First time at a club.

2LookingForFun · 02-26-2006, 06:45 PM

Well we had our first time at a club. What an awesome experience!!

We were so excited when we got there, but we got in and it was incredible! The set up was nice, the people were nice, and it was just the perfect way for us to make our way into the Swinger lifestyle. We both looked at each other many times durning the night and wished that we had found this 8 years ago. Maybe if we had really talked we would have.... but that is the past and this is now.

I would like to say thank you to everyone on this board!! With the help of the posts and PMs we knew a little bit of what to expect, and made it easier for us.

I personally was very concerned about becoming jealous... I am jealous by nature, but that did not happen. I actually feel so much better about myself and our relationship/marriage, that it has really taken it to a "new level". I am sure that most of you know what I mean.

Now the shocking thing was that I/we saw things in real life that I had only seen on film before.

And did things that I have always wanted to do but was afraid to try, especially in public. <EG>

Again thank all of you for the great advise you have given us.

NakedInSeattle · 02-26-2006, 06:55 PM

Glad you had a great time your first time out!!! It was the same for Mrs Naked and I. Our first thought (after the evening was over) was "why the hell didn't we do this long ago?"

Welcum to the lifestyle. Share more, please.

Edison Carter · 02-26-2006, 07:42 PM

Susan here:If you'd like to help other newbies like yourself, describe the evening, if you feel comfortable about 'dishing'.

JonaMar · 02-26-2006, 07:57 PM

We are glad to here that it was wonderful for you two. We would like to here more about it seeing that this is so new to us and we are looking to try a club ourselves. Any other info would be greatly appreciated.

sexyshelby · 02-26-2006, 09:26 PM

WooHoo! Glad to know you had a great time!

~SS

2LookingForFun · 02-27-2006, 08:06 PM

Well since everyone is asking for details I guess we have to spill the beans. Just so no one gets to excited we didn't do a full swap because that was one of the rules we made since it was our first time out. The rules were something we picked up on the board and I think they are a great idea, especially for a new couple. It allows the both of you to take in the scene and move slowly. Once in the club everyone was very nice. The biggest recommendation I have to newbies is to say hi and talk to everyone you can even if you are not atracted to them. You make friends quickly and There is plenty of time to have fun

. When we did settle down with a few couples it was great. Lots of hands, tongues, & ice cubes wandering around. I watched my wife expose herself in public for the first time and it was a thrill facelick . At one point both of the other woman involved were touching and licking her nipples while I was busy strategically placing my fingers (I will leave this to your imaginations). Needless to say all of the nervousness we had was gone. It really just seemed like a natural thing for us. She thought she was going to be jealous if I was touching and playing with other women, but it never happened. She even surprised me when one of the other woman suggested that I needed to loosen up and she told her to help me out. She proceeded to rip my shirt open with encouragement from my wife. Later in the evening all three couples ended up on the dance floor with the women topless, kissing each other, and rubbing each others breasts. It was agreat scene to take in especially since I had never experianced my wife with another woman. At some point one of the other guys suggested we trade signifigant others and engage in a little kiss and feel session. This continued most of the night, so I don't think we could have asked for a better introduction to the lifestyle. We were not sure how far we wanted to go, but now that we know any concerns we had have been answered I think will be willing to move to new levels. I definitely know we want to continue this lifestyle and as the wife mentioned in the first post we find ourselves asking why we never talked to each other about this before.

LOL_OMG · 02-27-2006, 08:39 PM

Hi guys!

I'm glad you had a good time, sounds like the first club experience was a fun new adventure for ya!

BTW, we looked for you...but it was pretty crowded (I actually asked a few people if they were new to see if it was you two).

Welcome to the best foreplay ever....

Mrs LOL

2LookingForFun · 02-27-2006, 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LOL_OMG

BTW, we looked for you...but it was pretty crowded (I actually asked a few people if they were new to see if it was you two).

Welcome to the best foreplay ever....

Mrs LOL

We spent most of the night by the pool table (loosing, till the beer kicked in... heee heee). Ohhh I was busy earning beads as well.

Thrax · 02-27-2006, 09:11 PM

Ah, so THAT's where you were! I know some people that were there on Saturday and they said it was a GREAT partay!

I have not been there yet (I didn't know about it when I lived east of Downtown), but since I know so many people in NE and eastern Ohio, I know it's just a matter of time before I get there. And I'm looking forward to it.

I'm really glad your first experience went so well. The whole situation can be overwhelming, and although it might have been quite a jolt to the senses in this case, it sounds like you handled everything well and had a great time.

I'm happy you had so much fun. And welcome to the lifestyle. If you are in NE Ohio, or visit there frequently, there should be no lack of friends for you to play with. I'm sure you made a lot of contacts at the club, but if you need the names of some other Ohio groups, let me know, and I might be able to give you some advice.

Thrax

LOL_OMG · 02-27-2006, 10:06 PM

Quote:

Ah, so THAT's where you were!

Okay no more giving you the LOL's itinerary haha :P

Thrax · 02-27-2006, 10:47 PM

Yeah! Like I couldn't guess!

Thrax

**good times** · 02-27-2006, 11:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LOL_OMG

I'm glad you had a good time

Damn, I don't even remember being there, getting old sucks.

LOL_OMG · 02-27-2006, 11:24 PM

Quote:

Damn, I don't even remember being there, getting old sucks.

It can actually be a blessing at times LOL.

Mrs LOL

2LookingForFun · 02-28-2006, 07:38 PM

How can you not remember being there. It was Good Times for all

...LOL Sorry could not resist a little humor!!!

dawn_and_jim · 03-03-2006, 10:24 AM

Hi, We happened upon this thread and were wondering if everyone's referring to Swingers Palace near Pittsburgh? We've been thinking of trying there in the near future. We live in Central Ohio but have trouble finding time to go to the club here because we're out almost every weekend on business... near Pittsburgh! So we've been thinking why not go to a club in Pittsburgh, and Swingers Palace seems to be it.

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02-26-2006, 06:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
2LookingForFun Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 18 Location: Lorain County Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:2LookingInOhio	First time at a club. Well we had our first time at a club. What an awesome experience!! We were so excited when we got there, but we got in and it was incredible! The set up was nice, the people were nice, and it was just the perfect way for us to make our way into the Swinger lifestyle. We both looked at each other many times durning the night and wished that we had found this 8 years ago. Maybe if we had really talked we would have.... but that is the past and this is now. I would like to say thank you to everyone on this board!! With the help of the posts and PMs we knew a little bit of what to expect, and made it easier for us. I personally was very concerned about becoming jealous... I am jealous by nature, but that did not happen. I actually feel so much better about myself and our relationship/marriage, that it has really taken it to a "new level". I am sure that most of you know what I mean. Now the shocking thing was that I/we saw things in real life that I had only seen on film before. And did things that I have always wanted to do but was afraid to try, especially in public. <EG> Again thank all of you for the great advise you have given us.

02-26-2006, 06:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
NakedInSeattle Loving life (style) Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 449 Location: Seattle, WA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:NakedInSeattle	Re: First time at a club. Glad you had a great time your first time out!!! It was the same for Mrs Naked and I. Our first thought (after the evening was over) was "why the hell didn't we do this long ago?" Welcum to the lifestyle. Share more, please.

02-26-2006, 07:42 PM	#3 (permalink)
Edison Carter Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 734 Location: Naperville, Il Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:EdisonCarter	Re: First time at a club. Susan here:If you'd like to help other newbies like yourself, describe the evening, if you feel comfortable about 'dishing'.

02-26-2006, 07:57 PM	#4 (permalink)
JonaMar Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 5 Location: San Diego	Re: First time at a club. We are glad to here that it was wonderful for you two. We would like to here more about it seeing that this is so new to us and we are looking to try a club ourselves. Any other info would be greatly appreciated.

02-26-2006, 09:26 PM	#5 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: First time at a club. WooHoo! Glad to know you had a great time! ~SS
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02-27-2006, 08:06 PM	#6 (permalink)
2LookingForFun Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 18 Location: Lorain County Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:2LookingInOhio	Re: First time at a club. Well since everyone is asking for details I guess we have to spill the beans. Just so no one gets to excited we didn't do a full swap because that was one of the rules we made since it was our first time out. The rules were something we picked up on the board and I think they are a great idea, especially for a new couple. It allows the both of you to take in the scene and move slowly. Once in the club everyone was very nice. The biggest recommendation I have to newbies is to say hi and talk to everyone you can even if you are not atracted to them. You make friends quickly and There is plenty of time to have fun . When we did settle down with a few couples it was great. Lots of hands, tongues, & ice cubes wandering around. I watched my wife expose herself in public for the first time and it was a thrill facelick . At one point both of the other woman involved were touching and licking her nipples while I was busy strategically placing my fingers (I will leave this to your imaginations). Needless to say all of the nervousness we had was gone. It really just seemed like a natural thing for us. She thought she was going to be jealous if I was touching and playing with other women, but it never happened. She even surprised me when one of the other woman suggested that I needed to loosen up and she told her to help me out. She proceeded to rip my shirt open with encouragement from my wife. Later in the evening all three couples ended up on the dance floor with the women topless, kissing each other, and rubbing each others breasts. It was agreat scene to take in especially since I had never experianced my wife with another woman. At some point one of the other guys suggested we trade signifigant others and engage in a little kiss and feel session. This continued most of the night, so I don't think we could have asked for a better introduction to the lifestyle. We were not sure how far we wanted to go, but now that we know any concerns we had have been answered I think will be willing to move to new levels. I definitely know we want to continue this lifestyle and as the wife mentioned in the first post we find ourselves asking why we never talked to each other about this before.
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02-27-2006, 08:39 PM	#7 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,005 Location: where we're at Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LOL_OMG	Re: First time at a club. Hi guys! I'm glad you had a good time, sounds like the first club experience was a fun new adventure for ya! BTW, we looked for you...but it was pretty crowded (I actually asked a few people if they were new to see if it was you two). Welcome to the best foreplay ever.... Mrs LOL
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02-27-2006, 09:11 PM	#9 (permalink)
Thrax Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax	Re: First time at a club. Ah, so THAT's where you were! I know some people that were there on Saturday and they said it was a GREAT partay! I have not been there yet (I didn't know about it when I lived east of Downtown), but since I know so many people in NE and eastern Ohio, I know it's just a matter of time before I get there. And I'm looking forward to it. I'm really glad your first experience went so well. The whole situation can be overwhelming, and although it might have been quite a jolt to the senses in this case, it sounds like you handled everything well and had a great time. I'm happy you had so much fun. And welcome to the lifestyle. If you are in NE Ohio, or visit there frequently, there should be no lack of friends for you to play with. I'm sure you made a lot of contacts at the club, but if you need the names of some other Ohio groups, let me know, and I might be able to give you some advice. Thrax
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02-27-2006, 10:47 PM	#11 (permalink)
Thrax Stimulus pkg. available Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pittsburgh Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Thrax	Re: First time at a club. Yeah! Like I couldn't guess! Thrax
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02-28-2006, 07:38 PM	#14 (permalink)
2LookingForFun Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 18 Location: Lorain County Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:2LookingInOhio	Re: First time at a club. How can you not remember being there. It was Good Times for all ...LOL Sorry could not resist a little humor!!!

03-03-2006, 10:24 AM	#15 (permalink)
dawn_and_jim Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Ohio	Re: First time at a club. Hi, We happened upon this thread and were wondering if everyone's referring to Swingers Palace near Pittsburgh? We've been thinking of trying there in the near future. We live in Central Ohio but have trouble finding time to go to the club here because we're out almost every weekend on business... near Pittsburgh! So we've been thinking why not go to a club in Pittsburgh, and Swingers Palace seems to be it.

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