We've been assimilated

socolais · 06-10-2007, 03:40 PM

We just wanted to express our thanks for your thoughtful and considerate sharing with us - and especially your tolerance toward my overthinking. I like to think that the collective on this forum enabled our smooth and happy assimilation into the borg by being so generous and helpful.

We attended a small house party last night (first swinging encounter for us) and it was a blast!!! Damn!!! My smile muscles ache!! We're still sorting out our thoughts and emotions but our early consensus is to start packing our play bag now for the next party.

Group hug!!!

Bruce

SouthBond · 06-10-2007, 04:33 PM

Congratulations on a success initiation into the club. It should bring you closer and more intimate with your spouse. Be sure and work together as a team and don't cheat.

Mr. Truelove · 06-10-2007, 04:43 PM

Congrats!

Okay, now we want the first time details.

Mr. Truelove

socolais · 06-10-2007, 07:24 PM

Details, I knew someone would ask....

We were running late for the start of the party because of countless outfit changes and a later than expected visit from our grandson (ya can't say no to a two-year-old when the first words from his mouth every visit is, "Where's Granny?").

This was not a "party house", but the hosts were very experienced and the parties were known to be on the tamer side of things. There were several novice couples in attendance. The grand tour took us near a dimly lit open room where we watched from the hall and listened to the activities on the bed. That boosted our excitement in a very plesant way.

She wasn't ready for the hottub, and I was interested in checking out the action there. Mostly just small talk and one friendly couple in the corner. She joined us in the jacuzzi a little later and we played under the water a little.

Everyone was very friendly and courteous in the open areas with just a little flashing and dirty dancing. I was pleased by the way we were automatically accepted by the group - we felt among friends from the very beginning. I got a quick bj in one of the rooms upstairs and we left shortly after.

So, that's not exactly a rowdy "toga party" kind of story, but the mood of the group suited us perfectly for a first exposure. We are encouraged toward more activity on our next visit.

Mr. Truelove · 06-10-2007, 08:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by socolais

Details, I knew someone would ask....

We were running late for the start of the party because of countless outfit changes and a later than expected visit from our grandson (ya can't say no to a two-year-old when the first words from his mouth every visit is, "Where's Granny?").

This was not a "party house", but the hosts were very experienced and the parties were known to be on the tamer side of things. There were several novice couples in attendance. The grand tour took us near a dimly lit open room where we watched from the hall and listened to the activities on the bed. That boosted our excitement in a very plesant way.

She wasn't ready for the hottub, and I was interested in checking out the action there. Mostly just small talk and one friendly couple in the corner. She joined us in the jacuzzi a little later and we played under the water a little.

Everyone was very friendly and courteous in the open areas with just a little flashing and dirty dancing. I was pleased by the way we were automatically accepted by the group - we felt among friends from the very beginning. I got a quick bj in one of the rooms upstairs and we left shortly after.

So, that's not exactly a rowdy "toga party" kind of story, but the mood of the group suited us perfectly for a first exposure. We are encouraged toward more activity on our next visit.

Well that is such a great story! And I am glad that everything went so well. I'm not much for the rowdy toga parties anyway. Hot tubs sound like a lot of fun, although we've yet to be in one...yet.

Mr. Truelove

wildcherry · 06-11-2007, 02:00 PM

damn i wish we could find a place like that around my area! sounds like you had fun..we have had some partys at my house with friends and yes they all know we like to play (as we call it) and sometimes things just happen but not alot.. and its soo hard to find people that can have fun and do it decretly ..we have 3 kids and lots of faimly that live in hollerin distance sooo its hard for us ..soooo if you hear about anybody in the mobile ,al area that would like to play let us know! wildcherry

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06-10-2007, 03:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,251 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Bruce_Melissa	We've been assimilated We just wanted to express our thanks for your thoughtful and considerate sharing with us - and especially your tolerance toward my overthinking. I like to think that the collective on this forum enabled our smooth and happy assimilation into the borg by being so generous and helpful. We attended a small house party last night (first swinging encounter for us) and it was a blast!!! Damn!!! My smile muscles ache!! We're still sorting out our thoughts and emotions but our early consensus is to start packing our play bag now for the next party. Group hug!!! Bruce
	__________________ I like her because she smiles at me and means it

06-10-2007, 04:33 PM	#2 (permalink)
SouthBond Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 161 Location: Deep River, Texas Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Southbond	Re: We've been assimilated Congratulations on a success initiation into the club. It should bring you closer and more intimate with your spouse. Be sure and work together as a team and don't cheat.

06-10-2007, 04:43 PM	#3 (permalink)
Mr. Truelove Wearing a evil grin Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,198 Location: Fort Wayne Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thetrueloves	Re: We've been assimilated Congrats! Okay, now we want the first time details. Mr. Truelove
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06-10-2007, 07:24 PM	#4 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,251 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Bruce_Melissa	Re: We've been assimilated Details, I knew someone would ask.... We were running late for the start of the party because of countless outfit changes and a later than expected visit from our grandson (ya can't say no to a two-year-old when the first words from his mouth every visit is, "Where's Granny?"). This was not a "party house", but the hosts were very experienced and the parties were known to be on the tamer side of things. There were several novice couples in attendance. The grand tour took us near a dimly lit open room where we watched from the hall and listened to the activities on the bed. That boosted our excitement in a very plesant way. She wasn't ready for the hottub, and I was interested in checking out the action there. Mostly just small talk and one friendly couple in the corner. She joined us in the jacuzzi a little later and we played under the water a little. Everyone was very friendly and courteous in the open areas with just a little flashing and dirty dancing. I was pleased by the way we were automatically accepted by the group - we felt among friends from the very beginning. I got a quick bj in one of the rooms upstairs and we left shortly after. So, that's not exactly a rowdy "toga party" kind of story, but the mood of the group suited us perfectly for a first exposure. We are encouraged toward more activity on our next visit.
	__________________ I like her because she smiles at me and means it

06-11-2007, 02:00 PM	#6 (permalink)
wildcherry Registered Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 4 Location: mississippi Status: couple	Re: We've been assimilated damn i wish we could find a place like that around my area! sounds like you had fun..we have had some partys at my house with friends and yes they all know we like to play (as we call it) and sometimes things just happen but not alot.. and its soo hard to find people that can have fun and do it decretly ..we have 3 kids and lots of faimly that live in hollerin distance sooo its hard for us ..soooo if you hear about anybody in the mobile ,al area that would like to play let us know! wildcherry

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