, her touch.
I cannot believe how unbelievably lucky we are to have found such a compatible couple so early on into our foray into this world. I've heard it can take a long time.
Both men seemed to have a little trouble keeping and holding an erection. I've heard this is normal and can happen a lot. I asked him about it and he said maybe it was nerves and sensory overload!
The orgasm I experienced was one of the most intense of my life.
We feel much closer as a result and the morning after sex with just the two of us was just as intense if not better than the night before.
I can honestly say I am 150% surprised by my own reaction to it all! I guess I was just "thinking" too much about potential issues for me but in the end having absolutely NO expectations obviously helped me out in that regard. I simply went with a 'if it feels good do it' attitude and feel good it did

I'm going to leave it there for now.
Thanks for listening!
Cheers,
K&T

ShagUsThx · 08-25-2008, 08:00 AM

Nice! Happy to hear of your success. My wife and I were lucky in connecting early on as well. I had the same impression, that it was a rarity. Me and the other man had the same erection issues, but my wife suggested just taking a deep breath and chilling out for a few. I think you do get overloaded and need to regroup a little. We just all snuggled up and the close intimate touching along with the mental calm really helped. It all worked out in the end. I think it is like anything else... just takes practice! We like practice

SecretAsianMan · 08-25-2008, 12:02 PM

Sounds like you had a wonderful experience... and "performance issues" is not THAT uncommon (usually it's nerves from feeling the stress of performing with someone new - the whole "new-ness" of the situation - etc., etc., etc.) But it's alright ... as long as he's not made to feel "bad" about things and can still have fun in other ways and is okay with that.

hornykat74 · 08-26-2008, 05:29 PM

ShagUsThx - Yeah the performance thing wasn't even mentioned during our fun and if I noticed it happening then I just paid extra attention doing something he loved..however with the other male that was a little harder as I wasn't sure what he liked or didn't like! Kind of just let the female half of the other couple take over

SecretAsianMan - No he, or the other male were certainly not made to feel bad...I did ask him during our 'debriefing' on the way home if it was because he had seen something he wasn't comfortable with or perhaps he really wasn't ok even though he said he was when I asked during the session. He seemed to think after a bit of thought that perhaps it was sensory overload

Thanks for the replies!
Cheers, K&T

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08-24-2008, 09:17 PM	#1 (permalink)
hornykat74 Active Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 13 Location: sydney Status: couple	Popping our swinging cherry, take 2! Hi one and all... I guess this really wasn't our first experience, but seeing as how the first one was over a year ago, and didn't really entail much more than same room sex and girl/girl play I've decided that this time round was actually more of swinging time. We met this couple over a month ago, and finally arranged a night for us to go to their place for some fun. We set down some very loose guidelines, ie no full swap at this stage but didn't want to plan too much. We arrived and were greeted with kisses and hugs and had some nibblies. She suggested that perhaps we have our fun, then dinner. We thought that sounded great.... We popped on some porn and all jumped up onto their pull out sofa bed....clothes slowly came off....and as it turns out I got the ball rolling! Surprised myself with that one seeing as how out of all four of us I have the least experience and was probably the most nervous. I started playing with her leg as I was playing with my man..moved up to her beautiful breasts then we began kissing. From there on in it was one long sensual session with interaction between all..no male/male play although it would have been ok with all if their was and it had been discusses. The touch of a women is so different to a man that I was enjoying myself way more than I thought possible..when she went down on me I thought I would just die from pleasure. No need to go into details I guess..there are other forums for that! But let me just note a few things here...for your reading and to remind myself in the future: I thought I would be jealous of seeing my man with another girl, but I wasn't..it turned me on like nothing else. I love watching other people having sex and when their bodies are moving against ours as we are moving the intensity just grows. I want to see more... I want to share her body even more...her taste, her smell, her touch. I cannot believe how unbelievably lucky we are to have found such a compatible couple so early on into our foray into this world. I've heard it can take a long time. Both men seemed to have a little trouble keeping and holding an erection. I've heard this is normal and can happen a lot. I asked him about it and he said maybe it was nerves and sensory overload! The orgasm I experienced was one of the most intense of my life. We feel much closer as a result and the morning after sex with just the two of us was just as intense if not better than the night before. I can honestly say I am 150% surprised by my own reaction to it all! I guess I was just "thinking" too much about potential issues for me but in the end having absolutely NO expectations obviously helped me out in that regard. I simply went with a 'if it feels good do it' attitude and feel good it did I'm going to leave it there for now. Thanks for listening! Cheers, K&T
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08-25-2008, 08:00 AM	#2 (permalink)
ShagUsThx Active Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 43 Location: Colorado Status: Couple	Re: Popping our swinging cherry, take 2! Nice! Happy to hear of your success. My wife and I were lucky in connecting early on as well. I had the same impression, that it was a rarity. Me and the other man had the same erection issues, but my wife suggested just taking a deep breath and chilling out for a few. I think you do get overloaded and need to regroup a little. We just all snuggled up and the close intimate touching along with the mental calm really helped. It all worked out in the end. I think it is like anything else... just takes practice! We like practice

08-25-2008, 12:02 PM	#3 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: Popping our swinging cherry, take 2! Sounds like you had a wonderful experience... and "performance issues" is not THAT uncommon (usually it's nerves from feeling the stress of performing with someone new - the whole "new-ness" of the situation - etc., etc., etc.) But it's alright ... as long as he's not made to feel "bad" about things and can still have fun in other ways and is okay with that.
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08-26-2008, 05:29 PM	#4 (permalink)
hornykat74 Active Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 13 Location: sydney Status: couple	Re: Popping our swinging cherry, take 2! ShagUsThx - Yeah the performance thing wasn't even mentioned during our fun and if I noticed it happening then I just paid extra attention doing something he loved..however with the other male that was a little harder as I wasn't sure what he liked or didn't like! Kind of just let the female half of the other couple take over SecretAsianMan - No he, or the other male were certainly not made to feel bad...I did ask him during our 'debriefing' on the way home if it was because he had seen something he wasn't comfortable with or perhaps he really wasn't ok even though he said he was when I asked during the session. He seemed to think after a bit of thought that perhaps it was sensory overload Thanks for the replies! Cheers, K&T

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