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Excuse me...What's your card number?

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Old 06-16-2008, 10:30 PM   #1 (permalink)
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For a variety of reasons things didn’t work out with the couple we were planning to meet this last weekend. K and I still went out for dinner, drank a pitcher of Sangria and talked about some of the fantasies we might like to fulfill, if not on this trip to the club than on others.

We saw the couple we were originally planning to meet at the club and talked and danced but things just didn’t go in the direction of play. And THAT’S ok. We still had a really nice time with them.

Our local club was hosting a little game. We were all given a playing card and the point was to find your match during the evening to win prizes. I love ‘party games’ so was excited to play. This little game turned out VERY well for us.

While we were visiting with our friends and talking to a couple that we’d just met I was looking around the room looking to find people that I hadn’t already approached about their card number. (You’ll see I was determined to win!) I noticed a couple at the bar that I hadn’t seen previously. This couple was hard to miss; the woman was very tall with northern European features. This made me curious about them (along with a strong feeling that I should go over and talk to them).

I’ll interject now that I’m not exactly vertically challenged. I’m nearly 6 foot tall in an environment where the median height for a female is 5’5”.

The bar fills up a little bit and I tell K that I’m going to scout out our card number. (This also offers the perfect excuse to engage them in conversation.) I start asking couple about their number, small talk a minute or two and then move on. Finally I get to the couple I was watching. I ask them about their card number and the Husband immediately begins engaging me in conversation. I can’t recall exactly what was said in this exchange. (After finishing off half a pitcher of Sangria and having a glass of wine in my hand, I was feeling pretty good.) Anyhow, it ended up that I invited J & S to join K & I and our friends.

We start talking, they ask if we’d come to the club a lot. We explained that this was our third time. They were curious if we’d done any ‘swinging’. We told them we had not. This was their first time to a ‘lifestyle’ club and they weren’t sure what to expect. (Which was ok because neither did we.) The evening progresses, we dance with them and spend a lot of time talking. Some of the things we talk about are what brought them to the club, how were they hoping the evening would turn out, and what fantasy was it that they had in mind to fulfill. This is where it got very interesting (IMO). Turns out that J’s fantasy was to see his wife S with another man. I asked her if this was something she wanted too. I got the impression that she was both intrigued and nervous about the prospect. I told her that it was interesting that he wanted to see her with another man because one of my fantasies was to watch K have sex with another woman. (What was the chance that we’d run into another couple with the converse fantasy? Several things are ironic here. Similar fantasy, the fact that I had teased K all this last week about giving him over to another, and that I had told him that if a woman expressed interest in him at the club then he should follow up on it.)

This opens up the conversation up even further. Looking back on it I think J’s reasons for wanting it were a little less straightforward than mine. He asked why I wanted to see K. For me it’s simple, it’s a turn on to think of him giving and receiving pleasure and gratification from another woman while I’m watching. It affords me an opportunity to see him in a way that I can’t normally. J indicates that I could do more than just watch K if I wanted to. This is where I bluntly told him, “No, I can’t.” I explained whenever K and I have had sex where mirrors are involved the same thing happens. I go from participatory to observatory the moment I allow my attention to drift to the mirrors around us. K has gotten used to this and it doesn’t bother him to know that I just went from 100% attention on him and on our lovemaking to 10% because I’m trying to see!

Besides, it’s my fantasy and if I’m going to have an opportunity to fulfill it then I really want to get the most from it. I want to watch without distraction. <<Didn’t say this although I did think it.

At this point K and I are aware of the direction this evening is taking but we decide to wait until they invite us to join them in a more private area. We had already talked about such a scenario and knew how we felt about it but we didn’t feel that they had done the same and wanted to take things at their pace.

After dancing some more we go to an area where we can sit down. K is rubbing my feet and I’m massaging S’s neck and shoulders, J is rubbing her feet and we can tell that he’s anxious and eager. He talks with S for a moment while I’m massaging her and then asks K and I if we’d like to go with them into one of the private rooms for a little massaging and touching. We agree and we all go into the back.

They join us in the shower (hygiene is important!) and we talk a little more there. I can see that S is looking K over, very subtly but she is. (I would too if I was thinking about having sex with someone.)

We go into a room (with mirrors ☺ ) and begin a little massaging and touching. I invite K to caress S’s soft skin. They ask about our boundaries (no penetration-me) and tell us theirs (no kissing). J & S engage in some kissing and caressing, K & I do likewise, K is between my thighs and J & S are caressing my breasts, I’m feeling good.

We break apart and S & K are kneeling in front of one another touching one another. K is caressing her breasts and kissing her shoulders, she’s running her hands over him. J & I move over to the side and are watching them. K lays her down and starts kissing her body. He kisses and sucks on her breasts. She’s getting excited, he’s taking his cues from her reactions. K starts kissing S between the legs. I can tell that she’s really into K and S starts stroking and caressing his cock while he’s giving her oral. J asks if he can touch me and I’m getting turned on so I agree. J starts touching me and I’m a little moist at this point. Seeing K pleasure another and knowing in part how he was kissing and licking her was warming me up. S begins losing herself and I can see that she’s close to reaching orgasm. I can tell that K senses it too and adjusts for her. She cums and K eases off and follows through by licking her softly.

At this point J is getting a little weird. He was halfway aroused while K was kissing S but the minute she got close to cumming he stopped touching me and I noticed tension in him.

S and asked K if she could suck on him and he answered yes. She asked J and J said he’d prefer that she didn’t. That was fine with us. While I would have liked to have seen that, and K would have enjoyed it and S wanted to it was still okay. During this little pause K started to soften up some I know what was going through his mind and he confirmed (all of) this later when we talked. He was thinking, are they okay, do they really want to continue, do I really want to cross this line. I think that J nearly put a stop to all of this but S really wanted to have sex with K and she was very eager to keep going. J asks me if K is ready to have sex. (I did not care for how he stated this because the way he said it came across like he was considering my husband as a piece of meat and I didn’t like it.)

Once it was confirmed that S wanted to keep going I started to suck K back into a fully aroused state after confirming that we were ok. S lays down and K begins warming her back up. In both our minds we were thinking that it was pretty arousing to be like this. Me sucking him and him licking S. When I saw that K was good to go I rolled a condom on him and went back to watching.

I asked J if he was ok and he reassured me that he was. K licks S and lays on top of her, he kissing her breasts while he starts to enter her. (We’ve been married 8 years, I know him intimately and knew how he was entering her.) I’m getting really excited. K starts thrusting and S is really excited and she’s got her hands all over him and is grabbing is ass thrusting up to meet him.

I asked J if S makes noise during sex and he tells me that she’s pretty quiet. (I know this did not help things with him) Right after he finishes telling me S starts moaning rather loudly and she well on her way to a good O. I’m watching how she’s moving and I know what K is doing in response (because I do the same thing). I’m getting hotter because I know how he feels and it was just arousing me to see S really, really enjoying. S grasps J’s arm while she’s writhing under K.

S reaches climax and K follows her, he continues to kiss her shoulders and breasts while she’s calming down. I know this sound ridiculous but I was so proud of him. K was attentive, passionate, and considerate in all the right measures. S really enjoyed and she was so into him that I was proud that he gave her a good experience. He withdrew and we shared a kiss where I could taste S on his lips, he asked me how I was, I put his hand between my legs so he could feel how I was.

I didn’t want to be rude but I really wanted to get K alone. I wanted to hear all about it and I wanted him to give me release. We excused ourselves and went someplace where it could be just us. He fucked me while he told me about how S felt, what he enjoyed, how S’s responsiveness fueled his desire. It was really exciting. The whole rest of the night and ALL of Sunday I was aroused thinking about the experience. I felt closer than usual to K, a heightened sense of intimacy, I wanted to show him by coming together physically. We had sex more times in a two day period than we’ve had in years. I’m aroused now, writing this!

**I have this posted elsewhere for other reasons but thought I'd put it here too.
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Old 06-17-2008, 02:07 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Bravo!!!
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Wow! Simply..... Wow!

Great story and great writing. I can completely relate to your reasons for wanting to see your husband with another woman...
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.... I have had difficulty putting this aspect of my own, personal fantasy into words.. so thank you for so aptly describing it!

I hope our first experience is as incredible as yours was....

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(yes.. J & S haha.. and NO.. not the *J & S* in the story for those wondering lol.. however.. i truly wish we were!)
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Wow that sounded so hot. I am glad it was a good experience for you and your hubby.
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Wow is all I can say, Thank you for sharing this.
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Do you give siminars or lessons? I'd pay a lot to send my wife to one of them!
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Me too...Even I would send my wife for a seminar...Good story and nice control.
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