First Timers Trip Report

[La Ti Da]

Let me start by saying:

My girlfriend and I went to a swingers club on Friday night and we had an absolute blast.

The club itself is a night club layout, with a full service bar, a DJ, a pool table, couches a dance floor and a stripper pole. Upstairs is pretty awesome. It is a big open space but areas are sort of sectioned off with semi see through cloths. There are lots of big beds, a swing, something that looks like a carpenters horse and a high chair. They also supply condoms, towels, and all sorts of freshen uppers as well. I guess we didnt ned to pack a bag full of that stuff like many of you recommended after all, this place looked pretty well equipped.

Early on there were mostly couples significantly older than us but we immediately sat down at their big table and started chatting it up. We are both really social people and we dove right in.

After several drinks we went and played some pool with a bit of a younger crowd that we all awesome outgoing people. There were 3 couples and a single guy at that table. They allow single guys on Fridays but they can't go upstairs unless they are with a woman / couple. There didn't seem to be many single guys there.

By this time my g/f and I were getting pretty horny so we went upstairs to play. A couple that we hadn't talked to but had been checking us out followed us up there but they left after they presumably saw we were having all the fun we could handle.

It was wierd that we were total newbies but we were the first people to use the upstairs. My g/f was super turned on and she loved the high chair.

I learned that if your partner is a squirter and your using the highchair you should take your socks off first, LOL. I had wet socks for the rest of the night.

We then went back downstairs to commence drinking and socializing. After a while a nice looking couple started playing pool with us. We chatted and found out they have only been around for a month or so and that they have never swapped yet. We danced with them for a while and were having a good time.

Then I made my only ill timed error of the night. When I'm drinking my observation skills sopmetime suffer. My g/f had been eyeing the stripper pole all night as apparently she has always wanted to play on one. She was waiting for the right song and when one came on she jumped on and was looking awesome. But the other couple went for a break right as that song started and the pole is on an slightly elevated stage. I felt awkward dancing by myself even though I was enjoying an awesome show from my g/f. So I asked her to leave the dance floor and she got a bit mad at me. Not too much though as she is used to these types of stupid things I occasionally do.

Soon after that we wanted to go back upstairs. What do you know, the other couple is up there and we ask if we can join in beside them. They were quite happy with that arrangement and both couples were going hard for a good while. They are a sexy couple and both couples were turned on by the presence of the others... at least I know he was for sure. After 30 mins or so the booze was messing with my ability to keep it up so we went back downstairs. It was late and we needed to get some sleep so we headed home.

But I gave the other couple my email address and told them we'd gladly meet up with them at the club again. They seemed enthusiatic and he seemed really pumped about that. I didn't talk to his wife too much as flirting with other girls is still a wee bit awkward for me. But if that couple was interested we'd definatley be up for some swapping fun, or whatever, even more of the same would be great. Haven't heard back from them yet, but we are hoping to. Hopefully I didn't write my email wrong in my drunken stupor.

Anyway that club is awesome! Even if my g/f and I had no interest in swinging we would galdly go back. It is great to go to a place where you can dance/party and then go upstairs for some loving and get right back to the party without having to go home early. The owners, staff and patrons were all great and we can't wait to get back.

Thanks for the advce and content on this forum! Having a lot of info made things less aprehensive as we felt like we knew what to expect. We weren't diappointed!

La Ti Da

[BradAndJanet]

Nice story La Ti Da. Thanks for posting it.

-B

[lovinher]

It's good to hear club success stories from newbies.
The flirting is an issue with me too. After many, many....many years of marriage and not being much of a player it is hard to change and become a flirt. We are making our first trip to a club this week and reading things like this helps.

I love you baby!

[lovinhim]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. As lovinher mentioned we will be going for the first time this week, and I hope we have as much fun as you two did.

Love ya too babe!

[lovinher]

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