First Swing and Other Couples Issues

[JustAskJulie]

Originally posted by TeamSoBe


Here's another theory: the other wife got hammered the first night and ended up getting sick. While she's off being drunk and sick her husband is in bed with some couple that they had never played with before. He was coming on to some naked girl instead of taking care of his own wife. She was hurt, she let him know that she was unhappy with him, but they wanted to keep exploring so they tried to keep the fight subtle. The whole issue becomes a thorn that keeps husband from getting too involved on future visits.

This was pretty much the exact theory that I came up with when reading the original story.

What wife wouldn't be pissed if she got sick and instead of checking on her, hubby just kept playing with someone else? I would think (and I'm sure it would have been the case here) that any couple would understand if hubby stopped things and said, "hey ya know she's obviously not feeling well, we should do this another time".

So anyway, that didn't happen. They got in a fight and hubby felt bad. Fearing that he would get in trouble again, he just didn't play the next time and let her have the fun which gave off some weird/bad vibes.

It really sounds like they have some issues to be worked out. I'd suggest moving on and finding some new playmates. As for did you swing... you tried to... you did a little... the swinging fun just ended abruptly and badly both times.

[OhioCouple]

Originally posted by De and Ci
She is doing this because she wants to!

De and Ci,

Sorry that I didn't catch this posting the other day or I would have responded sooner! Now I understand. We have several straight friends that enjoy the same as your wife does for the same reasons. Sounds like you two are having fun!

Glad to hear that all of your own issues are in check. Be sure to follow up with how you handled this situation with this other couple in the future!

Lori