It could have gone better

[newlythree]

Originally Posted by 2insandiego4u

We read every post in the thread, thank you. When somebody is waving red flags, most people stop and think before proceeding. Our response may have been a little bit harsh, but was not intended to be "hollier than thou" at all. Like VegasLee said, how about some common sense?

While what we (and others) have said here may not help you at this point, it may help others when they read this thread. If there are signs of trouble, you should recognize them, then act accordingly.

Mr. here (for those paying attention...I will awlays try to let you know when it is me.....)
As to where VegasLee adressed the situation at hand....you chose to address my wife exclusivley...so....come what may...We respect what he has to say. He comments on situations at hand and does not do anything to bring out other peoples faults in a less than desirable scenario.
I felt you could have done more (as others here have done) to help out a fellow board member that may have been in a little bit in a time of need. But you know what???? It's all good, cuz we have learned alot by our own experiences....learning as you go....and reading what alot of peeps have to say.....such as VegasLee and others here who actually had something constructive to say. Instead, you chose to attack my wife (which I am NOT cool with btw.....) and question HER handling of the situation. Whom I feel is the one with the higher brow here. But you know what? It's all good. Whatever. You did what you felt you must...and I applaud you for that. I hope you find happiness and perfection in every step of your life.

Thank you for your time and response. We wish you nothing but the best in everything you find worthy and deserving of your time.
Peace em Out.
S&J

[2inSanDiego4u]

Originally Posted by newlythree

Instead, you chose to attack my wife (which I am NOT cool with btw.....) and question HER handling of the situation. Whom I feel is the one with the higher brow here. But you know what? It's all good. Whatever. You did what you felt you must...and I applaud you for that. I hope you find happiness and perfection in every step of your life.

It was not intentional to attack or flame anyone (you or her) in the reply, and we apologize if it came off as such. Best of luck to you too.

Peace.

[newlythree]

Originally Posted by 2insandiego4u

It was not intentional to attack or flame anyone (you or her) in the reply, and we apologize if it came off as such. Best of luck to you too.

Peace.

Mr. here:

Right on....that's cool. It's all good. As I said, we respect what anyone has to say. We know you cats are all good on the West Coast. One day we are gonna make it to Cali....and just may call on y'all to show us all the hot spots!!!!!!! No strings of coarse
Make no mistake..we are dying to check it out. Y'all be good, stay safe and take 'em nothing but light. Be good and keep it out the ditches!

[LOL_OMG]

Just catching up on this thread here. I don't think ya'll did anything wrong, in fact I would think that you did the best you could given the circumstances. One thing that may help you is something we did, especially in the early times. If things got "hinky" we had a signal to each other, like "where's the cell phone?" which means get me the hell out of here! If you're across the room from each other maybe you could make the "call me" sign or something.

We've always had a rule that if it doesn't feel right we're outta here. Either person can make the call.