first time and was great!

sillynickname · 11-13-2006, 10:21 AM

Hi just wanted to drop everyone on the board a great big thank you. The advice we received here helped a lot in what, and what not to expect the very first time playing with other couples.
We had our first play date Saturday night and it was awesome.
We talked to this couple for quite awhile on line and we seem to get along wonderfully. We all decided to meet for dinner last week, to see each other face to face and it went great.

We all agreed to meet Saturday for dinner dancing and a hotel with no pressure just fun. What happens, is what happens no expectation, well the night went better than any of us was expecting.. lol. Dinner was good, we headed for the bar and we all worked up a sweat on the dance floor and off too the hotel.
My wife and I had check in earlier in the day and stocked the room with what ever we thought we might need to drink and eat.
The other husband and I had jokingly agreed to put on a strip show for the wives. So we put on the G strings and redressed and started the show. Great fun and it didn’t last to long.. lol. We got the first buck in the G string and they came off.

I was worried about performance issues but had none

I know we all had a great time I hope to repeat the experience as soon as possible… facelick

One big big thing I did learn from this very first time play date was this. I LOVE my wife SO MUCH, after sharing, talking and bonding like that. She is very special to me and I know we have strengthened our relationship and marriage.
After some rough spots early on (I had posted about a couple whom I did not feel comfortable around and was thinking about calling the whole thing off) communication is the key and I feel we can talk about anything now. Anyway thanks for all the good advice we got , so we are officially swinger now!

sexyshelby · 11-13-2006, 10:46 AM

Good for you guys. Glad to hear everything went well.

Nice idea with the g-string strip show! What a fun way to get things started.

~SS

**LFM2** · 11-13-2006, 12:18 PM

Congratulations!! Way to go and the strip show was a great idea!!

telly2 · 11-13-2006, 01:00 PM

Congrats and welcome to the ranks, happy to see it all went well. Nice to see that our board helped make this experience a great one.
Chantal

VanHlebar · 11-13-2006, 01:26 PM

I am glad to hear that everything we so well for you guys! We love hearing the stories of folks first experience and we love to hear the ones that turned out so great even more!

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Originally Posted by sillynickname

One big big thing I did learn from this very first time play date was this. I LOVE my wife SO MUCH, after sharing, talking and bonding like that. She is very special to me and I know we have strengthened our relationship and marriage.

I too can say that this was an extremely fantastic benefit that the lifestyle has brought to MrsVan and myself. Something that most folks would think will rip apart our relationship has only made it so much stronger. Like many of us here on the board, MrsVan and I have a rule that we always go back to each and make love after every play date. This usually means at the end of the night. We have found that our love just continues to grow and deepen for each other. I am reminded after every play date just how much my wife loves me for who I am. I don't have to be someone else and neither does she. We love each other for the person that they are, and I know for me, I would not want MrsVan to change at all!

So, glad it all worked out for you hopefully you will stick around and join in on some of the other topics.

-Van

11-13-2006, 07:46 PM

Congrats! It is great that your first experience was so great and glad to hear that you all had a lot of fun. As MrVan stated before, we have the same feelings as you had that night with your wife. It is so amazing how the lifestyle brings the marriage closer than what anyone ever thought possible. My love for MrVan is stronger now than it was before (and it was pretty intense before the lifestyle). I have realized how much I have found in MrVan that I never thought I would find in a husband. We are able to be whom we want to be around each other and to be able to do that without hiding who we truely which is a great and amazing feeling.

We hope to hear about more experiences you have in the future.

MrsVan

Mr. Truelove · 11-13-2006, 08:48 PM

Oh can I relate! Saturday was our first time too! Well, I think it was actually Sunday morning. Haha!

Congrats!!!!!

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11-13-2006, 10:21 AM	#1 (permalink)
sillynickname Registered Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 8 Location: iowa	first time and was great! Hi just wanted to drop everyone on the board a great big thank you. The advice we received here helped a lot in what, and what not to expect the very first time playing with other couples. We had our first play date Saturday night and it was awesome. We talked to this couple for quite awhile on line and we seem to get along wonderfully. We all decided to meet for dinner last week, to see each other face to face and it went great. We all agreed to meet Saturday for dinner dancing and a hotel with no pressure just fun. What happens, is what happens no expectation, well the night went better than any of us was expecting.. lol. Dinner was good, we headed for the bar and we all worked up a sweat on the dance floor and off too the hotel. My wife and I had check in earlier in the day and stocked the room with what ever we thought we might need to drink and eat. The other husband and I had jokingly agreed to put on a strip show for the wives. So we put on the G strings and redressed and started the show. Great fun and it didn’t last to long.. lol. We got the first buck in the G string and they came off. I was worried about performance issues but had none I know we all had a great time I hope to repeat the experience as soon as possible… facelick One big big thing I did learn from this very first time play date was this. I LOVE my wife SO MUCH, after sharing, talking and bonding like that. She is very special to me and I know we have strengthened our relationship and marriage. After some rough spots early on (I had posted about a couple whom I did not feel comfortable around and was thinking about calling the whole thing off) communication is the key and I feel we can talk about anything now. Anyway thanks for all the good advice we got , so we are officially swinger now!

11-13-2006, 10:46 AM	#2 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: first time and was great! Good for you guys. Glad to hear everything went well. Nice idea with the g-string strip show! What a fun way to get things started. ~SS
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11-13-2006, 12:18 PM	#3 (permalink)
LFM2 ~This space for rent~ Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 4,750 Location: across the tracks Status: Couple	Re: first time and was great! Congratulations!! Way to go and the strip show was a great idea!!
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11-13-2006, 01:00 PM	#4 (permalink)
telly2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 275 Location: copper cliff ontario canada Status: female of couple	Re: first time and was great! Congrats and welcome to the ranks, happy to see it all went well. Nice to see that our board helped make this experience a great one. Chantal
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11-13-2006, 07:46 PM	#6 (permalink)
MrsVan Guest Posts: n/a	Re: first time and was great! Congrats! It is great that your first experience was so great and glad to hear that you all had a lot of fun. As MrVan stated before, we have the same feelings as you had that night with your wife. It is so amazing how the lifestyle brings the marriage closer than what anyone ever thought possible. My love for MrVan is stronger now than it was before (and it was pretty intense before the lifestyle). I have realized how much I have found in MrVan that I never thought I would find in a husband. We are able to be whom we want to be around each other and to be able to do that without hiding who we truely which is a great and amazing feeling. We hope to hear about more experiences you have in the future. MrsVan
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11-13-2006, 08:48 PM	#7 (permalink)
Mr. Truelove Wearing a evil grin Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,198 Location: Fort Wayne Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thetrueloves	Re: first time and was great! Oh can I relate! Saturday was our first time too! Well, I think it was actually Sunday morning. Haha! Congrats!!!!!
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