Your first time?

[lovinher]

After reading this thread...
We'll never forget

I thought it would be nice to hear from others about their first time swapping or visiting a club.
So how about sharing your first time with us? Good or bad. Think of it as helping the newbies out there. It might help them as to what to expect......or look forward to. Heck, it might even persuade somebody who has been kicking it around to make the jump. You will be contributing to mankind, the advance of humanity, the....ah nevermind. Just do it.
Maybe Julie would be willing to give a SB T-shirt to the best story?

Details would be great!

[ncmd_couple]

First experiences? Geese, did it start back in 1987 when I had an MFM with my ex-wife? Was it when my new bride and I enjoyed an MFF a couple of years ago? Or was it the MFM we had last year? Yeah, that is when we started actually.

I think everyone gets here any number of different ways. Some discover that swing exists and then pursues it, others like us, start out with open minds and open experiences and find our way to swinging. Personally, I don’t think there is a right or wrong way, just so long as you are happy and enjoying life!

When we really stepped into the lifestyle we started with a MFM. He was an ex-lover of hers, one she had been seeing before she met me. This made it an outstanding afternoon because it was her choice, she was comfortable with him, and he is a great guy that I had met before. Describing that afternoon would take hours, but needless to say, she was pleased in all ways!

Then a few weeks late we went to our first on-premise swing club. She was nervous, so I was I, but not as much as she was. The club owners were fantastic people and they and the host couple made us feel comfortable immediately. We went there not really knowing what the reality was going to be, but we went with low expectations for anything sexual actually happening.

As the night progressed we became more comfortable. Took advantage of the hot tub and playing together in some of the rooms just to get relaxed into things. Again, the owner and his wife made us feel like we had been there for years. “L” getting sexy in her outfit, some dancing, some socializing, and we were soon very comfortable.

We were approached by the host couple later, but honestly, I was not attracted to her, and neither was “L.” We told them that we were newbies and we were just getting comfortable with being there right now. They didn’t seem to be too happy with that, and later I learned that they are headboard notchers, and what those kind of folks are about. They won’t give us the time of day now. Oh well!

Later we were approached by another couple. We accepted their invitation. The lady and I had a good time, unfortunately “L” didn’t have as good a time. Actually, he sucked in bed. Too bad, but it is as important to me that “L” be pleased as it is for me to please the other lady.

Going to the clubs is a lot of fun and we have tried several in our area, and like going back to two of them. We have met a lot of really nice folks, some that we consider to be friends. As we learn and become more comfortable it only gets better for both of us!

[lovefest04]

Well Lovinher, pull up a chair, get comfortable, because this might take awhile.

I'll try to be brief. And just to set the stage, we had never done anything sexual with someone else, in fact, most people we know would swear in court we never could possible do something like this.

It all started for us as a way to add a bit of spice. We started with pictures of her just for us and then talked about sending them to others. So things just sorta kept building. Anyway, some weeks or months later we answered an add for phone sex. This worked out great. It usually started with him and her talking, her getting hot, really brought her out of her shell, then after they hung up we'd have great sex. After the third call or so I approached her while she was talking and ultimately ended up with her having a screaming orgasm and as he listened and whispered sweet nothings in her ear. Well, maybe not so sweet. I know sorta lame, certainly gentle, very safe but very hot as well.

After a few more phone calls with the same guy, he did turn her on, I think he suggested we join him in the city for drinks and maybe more. It sounded like fun and we accepted. We were very nervous, her more than I.

So, we got all dressed up, showered, etc and left for a night out. When we arrived, he had champaign and a private art show arranged. He kissed her deeply, which was the first time I had ever seen my wife in a passionate kiss with someone else. I felt a bit like a third wheel, then remembered she was with me. Anyway, he was a complete gentleman, flirting, touching and so the two of us just gave her all the attention she could take.

The problem was that as the night progressed he became more and more drunk, in fact, probably was half gone when we arrived. We did dinner, which was great, she sat with him and I was across from them. That way he could touch her, she could touch him, which he did. I remember he inserted a finger into her while the waiter was taking our order. So the night had a lot of teasing and flirtatious play which she loved. (Our friends might suggest that this was more than simple flirting)

She was truly radiant. So beautiful, so on. She really felt good, deep down. You know what I mean?

I guess it just means something when a stranger makes over you. It's one thing for your partner to tell you your hot, or to kiss your neck, but an attractive stranger, well that's something completely different.

We ended back at a hotel room, she unzipped his pants and pulled out a very nice but rather limp cock. He now appeared quite drunk, but still quite nice. I know it sounds bad, but it really wasn't, he wasn't obnoxious at all just drunk. So, we played on the sofa while he sort of watched and touched her. This would be the first, but not last, time we would have sex in front of another person. She had some screaming orgasms, again the attention of a stranger and a bit of exhibitionism. Very hot, very fun and quite enjoyable.

It was now very late, like 2:30am, we had met at 8pm. He wanted to take her into the bedroom of this suite, she agreed, probably partly because we were novices and they quickly feel into bed, but he just couldn't do much more. He quickly feel half asleep. (Oh and before you blame her, forget it she's as hot as they come, promise, he truly missed out)

I was out in the other room, but quickly realized not much was going on so I gathered our things, packed our little bag, put on some of my clothes and gathered her skirt and shirt, then tiptoed into the room and whispered to her to get untangled w/o waking him. She tried but couldn't and as shes getting dressed (just a short skirt and blouse, no panties, no bra, he starts to call to her. Afraid he might get up and not interested in whatever might follow, we grabbed our stuff, with what clothes we had and fled down the hotel stairs.

We bolted out of the stairwell, remember its now about 3am, only to come face to face with a night porter, a woman, with her eyes as big as tea cups. Remember, we're only partially dressed, yes clothes on all major parts, but very few buttons buttoned. With that we charged into the deserted streets of the city, a warm evening, a slight breeze and the two of us.

So, our first wasn't exactly the greatest opportunity for her to play with another man, but I'll tell you it was a very romantic evening. And to end up on a deserted city street (in a major city), half clothed, with her at 3am, well life just doesn't get any better than that.

We did call him a few days later to thank him, he apologized, but we never saw him again.

S

[sweet_tna]

Another long one here, so get cozy!

Our good friends invited us to join them on a family camping trip (June 2007). The first night our friends revealed to us they had started swinging. I could tell they were very nervous about telling us—especially me, since they had the impression that I was a bit of a prude.

I was very intrigued, though I’d never giving swinging any thought before. It simply never occurred to me that it was an option. I wanted so badly to ask them a bunch of questions, but Mr. Sweet said that, “Hey, that’s great for you and all that, but I don’t think she would go for it." Boy, was HE ever wrong! Needless to say, I pulled him aside or a private discussion at the first available opportunity.

The next evening we did ask a bunch of questions, and our friends told us the story of their first Meet & Greet. Let me tell you, it was HOT. Anyway, I got so turned on, Mr. Sweet and I ended up sneaking off to the camp showers in the middle of the night!

Over the next couple of months there was a lot of flirting and a little voyeuristic activity between us and our friends. My honey and I decided that even if nothing further happened with our friends, we wanted to give swinging a try. Okay, I decided, lol.

Then our friends invited us to joint them at a Meet & Greet. It was out of town, and we agreed to share a hotel room--just as friends. It was a toga-themed party, but as we got the invite at the last minute, we didn't have costumes. We walked in, legs shaking, and were relieved to see only about half the people were dressed up. Our friends introduced us to a couple people, but the music was so loud, we weren't able to really carry on a decent conversation. That, and we had NO clue what to do. So, like the total newbies we were, we just stood/sat there, waiting for someone to come talk to us. I did get on the dance floor a time or two, but no one seemed interested in joining me/us.

We ended up going with our friends to another room for what we no know to be an "after-party". We sat around and talked with the two other couples, though Mr. Sweet and I were only mildly interested in one of the couples. Once two of the girls started playing, our friends and I decided to leave.

We sat up and talked for awhile, but ended up crawling into bed with our own spouses to sleep. In the wee hours of the morning, Chris woke me up in a very nice way. I tried my best to be quiet, but it was a lost cause. We'd woken our friends up. I apologized, but Mr. Friend said he didn't mind, for us to continue. So Mr. Sweet went back to what he was doing, but I was having trouble relaxing. Mr. Friend again assured us that he didn't mind hearing us, but if he may be tempted to join us . . .

He did, and that was my/our first MFM. Followed shortly by Chris joining Mr. and Mrs. Friend for the same. Then we moved on to full swap. I'll never forget Chris telling Mr. Friend, "Yeah, when she starts to pull away like that, you pretty much have to grab her hips and pull her back to you." He said it in the same way a golf pro might give you advice on your golf swing!

It turned out to be a great experience, and we're still good friends with these folks.

[lovinher]

Great stories everyone

[tisdun]

We got into swinging by accident. We were at Caliente and were sitting in the hot tub talking to another couple. I was almost drunk and my husband was playing with my pussy. I got the urge to fuck right there. I brushed my hand accidently against the breast of the couple we had been talking to. She giggled and took my hand and put it back on her breast. Then she leaned over and kissed me. I had to have her. I rubbed her thigh and played with her breast. She fingered me and I exploded. I sat on the edge of the pool and tried to cool off. We left together and went to their room and fucked them for about three hours. She ate my pussy at that moment, I became bi-sexual a swinger.