A night of many firsts

[ATAK]

I'm not entirely sure if I should put this in the General swinger's category or Single swinger's, but since I am still officially single, I'll put it here. I had my first swinging experience last night since coming back into the lifestyle.

I contacted a single lady in the lifestyle that lived in Myrtle Beach about showing me around town to some of the night clubs and hot spots for swingers. She agreed to meet me for dinner and then go bar-hopping. I had no pre-concieved notions of sex, even though for safety's sake I packed an overnight bag. We met at the restaurant and had dinner. This was our first face to face meeting even though we'd been talking for some time on the computer. She wore a wishbone necklace, which she informed me that some of the locals wore to distinguish themselves as swingers. We had a very nice dinner and felt very at ease with each other. We left the restaurant and went to one bar that seemed to be an open straight up bar, with plenty of college age kids and a few older people but she did not see anyone she recognized as swingers. We stayed about an hour there and left to go to a new club that had opened up recently that is owned by a swinger and caters to swingers. There was about 5-6 couples there and all were very friendly. Some more friendly than others, but all were nice. We shook hands with just about everyone in the bar, including the owner. The couple that had started the "wishbone" necklace trend was there and I purchased the necklace from around his neck, he even put it on me, himself. While I was there, I saw more titty than I'd normally see at a titty bar, LOL, and even got more than a handful a couple of times. Myself and my date seemed to hit it off very well with a couple that was there who spent a great deal of time around us and I began to think we might get lucky on our very first date, but as it turned out, they left a little bit later in the night. We stayed there about 2 hours and decided to go back to the first bar again, because there was only 1-2 couples in the bar we were in by the time we were ready to leave, so we went back.

When we got there it was much less crowded by that time because it was already 1am. We danced and watched others dance and talked and I caught the eye of a lady across the room. She was very petite, but very well proportioned for her size. She was with a man who kept eyeing my date, so we struck up conversation. After an hour or so of conversing, and the girls becoming VERY friendly with each other, it was suggested that we all head to someplace quieter, so we went to their house.
they had a garden tub which 4 people cannot comfortably fit, even though we tried. LOL It was not long before we had made our way to the bedroom and proceeded to enjoy ourselves fully. I drove my date back to where we'd left her car at about 5am. I got home about 7:15am and passed out on my bed until well into the afternoon. LOL The date I'd planned for 2 turned out to be fun for 4. My date and I may go to some other functions as a couple to allow us both to make new friends and meet people. Our time together will be limited to my work schedule and hers though. But as for last night, It was definitely an experience to remember. Hopefully the first of many.

[Roxysbayou]

Sounds exciting...thanks for sharing. I hope that every experience is that good for you.

[DragonsLair]

Hey ATAK,

Sounds like you had a great time. Thanks for sharing your story with us. Hope more good times are to come for you and your friend.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

[OhioCouple]

It kinda reminds of the poster who said (sorry can't recall who it was), but when they were least looking, it fell in their lap.

Glad you had a great time!!!

Lori

[BradAndJanet]

ATAK, good for you! Thanks for telling us about it.

I haven't heard about the wishbone necklace thing. Sounds interesting. I'm wondering how widespread it is. Anybody else hear of this?

-B

[Roxysbayou]

I think it is a great idea! If it's not a widesperad trend, maybe we should start it! Maybe Julie can start selling them fom this site or at least provide a link to someone who does.

[ATAK]

I'm looking into purchasing the wishbone pendants to make necklaces out of. The wishbone symbol is fairly common and is also a good luck symbol, so look around locally, you may find a wishbone necklace without having to buy one from an online store...

Originally taken from a profile on SwingFriends.com

We have had several people ask "Are you two the swingers pendant people?", yes we are..so if you haven't yet heard the story behind the wishbone pendants that everyone is starting to wear, here you are,if you dont get a wishbone from us; find one somewhere,goodness if nothing else draw it on a sticker and wear it and let other people in this lifestyle know you are as well... THE SWINGER'S FRIEND "For Those Who Live The Life Most People Only Wish For" For as long as the swinging lifestyle has been around, there has not been a symbol to associate swingers with. Other alternative lifestyles have developed a symbol that represents them; the gay and lesbian community has the rainbow, the BDSM have their converted ying yang symbol; now the swingers have the wishbone. The wishbone represents many aspects of the swinging lifestyle. The closed end represents two halves coming together as one. For a swinger knows, it takes much trust and compromise to make the lifestyle work. The open end represents the open-mindedness and open sexuality of the lifestyle. And, let's face it, the entire wishbone reminds us that we live a lifestyle that many people only wish for. To the ordinary person, the wishbone is just a typical piece of jewelry. But, to those in the lifestyle, the Swinger's Friend identifies you as someone in the lifestyle. Wear your Swinger's Friend proud and happy swinging! For other orders…. Please contact Tabytha or Greg at Tabstiger@yahoo.com

[bimrdcpl]

I am really happy for you ATAK. That is so great that you went out and found some happiness for your self. Great job!!! You deserve it.

Dawn

[velbuzz]

What a wonderful story. Being from the cold NE does anyone know of bars like that on the NY/PA borderline?
Bill

[Flori_DAMAN]

Here is a wishbone necklace. www.http://www.sell.com/2DCBK

I am gonna wear it next time I wear my sis's outfit.

John

[DragonsLair]

Both of your sisters would want a picture of that, please.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

And just when am I going to get my skirt back??? Hmmmm???

[Flori_DAMAN]

Originally posted by DragonsLair
Both of your sisters would want a picture of that, please.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

And just when am I going to get my skirt back??? Hmmmm???

Be careful of what you wish for, it may happen.

A....that skirt is mine by the ole adage of I have had it longer than you.

John

[DragonsLair]

I wish I may, I wish I might....

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

[Flori_DAMAN]

Im wondering if the neckbone necklace will clash with my herring bone earings. Hell its all fishbones.

John (bone oriented, but stylishy challenged).