We had our first experience, and don't think its for us...

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by seattlecpl06

There's something, right now, about the thought that's worse than the real thing. In some ways it's like the imagination can run wild, and it makes things worse than they are.

Don't know if THAT makes sense!

Makes perfect sense. Amazing how liberating it is when we discover that we are our own worst enemies, no?

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by seattlecpl06

I'm the male half of a couple contemplating swinging (am I the only one who doesn't really like that word? too many creepy connotations).

Three Characters always come to mind when I hear/see that word:

1) Austin Powers (obviously)
2) "Disco Stu" from The Simpsons
3) Glen Quagmire from "Family Guy" ("Giggity Giggity!)

I think we need to come up with a "New Improved Word" for our little secret activity: Suggestions?

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by intuition897

Makes perfect sense. Amazing how liberating it is when we discover that we are our own worst enemies, no?

Some people would be depressed about learning that and continue to dwell on the negative things. I'm really not sure what it is that turns a persons thinking around. I think they just have to eventually act on something or they really couldn't live with themselves, then they find that it isn't nearly as bad as they thought. Lot's of people have their own ideas on what sex should be like and can't handle the true giving that can occur. The opening of their being is still way scary for them.

Male D

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by DBL D

The opening of their being is still way scary for them.

Male D

Dito!!

[twohots4u2]

We agree. Waking up remembering what you did last night when you were swinging is fantastic! Gets the morning off to a hard start! So, you learned why it is not good to drink a lot when you swing.

We really believe that the three most important things about swinging to us is together, together, together. We get a lot of our pleasure watching each other have fun.

Too much excitement seems to short circuit the nerves controlling my penis. It was that way the first time we full swapped with another couple and I watched my gal get fucked in front of me for the first time. My dick went limp and would not get hard no matter how much his gal sucked on it. She was very understanding of the situation. I went down on her and gave her multiple orgasms until she was exhausted. She thanked me and told me that was the most orgasms she had ever had. So we all went away happy.

It was the next day before my short circuited nerves recovered, and now just mentioning our swinging activities is a guaranteed way my gal can get me hard.