Wish us luck

[prettylady]

Dog and I have decided to take the plundge into the wadding pool end of swinging. hee hee
Seriously, we will be in the beautiful city of Toronto the 25/26 of August and have decided to go to happy Hedonist while we are there. Dog said if I feel ready lets do it. He seems pretty excited as I am.
They say women can dress as sexy as they want to. What in good lords name does that mean? will there be naked or nearly naked women there? I hate not knowing what to expect. I am not sexy, I am....well prettylady. I don't usually do sexy. I do cute and cheeky. I would feel stupid in stilletos and micro mini. Look I can't even spell stilletos, at least I think it is spelt wrong. I sleep in flannel pants and baby T's. I live in karate or kickboxing pants...do you think they would pass as sexy? Dog says when I am in my gi he wants to tear it off me because I look so damn hot in it.
My idea of bar close are a pair of jeans and a boy beater. Sexy as that maybe I don't think that is what the clubs have in mind.
Good grief I think I need to shop somewhere other then a sports store.
Some one help me
Your friend,
Prettylady

[TwoLittleBirds]

Oh Pretty Lady, I feel like a friend is going off to college; Good Luck! Pretty soon, it'll be me and Mrs. Little Bird: She's already set something up for us with a girlfriend and the girlfriend's BF.

But you're the first from the class of June 2006 (our signup date on this forum!) to take the plunge. You're the right one to go first. If some creep makes you uncomfortable and gets grabby, you can bounce him off a wall a few times... like the ball on a racquet ball court. Hee hee!

Good luck, Sweetie, to both you and Dog from me and the Mrs.

Let us know if it's a possitive experience. And remember, you don't HAVE to swing to make the night a success. You decide what a successful night is.

Mr. and Mrs. Little Bird

PS Gi pants and a white T-Shirt = HOT and SEXY!

[WildMiCouple]

Prettylady.....you're gonna have a fun time. A sexy outfit is anything you feel sexy in For Tammy, it's a denim mini skirt, low cut v-top and FMP's(fuck-me-pumps facelick ). Other times it's a leopard print skirt, sheer black top....losing the bra on the way....and FMP's. Gotta have the FMP's Tammy can't wear the stilletto's....so her's have a little fatter heel.

Don't go in anything that makes you feel too uncomfortible. It's all about your attitude and how sexy you feel. When you feel sexy, you'll exude it and everyone else will take notice of it too

Brett

[good times]

Good luck Prettylady, and like Brett said, go in what you feel the most sexy in. Usually, if a woman feels sexy she gives off the sexy vibes and people notice.

You mentioned sports clothes, and even though it may seem obvious, Sweats are against the law. In fact if you wear sweats within a week of going to the club it will probably kill that sexy vibe. Well, maybe it isn't that bad, but if a woman even tells me she owns sweats the mental picture would ruin it for me.

Woops, gut stuck for a minute there, can you tell I don't think sweats are sexy. Just remember to go expecting to have fun, don't have a lot of expectations beyond that, but be prepared for anything. That is always our moto anyway. Have a good time, I am sure I don't need to tell you, but we expect a full report when you get back.

[prettylady]

Don't worry GT I don't own sweats. I own shorty shorts and baby T's. LOVE those baby T's . I have had comments about how some of the guys like to watch me work out because they are sure to get a little peak. Thats not the point, I just hate to have my legs constricted when doing squats. But I am careful to wear cute undies when I have my shorts on.

Thanks everyone for the support, I will get back to you about the club. It isn't until aug 26 that is when we are in TO. I can't wait.
Your friend,
Prettylady.

[Chip_n_Muffy]

Prettylady in tight jeans and a boy beater? Yeah, my mind's eye sees that and likes it ....... I think sexy is as sexy does. Muffy exudes sexuallity whether dressed to the nines or schlepping around in her walking shorts and T shirt. Methinks that it depends less on what you wear and more on who you are. Too bad Toronto is so far away, I would pay the price of admission to see PL, dressed up or dressed down. facelick

Chip

[WesternSwing]

To me, sexy is an attitude, and aura about you, not the clothes. But for the record, tanktops and jeans are everyday porn for me. THAT is sexy.

The key words here are "can dress sexy" not "has to dress sexy". So I'd say wear what you want to. Just check with them to see if there is a dress code like "no jeans". You want people to want you for who you are, not who they want you to be.

Mr. WS

[2jersey]

Good luck prettylady. Tomboy chic!

[SeamusB5]

Bigtime nieve question here.

Myself and the Misses have been curious too about this stuff. (She's more interested then me) We don't know a thing about it, or a soul who participates! I can't even believe I'm on this site!

We have great sex but have been getting a little board. What is the likelyhood of finding a couple that we both will be attracted too? To be honest I had lost my virginity with my wife as a teen and have been a one woman man my entire life, ditto with my wife.

How to put this? I can vision some real premature awkwardness and is this something folks have getting started?

Any reply is appreciated

[prettylady]

Originally Posted by SeamusB5

How to put this? I can vision some real premature awkwardness and is this something folks have getting started?

Any reply is appreciated

Oh hell ya awkwardness is something we feel. This is my first real stab at it. I am nervous but really excited as well.
This is a great place to start and look around. Get comfortable with the idea before you explore and physical relationship. I am a quick learner. I had the idea suggested to me by Dog and I jump right on this website. Learnt alot about dos and don'ts had all my questions answered honestly.
Sometimes with brutal honesty sometimes like in this thread with a little light hearted play, but my concerns are always put to rest.

Good luck in your search for answers
Your friend,
Prettylady

[EvilMJ]

When ever I go out, I go out in what is comfortable and makes me feel sexy. Girl, the others have said it, it's what's inside that radiates more than the clothes.

I wear a tank top and jeans sometimes and get hit on just much when I am in a mini and a see through top. Its the person who is outgoing and fun who gets attention I find.

[mrs good times]

Like someone else mentioned I would check with the club for a dress code first.
Because it's summer alot of people at the club we attend are wearing shorts and tank tops.

Have fun, relax and enjoy yourself.

[Danny Zuko]

Pretty Lady,

My wife, Bad Sandy, is working up to going to Pleasure Palace or Night Moves here in Tampa. I am ready but she needs more time. Wish you the best. You must do what you feel comfortable doing and wearing. We go to Caliente and Paradise Lakes and Bad Sandy gets to dance and wear sexy clothing. Nothing beats a woman wearing ___me pumps. Do something different to suprise your man. Order stuff online or go to the store and try stuff you would never think you would look good in. You will suprise yourself.

Anyway, enjoy yourself and be confident that you will be the center of attention in a great way.

All the best.

Danny.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by good times

Good luck Prettylady, <cut out a lot of words here!> we expect a full report when you get back.

Dito !!!

[Amanda69]

Hey Pretty Lady Happy Hedonist believes in allowing you to wear what you feel sexy in...course right now I can't get out of my head your idea of short, shorts and a baby tee...oh yeah that would work.

People do wear jeans to the club, not the majority but they do wear them.

Many of the women wear short skirts, tight dresses and cleavage popping out all over the place.

The club can be pretty raunchy, they are known for this and they have a ladies only dance around 11:30....

Be warned single men are there on most nights now...they have guidelines to follow, if anyone bothers you just let the door staff know...or us as we will be there too....