First time experierence good?

[nyloveandsex]

Was your first time experience good?

If not, was your second?

I'm curious to hear stories.

[oc1234]

It was very good for both myself and my wife. And it was especially good since it was totally unexpected and with good friends.

[flkeyscouple]

Our first swinger experience was a soft swap - and it was a wonderful experience. Our second experience was a full swap and was a wonderful experience. We actually have never had a BAD experience - we've had some better than others, but never anything we'd consider BAD.

knock on wood! ummmm... what kind of wood would that be????

Sarah

[Mr. Truelove]

First time was very nice, but my performance was not so great as I had a little too much to drink and it affected my little soldier. But the experience was still amazing looking back on it, because well, it was still swinging.

The second time though... It'll be hard to match that one.

Mr. Truelove

[nyloveandsex]

Originally Posted by Mr. Truelove

The second time though... It'll be hard to match that one.

Mr. Truelove

You've got to elaborate with your story.

[Mr. Truelove]

Well, the first time I was very nervous. I drank moderately but even in moderation I think it had it's affect. And I was tired.
So when we got back to their place, we got all cleaned up and naked and got in bed. She started by going down on me, and then I went down on her. This whole time I was very very nervous and just couldn't get relaxed enough to enjoy much. I was really stressed that I was not going to impress her, or do the right things for her. Her being multiorgasmic was really throwing me through a loop because Mrs. Truelove isn't. Instead of pushing for the finish, I was trying to guess what I should be doing. I was so confused. What ended up happening was when we went for intercourse I was simply trying to get "into" it, and it wasn't working. Which in turn made my little pal even less at attention. And then that just did a downward spiral. The other couple was great about it, and it was actually still very erotic and stimulating to think back on. It was simply a case of me reflecting on how I could have performed better and been less nervous.

The second time was so incredible.
I laid off the drinking and we played earlier than later. We were at the club dancing, flirting, touching, kissing and getting pretty heavy when we headed back to a private room. When we got there we got down to business pretty quickly. She went down on me, I went down on her. Both women went down on me (I think while he was behind my wife), I went down on her with my wife. The women played with each other. It really was a case where we got so lost in the moments that it's hard to even remember what was happening and to whom. I still have parts I try to remember and it's hard recall who was where.

I was able to relax and that made everything so much more intense at the same time! I didn't focus as much on worrying I was doing the right things, and instead just did what I would normally do. It was a huge self esteem boost when I was able to not only maintain my erection for a great length of time, but also finish with her. Which was very very good.

We were literally dripping with sweat. What a workout! I think when we checked our watches we had been back playing for over an hour. We can't wait for our next time!

Now that I shared all that I am feeling more horny than ever! And Mrs. Truelove already went to sleep.

Mr. Truelove

[gsu22]

I thought my nerves would be too high to enjoy my first time but they were easily calmed

[cracker0jack]

the first with us was a soft swap, and it was with a couple that was great friends, but we were quite nervous, or should I say very nervous. We learned a lot about each other ( me and the wife) so we decide to progress in the "lifestyle".
The second, third and fourth, have all been with the couple that we are currently with (yes Full Swap, same room, seperate room, same bed, or where ever) Everything couldn't have been planned more perfectly.
Read the "Update!!!" that I wrote a few days ago, it will explain it all.
We are so fortunate to have found them. The are the our new best friends, our new lovers and most of all, they are the reason that we choose not to look any further. I know that there are alot of couples out there looking, and I only hope that they find what we have found. Even if they just find a small piece of it, it will be worth wild, and it will knock them off there feet...
CJ

[Oleg&Lena]

To my regret, I can not to say that our first experience was good. It was so-so.
Long time we were searching a couple for our first experience and at last we had meet them. They were good couple, however had some strangeness. For example, they had not a TV, mobile phones, he was walking in sport footwear during the winter etc. In short, they had have original style of life. But I will be honest, they were an interesting couple. And plus to this, they had have experiences in swinging.
The mistake of us was that we had gave the whole of initiative to them during our first swinging. Too long time we sat and drank, spoke about all, not about sex or swinging. Then they said we can to lie in the bed. Then there was simply technical sex. There was not a passion, a excitation. There was not interesting.
Our second experience was very great but it was with another couple despite the fact that they were newbies.

[Spoomonkey]

Our first experience was terrible. To this day, I am surprised that we are in the lifestyle after going through it. But I am glad we did. It really brought a lot of issues out for me personally - jealousy, insecurity - that I would never have dealt with otherwise.

It made me a lot more philosophical about the lifestyle - which is probably why I enjoy being around here so much.

Now? The lifestyle is exciting and active - and I think I have grown a lot as a person, as weird as that may sound. The lifestyle has been like an intense "self-help course".

Oh - the second and third time were "so-so" with the fourth, fifth and sixth time being pretty amazing!

Spoomonkey

[VanHlebar]

I had to answer the poll based on my experience as MrsVan's take would be vastly different, and yes we were together for these two events.

First exerience was terrible. I have posted that story already and I will add the link to it later, but it ended with the other lady quickly getting dressed and then storming out of the room and the club.

The second was a MFM for MrsVan that for me was very rough. She was like a little kid with a new toy if you know what I mean. Not on purpose by any means, but the experience left me feeling pretty bad and we talked about it the entire next day.

Now the third time was with the same couple that we had the MFM with and it was actually the very next day. It rocked and most of our experiences have been great since then. With the exception of one Drama couple, all of them have been fantastic!

-Van

[playmatesinpgh]

Our first time was even better then we had imagined!!!

[Bad Sandy]

Our first time was great! We were at our house so I think being on our own turf made us more relaxed. Also, the couple we were with were experienced swingers so they just took the lead and we had a great ride! (pun intended )

Sandy

[hanmohorny]

1st time was a 3some, mfm. the other guy was a bit up tight, my wife horny as hell, (to me it I thought it would be the other way around, that the wife would be scared), NOT. The trouble was he was huge and had a hard time getting it in her red headed pussy and then got a bit soft due to the preasure. All in all it worked out and the 2nd -the 50th has been great