We are about to not be Virgins !!!!

[ibn battuta]

Congrats! Hope your next encounter is just as fun!

[MrsVan]

Originally Posted by ohmygosh

The wife an I have been on cloud nine ever since and been going at each non stop. WOW is all I can say since sat if were not humping each other we are talking about sat night. We learned alot about each other and about ourselves and our marriage saturday night and thank god everything we learned is good. so glad we had the guts to through caution to the wind and just go for if for now other reason than to see if could handle it. Let me just say you couldn't wipe the smiles from our faces right now with a mack truck. THANK YOU for all the positve posts and to every single last person that has ever posted anything on this board.

BTW do I sound happy

Ohmygosh,

I can just see your faces now as MrVan and I were the same way when we had our first experience and you could not wipe that smile off of our faces for weeks no matter what happened that was bad during the week. I think what you have experienced when it comes to learning about each other is very normal as MrVan and I felt the same. We have always been extremely close and have never had any major fights or arguements, and when we got into the lifestyle we were not sure how we both would react and well, we have come to find out that this lifestyle has brought us closer than we could have ever imagined. We now see how each of us feels towards the other and the amount of love that is shared between us.

And to this day, any experience that we have with another couple or single always leaves that smile on our faces for weeks on end. It is just something that seems to reconnect us and to finally come back to each other at the end of the night, is just an amazing feeling. facelick

Congrats on a great time and I hope that you have many more wonderful experiences along the way.

MrsVan

[gatorvol64]

Originally Posted by randdypop

it will be ok but it would be more real if you did it at one of your own homes not hiding away in a hotel room like it was a bad thing to do good look :

There are reasons everyone cannot play in their homes. That doesn't make it less real.


Now, ohmygosh, I couldn't be happier for you. I now have the same grin on my face just thinking about our first time. Thank you very much!

Vol

[ohmygosh]

Originally Posted by randdypop

it will be ok but it would be more real if you did it at one of your own homes not hiding away in a hotel room like it was a bad thing to do good look :

Thanks for uh well.... nothing acutually. It was very nice of you to condem us or what we did and how we did it without knowing anything about us.

The reason we went to a hotel, by the way it's wasn't a red roof inn or something it was a 4 diamond resort where we had suites. Neither of us really knew each other and they being our first couple were nice enough to not want to pressure us on our first time. The area we went to is filled with clubs and little bars and stuff so we could all go dancing and have dinner and really see by the end of the night if we were ready to go through with it. To top it all off we wanted our first time to be special and this was kinda like a little vacation. Where we could go and feel special. We started the night with and nice dinner out and afterwords back at their room with a bottle of champange and strawberrys just to congratulate oursleves on having the guts to get this far. With the hotel rooms if something didn't feel right or we got scared we could always just go to our own room and that would be it. It worked out perfect. BTW we also both have kids and we have small kids so we really wanted to get to know them better before we brought them into our house to see pictures of kids and stuff and they felt the same way. The best thing was that my wife felt special with the pampering of a suite and champange and a nice night out. The girls were in seventh heaven by the end of the night with all the pampering that us guys did. It said the mood and we all needed that. Maybe your ok with just "ya'll come on over and will screw" and that is fine if you are as we are not judgeing you, but we needed more than that it was or first time and my wifes first time with a girl and it needed to be special. Just to let you know we have set up a date for our next meeting and it will be at our house for a nice dinner and then a whole bunch of fun so I hope that meets you aproval and is real enough.

[ohmygosh]

Originally Posted by 2jersey

It is interesting that you spent alot of time getting to know this couple online - three weeks! By the time you met in person, you had already developed a good relationship. Well done!

Thank ya, thank ya very much
I know 3 weeks is a looong time but actually it was like 2 weeks talking online then we went out to dinner and met for the first time face to face. Then 1 week later we met for our night of fun. You have no idea how many times my wife and I were like ok we need to start looking for someone else cause this doesn't seem to be going anywhere. But we really liked them and then something would happen and we would get in to a conversation online and everything would change and we would say ok maybe it isgoing somewhere. We had time invested and decided that we were sticking with this couple until the end one way or another. It turns out that they were really concerned that us being so new would get scared. They have been stood up before and had paid for a hotel taken time off work got someone to watch the kids and their couple never showed up or even called. So they were a little scared of us but we all really liked each other. So we all have just what we were looking for, we have made some good friends that we all feel comfortable with in and out of the bedroom and to top it all off love to play with each other. To us anyway that is having our cake and eating it too.