Our first MFM happened, by chance :D

[VanHlebar]

Well MrsVan finally got her one of her fantasies this weekend. We went to the club on Saturday and we had a good time just the two of us. We tried to strike up conversations a few times with 2 or 3 couples and nothing ever went past hello's etc and we had finally resigned ourselves that we would not be playing this evening. No big deal, we just had fun together on the dance floor and playing around with each other for most of the evening.

Then we decided that we wanted to have sex in a semi-public area of the club so we went into one of the rooms that is setup similar to a tent with a bed inside of it. It was awesome, because this room was right off on of the large play areas of the club and also in plain site of one of the bar areas. MrsVan had me lay on my back and she was blowing me while couples and singles were walking by the room. The would stop and watch for a little while and then for the most part move on. Then this one guy stops in front of the room and just watches. This guy MrsVan had been staring at all evening long and had made a number of statements of how hot she thought he was. He moved on as most of the others had and I thought nothing of it at first.

Then I thought to myself that I should motion him into the room. It's one of MrsVans fantasies to have someone she doesn't know pleasure her while she is blind folded. Since we had not talked about playing with this guy, I just couldn't do that to her in the club, so I told her he was watching us and I said that if he came back that I would ask him to join us if she wanted me to. She stopped sucking me and looked at me with this look of amazement on her face and asked me if I would really do that.

Well he actually came back a few minutes later and I asked him to join us. First he was suprised and I don't think he belived me, but finally he came into the room and sat down on one of the chairs and just watched. This guy was such a gentleman it amazed both MrsVan and I. He waited in the chair until I told him that he could participate if he wanted to. Once he started to play with MrsVan with his hands he never mad any motions to take off his clothes or even ask for anything else, until MrsVan turned around and started kissing him and unzipped his pants to suck on him.

Then after this went on for some time I bent over her from behind to ask her if she wanted to fuck him and she said yes. So she asked him if would would and of course he said yes. This was the first time I noticed his size. Wow! MrsVan had not yet upto this point been with any overly large guys and has said in the past that she wasn't sure she could be with a guy overly large. Well the guy was probably 8 or 9 inches and thick as hell. At first I must admitt I was shocked and didn't think she was going to be able to do this. Then I remembered that she had been sucking him for some time and new how large he was so I let her control where it went.

The looks on her face while this guy was screwing her and she was blowing me were amazing! facelick It will be many days before I get those looks out of my mind.

Then to top it all off, after we all were finished he shook my hand, said thank you very much and then kissed MrsVan and said the same to her! It was not a planned 3 some that she really wants, but it was hot as hell and MrsVan is still smiling this evening with that special glow that I can't explain. I can't wait to plan a full evening of a 3 some for her!

Sorry for the long post, I am still in as state of excitment myself and had to share it with someone!

-Van

[imsnowman]

Great story. Sounds like you were pretty lucky!

[valley]

If you liked what you just had,you are both in for a beautiful time from now on.As good as that was it can and does get even better.In a lot of ways.

You will find even talking about it will get you both going.Planning your next encounter will make you horny.

good luck,have fun.

[sexyshelby]

Glad you both had such a great experience!
Thanks for sharing.

~SS

[LOL_OMG]

I must say this sounds absolutely sweet and caring from both of you. How wonderful you found someone to join you who was such a gentleman. Rock on guys, rock on.

Mrs LOL

[WesternSwing]

Congrats! That is not only a hot situation, but a great way for it to happen, and all with a happy ending.

Mr. WS

[gaznrachy]

Not a long post at all.....

Thanks for sharing, I'm glad it all went so well.

Good luck with your next adventure! Never say never.....

Gaz

[lovedoctor]

Wow, what a great experience (and a well written post!) Thanks for sharing...

Oh, and are you going to see Mr. Big again, or is this just three ships passing in the night?

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by lovedoctor

Oh, and are you going to see Mr. Big again, or is this just three ships passing in the night?

Heehee... you said big.

[VanHlebar]

Originally Posted by lovedoctor

Wow, what a great experience (and a well written post!) Thanks for sharing...

Oh, and are you going to see Mr. Big again, or is this just three ships passing in the night?

I am sure it will be a three ships passing in the night type of thing. I am sure MrsVan would love to see him again if he was at the club again.

Thanks all for the kind responses. We are already trying to make this happen in a planned way. We had been working on it for months before, but now we really have a renewed interest in it. I want to see it happen now as much as she does.

-Van

[The Fuse]

Originally Posted by VanHlebar

The looks on her face while this guy was screwing her and she was blowing me were amazing! facelick It will be many days before I get those looks out of my mind.

-Van

Aaaargghh...How am I going to concentrate on work this afternoon??!!

[VanHlebar]

Originally Posted by The Fuse

Aaaargghh...How am I going to concentrate on work this afternoon??!!

The same way I am trying to concentrate on work today... I am having a very difficult time with it.. especially since MrsVan like to chat during the day over IM and we just got done talking about it again

Oh well what can you do

-Van

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by VanHlebar

Well he actually came back a few minutes later and I asked him to join us. First he was suprised and I don't think he belived me, but finally he came into the room and sat down on one of the chairs and just watched. This guy was such a gentleman it amazed both MrsVan and I. He waited in the chair until I told him that he could participate if he wanted to.

Y'know, it's a fine line that a single male has to walk in the swinging...er, lifestyle...er, whatever. A single male has to show interest, but not be too aggressive. He has to be ready to play, but has to interpret the signals (of both the F and the M in this case) correctly. And, most of all, he has a stereotype to overcome.

I'm glad your first MFM went so spectacularly well. And from the single male side of things, I know how the situation can be like dancing-through-landmines for everybody involved. But I want to congratulate you two on taking the opportunity to invite a single male into your relationship, AND (especially) also being so appreciative of his demeanor. It was obvious that he showed respect for both of you, but it is also very evident that you two have a real appreciation for the way he behaved in the situation.

Now, if you are really appreciative of what he did and how he acted, even if you never play with him again, do him this favor: If you meet another couple at the club looking for a respectful single male for an MFM, and you think they deserve him, give him a referral. You know, pay it forward.

I'm glad your first MFM experience went so well and I hope they only get better. Have fun!

Thrax
P.S. A well-written description of your encounter, too. Whew! I expect you to expand that and put it on the "Swinger Stories" section of this site.

[VanHlebar]

Originally Posted by Thrax

Y'know, it's a fine line that a single male has to walk in the swinging...er, lifestyle...er, whatever. A single male has to show interest, but not be too aggressive. He has to be ready to play, but has to interpret the signals (of both the F and the M in this case) correctly. And, most of all, he has a stereotype to overcome.

You are quite right about this. He really was extremely gentle and very considerate and I for one was very pleased and thankful for it. After talking more with MrsVan today about it a few other things came to mind. When I first told him it was ok to participate, he did not just jump in and start fondling MrsVan or anything like that. He took his time and started by massaging her back and neck and rubbing her back and ass for quite some time before he actually started to play with her. It was just very nice to see him be so patient and not be rushed or try to push us. He went at our pace and took what was offered and never asked for anything more.

I would gladly tell another couple that was looking for a great guy to find him in the club. I know I am married, but I also know how hard it has been for MrsVan and I to find a nice single guy so.

Originally Posted by Thrax

P.S. A well-written description of your encounter, too. Whew! I expect you to expand that and put it on the "Swinger Stories" section of this site.

Well I might just have to do that after this weekend. And if all goes well this weekend, we will be meeting our single lady friend for a FFM 3some and I hope to have more to share from that first also!

-Van

Thanks everyone for the great posts to our story. It was quite an evening and all though MrVan and I did not think we would play with another couple it had never occurred to me to include a single male. Like MrVan stated I noticed him at the bar checking me out and throughout the evening as well while we were on the dance floor. But I did not know how MrVan would react in doing a threesome.

When MrVan and I were in the room and he stated that he was watching and wanted to know if I wanted him to join, pure excitement went through my body at just the thought of having a threesome that night. facelick It felt so right and I said yes and glad that I did. He was amazing in the aspect that he was kind and considerate of us. He asked for no more or no less from either of us and you could tell at the end he was very appreciative that he had the chance.

Although my first MFM was not what I had in mind, I am still glowing at the thought that it finally happened and it was with a guy that was very respectful. I cannot wait to act out on the planned version as I have a feeling it will be more than what I imagine

Thrax, you can be sure that if I was to see him again at the club and if someone had asked about a single male, I would send them in his direction (after I had another with him first facelick ). He deserves that from us as I am grateful for what he gave MrVan and I, and did it in a respectful manner.

MrsVan