We finally jumped in

[dreamer]

After much procrastinating, we finally engaged in this lifestyle. It is very difficult to find other couples just because we're looking for a couple we feel at least 99% certain is clean. We found a single male that my wife is attracted to physically and has been a friend for awhile. It was kind of surprising when he dropped his pants. He is really hung, like porn hung. We kind of thought we would participate together, but my penis just wasn't up to the task in the presence of his equipment, so I just kind of watched as he proceeded to almost literally fuck my wife's brains out. It was amazing, I've never seen her react that way in bed before, but he really rang her bell. When my wife, and I have sex she always says it's fine, but she never reacts like that. I never really thought about how small I was until then.

Once, years ago I had a make out session for about 5 hrs with a girl, and it got down to where she unzipped my pants, took it out and just ahhh.......it's just little and zipped my pants back up. She said it in such a sweet way, I was kind of dumb struck. I had a long conversation with my wife about my size, and she says it's fine and doesn't bother her, but she conceded that this guy reached places I couldn't. She really likes fucking this guy, and it never happens unless I'm there. Here vagina isn't really stimulating to me anymore as I know he is stretching her out. Usually she just lubricates her hand and I hump it. That seems to be much more stimulating. I'm thinking about trying to stop it, but she enjoys it so much. Sometimes he just swings by and bangs my wife and leaves. Don't get me wrong, It stimulates me as well. When he is done with her, she is as horney as hell. She usually likes me to eat her out or ride my face till she comes which I don't like as much as I get his load in my mouth, but she enjoys it so much.

Anyway, that's our first experience. I want to end it, but I don't. Oh well

[shiftagain]

Perhaps I'm just a little too matter of fact, but, well, have you two ever thought about anal?

I mean the back hole is more than likly tighter than the front...

Just a thought, please don't be offended. I've heard of couples that say they'l swing, but only the hubby gets one hole or the other....

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by dreamer

Once, years ago I had a make out session for about 5 hrs with a girl, and it got down to where she unzipped my pants, took it out and just ahhh.......it's just little and zipped my pants back up. She said it in such a sweet way, I was kind of dumb struck.

...She usually likes me to eat her out or ride my face till she comes which I don't like as much as I get his load in my mouth, but she enjoys it so much.

Anyway, that's our first experience. I want to end it, but I don't. Oh well

A. That girl may have sounded sweet but that's just bitchy!
B. Your wife could always "clean the deck" in between sessions. Can you say "shower?" Then she'd be all nice for her REAL man! facelick
C. You need to find a virgin (just kidding - don't we all!) Actually a 40 something female who's had a vaginal repair would be just the ticket for you ~tightens the ole squeeze box up nicely. However, it would raise a few eyebrows if you advertised as looking specifically for that Don't give up! You sound like a great guy and the right play partner for you will come along too.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by dreamer

I want to end it, but I don't.

Why and why not?

Spoomonkey

[MarriedNY'ers69]

Originally Posted by dreamer

We kind of thought we would participate together, but my penis just wasn't up to the task in the presence of his equipment, so I just kind of watched as he proceeded to almost literally fuck my wife's brains out. It was amazing, I've never seen her react that way in bed before, but he really rang her bell. When my wife, and I have sex she always says it's fine, but she never reacts like that. I never really thought about how small I was until then.

Um well your wife sounds like she really needs to do her kegals. God I fuck huge toys way bigger than any man I hav ever seen. But as soon as I take them out I am just as tight as normal. Kegals kegals kegals LOL Men love how tight I am and I have fucked all sizes they always say they can't beleive it. And that's the only thing I can think of why they love it so much. I do my exercises everyday.

[dreamer]

Originally Posted by lovedoctor

A. That girl may have sounded sweet but that's just bitchy!
B. Your wife could always "clean the deck" in between sessions. Can you say "shower?" Then she'd be all nice for her REAL man! facelick
C. You need to find a virgin (just kidding - don't we all!) Actually a 40 something female who's had a vaginal repair would be just the ticket for you ~tightens the ole squeeze box up nicely. However, it would raise a few eyebrows if you advertised as looking specifically for that Don't give up! You sound like a great guy and the right play partner for you will come along too.

She's pretty horney when he leaves, and she doesn't want to break the mood with a shower. I know part of the turn on for her is to dump his load in my mouth while riding my face. I think she enjoys it after swallowing my load so many times in the past. There is nothing more exciting than a horney woman, and he really gets her there. If it makes her horney, I'm there. She starts dripping when she knows he's on his way over. It's just been a couple of weeks, he's fucked her 8 times. He's local, and in her traffic pattern, and always ready to go when she calls. It feels like he's actually becoming a bit of a boyfriend, but we are secure in our relationship. We are best friends as well as husband and wife. We wouldn't have engaged in this lifestyle if we weren't. I've talked to her about stopping, and I don't think that's an option. She just absolutely assures me she is not going anywhere.

[dreamer]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Why and why not?

Spoomonkey

Well, I'd like it to end because I guess I'm jealous as hell that I can't make her walk the way she does after he pounds the crap out of her with that huge thing between his legs. I guess it feels more than a little humiliating to see that she can barely get her hand all the way around his cock. I think he's at least 8 inches and very, very thick.

..and I don't want it to end because because I've never seen her this horney before. It's pretty exciting.

[dreamer]

Originally Posted by MarriedNY'ers69

Um well your wife sounds like she really needs to do her kegals. God I fuck huge toys way bigger than any man I hav ever seen. But as soon as I take them out I am just as tight as normal. Kegals kegals kegals LOL Men love how tight I am and I have fucked all sizes they always say they can't beleive it. And that's the only thing I can think of why they love it so much. I do my exercises everyday.

That's an idea. In the past she has taken some pretty big toys. One time while fingering her for awhile, she actually took my whole hand. It felt pretty strange to make a fist inside her. She couldn't believe it.

[sdlights]

Wow, No offence dude but you need to work on your self esteem, and your priorities. You are who you are, and need to be comforatable with that. Just because this guy is huge shouldn't have any impact on your own self worth. We are all made differantly. As the saying goes variety is the spice of life.

If you don't like cream pie then you and your wife will need to work out some kind of compromise. Is there something she doesn't like to do but gets your juices flowing. Maybe you trade. There should always be options.

Other wise you need to decide how important your marrage is, if she isn't willing to give this guy up and you don't like the results your kind of at an impass. At the very least you might want to thing about seeing a counselor to sort things out.

I know things between two people are as easy to work out as they are to type about. So good luck and let us know how things turn out.

S

[dreamer]

Originally Posted by shiftagain

Perhaps I'm just a little too matter of fact, but, well, have you two ever thought about anal?

I mean the back hole is more than likly tighter than the front...

Just a thought, please don't be offended. I've heard of couples that say they'l swing, but only the hubby gets one hole or the other....

Well before this guy, she would sometimes insert a dildo anally, This made her smaller and she could feel me enough that it was pleasurable for her and me. Generally she's not in the mood, and she lubes her hand, holds it at her waist and I hump it. I think she enjoys the fact that she can make me cum so easily. Her orgasm is usually more of a major production.

[dreamer]

Originally Posted by sdlights

Wow, No offence dude but you need to work on your self esteem, and your priorities. You are who you are, and need to be comforatable with that. Just because this guy is huge shouldn't have any impact on your own self worth. We are all made differantly. As the saying goes variety is the spice of life.

If you don't like cream pie then you and your wife will need to work out some kind of compromise. Is there something she doesn't like to do but gets your juices flowing. Maybe you trade. There should always be options.

Other wise you need to decide how important your marrage is, if she isn't willing to give this guy up and you don't like the results your kind of at an impass. At the very least you might want to thing about seeing a counselor to sort things out.

I know things between two people are as easy to work out as they are to type about. So good luck and let us know how things turn out.

S

Trust me, before this I had no self esteem issues. Giving her up is in no way an option. No man gives up a woman this fine. I'll just take her advice "Suck it up and be a man" said in a very loving way.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by dreamer

Trust me, before this I had no self esteem issues. Giving her up is in no way an option. No man gives up a woman this fine. I'll just take her advice "Suck it up and be a man" said in a very loving way.

Honestly, I see that advice as being a bit of an oxymoron, frankly. I don't see how you can both "suck it up" and "be a man".

But that's just me. I've never been much for being walked on...

Spoomonkey

[NFA-n-Indy]

just my two cents...

We wouldn't have engaged in this lifestyle if we weren't. I've talked to her about stopping, and I don't think that's an option. She just absolutely assures me she is not going anywhere.

But what do you think you jumped into? To me this doesn't at all sound like swinging but more like some dude bangin your wife when you really deap down want it to stop. Then your wife degrades you afterward.

[beigekhakis]

I've had the same worry!

[easyliz]

Just enjoy cleaning up afterwards. My husband does.