Our first...but not last

[Deputy]

About two weeks ago, my gf and I decided to take the plunge. We have done a lot of reading, thinking and, most importantly, talking about what we were expecting, hoping and unsure about. We also got tons of information from the Swingercast podcast, which really helped us understand just what we could expect when we walked through that door.

We live in New York, but decided we'd feel more comfortable if we we took a trip to another city for our first time. After some online searches, we decided to give the Pleasure Garden Club in Philly a shot. The night sort of started off on the wrong foot, as we forgot our bottle of vodka in the hotel, but our cabby was nice enough to turn around and wait while I ran back to grab it. Actually, the cabby was one of the good parts of the night as he was a great and friendly guy. He'd never heard of the club and asked us if it was a strip club. He really perked up when I answered, "actually, it's a swingers club." He was instantly interested and wanted to know all about it, even though we couldn't really answer his questions. Honestly, I think talking with him about it helped set us at ease, as it allowed us to talk about the night and what we were hoping and expecting, as opposed to pretending to be going to some vanilla bar or party.

As we approached the club, nycgirl and I both said that we'd give it a good shot, but that we had no expectations. We wouldn't have been surprised if we just didn't feel comfortable and left fairly quickly. Instead, the club staff made us feel at home as soon as we walked in the door. We got a quick tour of the club, which seemed pretty big. There's a large main dance floor, mainly filled by couples mingling at the bar or sitting at the tables on the sides. In fact, it sort of felt like a high school dance - no one really dancing, but more just hanging out.

We each had a drink and looked around, not really knowing what to do next. We did a little dancing, the whole time scanning the crowd, wondering what was going to happen. There were some girls that really dressed up, something that quickly reminded me we weren't at a high school dance. There was a pretty big crowd, and the people seemed really friendly. There were a lot of people that knew each other, giving the club a welcoming vibe, which was really nice.

Then, an attractive couple we had spotted right away came up and introduced themselves. I'll call them S and C. They were really nice and were regulars at the club. They introduced us to some of their friends, the bartenders and really made us feel even more comfortable. The four of us started to dance as we got to know each other a little better. At one point, a couple they knew came over and the four of them started to dance. They invited us to join, so we got in the middle of a six person line that I think went M-F-M-F-F-M. I know that nygirl really enjoyed that, as there was sexy dancing and lots of roaming hands.

The other couple went to get another drink and we continued to dance with S and C. Well, "with" isn't really the right word, as we more danced next to them. Nycgirl and I didn't really know what to do, but it seemed obvious that we were all interested in each other. Eventually, I suggested that Nycgirl touch C's hand, and we all moved closer together.

We continued to dance closer and closer, until we were pretty much moving as one, with the girls on the inside and guys on the outside. The other couple was more aggressive in pushing things further, which was really good. After all, it was our first time, so we were more than happy to have them lead the way just a bit. However, it didn't take long for Nycgirl and me to get more comfortable and more adventurous, which was really starting to turn us on. As we got closer and closer, I started to dance more with C than with Nycgirl, who was dancing more with S. We all stayed close, however, and Nycgirl and I could always touch each other or make eye contact. That was really hot, as it was great to see her enjoying herself while still feeling like we were really connected.

At one point, I was dancing with C and then leaned over to kiss Nycgirl's neck. S, who was dancing very close actually reached over and moved Nycgirl's hair to the side so that I could really kiss her. I think that was a really good symbol for the night, as S and C were really warm, caring play partners. I'm sure they had a great time, and they also made sure that we did.

I think my favorite part of our "dance" was when the four of us were incredibly close, all facing each other. Nycgirl was against my left shoulder and C was against S's shoulder. I had my hand inside C's lingerie, as S did the same for Nycgirl. The girls seemed to *really* be enjoying themselves, and I was getting incredibly turned on touching C while kissing one girl and then the other. While I'm sure there were lots of people watching (as we were in the middle of the dance floor), I didn't notice a single person. We were completely in our own world and having a great time.

After some more sexy dancing, we all took a break and refilled our cups. S asked if we wanted to check out the play area, and we of course said we did. They walked over to the group play area, which was just next to the dance floor. Honestly, it was a little intimidating, as it was a *very* public play area, and Nycgirl and I weren't quite sure we were ready to be that adventurous. C made her way into the "pit" as it's known at the club, as S, Nycgirl and I watched. I think she wanted us to join, but we weren't quite ready. After some more chatting, S joined her as Nycgirl and I watched 15 or 20 people enjoying themselves in what seemed like a really respectful and hot time. I think we would have been interested in joining S and C in one of the semi-private areas, but the group area was just too much for us on our first night.

Overall, our first night was an incredibly positive experience. We pushed some boudaries, but always felt amazingly comfortable, both with ourselves and with S and C. They were a fantastic couple to introduce us to the club and the scene, and we are really thankful that they showed us the ropes.

Finally, after watching for quite a while, we decided to call it a night. We called our favorite cabby and gave him a bit of a recap of our wild night onthe ride home.

Of course, we went back to the hotel and I got to have wild, incredible sex with the hottest girl in the whole club...

Deputy

[Sonja&Brett]

We play at the fringes, so far. But, after a hot night of fringe play at the club, we have the greatest sex in the private area. So, play couple, or not, going to swinger clubs is great for hours of foreplay, then super sex.

[socolais]

Very cool recount of the events!! and hope you guys have all the fun you can handle

[sweet_tna]

Sounds like ya'll had a great time. Hope you have many more!

=)

[Kentucky]

Very well written and it sounds like it went very well for you. Perhaps if you tell S and C what your reservations were, then they might be open to something less public. Good luck.