Just Had Our First Experience :( :) ???

[Bonnie&Clyde]

Hi everyone.

long story short: hubby and i went to a swinging event/party organized by a website (we are in london at the moment) of which we are members. it was an event held at a bar, very casual and no "play" on premises

we meet over 20 couples there, really fun people, and had an amazing time. well we ended up taking two couples home with us (i know, i know, a big ambitious for the first time i would think)

they were good looking and fun so we got home and opened a huge bottle of wine and started playing a sexy game called "nookie" (hubby got it for us for christmas and it really payed off last night because each card makes you do sexy things to others...

things started getting a little hot, but i have to say i absolutely felt NO JEALOUSY at all, it was true what lots of people said that they love to see their bf or gf get pleasure and that ends up being a double turn on, thats just how i felt, next thing i knew i was making out with one of the girls and one of the guys while my hubby had his hands filled with the girls.

but then... i made a mistake and i didnt realize it eventually i ended up with the two guys and my hubby was kissing one girl while she was withthe other girl... i guess my poor baby saw me with the two guys and he was shocked... i didnt even noticed i was... anyway,,,

when i did see him i went on to him and he was looking really down, so i went off to him and he asked me to come to the bedroom, i asked what happened and he didnt wanted to talk. so i went back to see our guest, they were all really great, unfortunately they were all dressed up when i got there they said they understood and that it was fine, that i should reassure my baby that i love him. they left, we went to bed.

woke up and we seemed as hot for eachother as we have ever been... i dont think i have ever wanted anyone as bad... we did it a few times during the day, then at lunch he said he just got a bit freaked out when he saw me with the two guys, he said he had too much to drink

i think is my fault for nott keeping an eye on him and making sure he was having fun, i feel very bad about that, however he after said he did had a goodtime and that maybe from now on we should keep it as only two couples so that this doesnt happen again and i agree.

i dont want him to feel bad, i really enjoyed the experience and i think he did too... any thoughts??

love to all

[Alura]

It sounds like a good start to me, Bonnie. Just keep talking to each other. In talking about the playtime, try to think of the funny things that happened. Lighten it up a bit, Eh?

Good Luck! I think y'all are going to do just fine!

Mr. Alura

[Alura]

BTW, Bonnie... You should expand your "short" story a bit and put it on the Swingers Stories. It could be a hot "first experience."

Mr. Alura

[Bonnie&Clyde]

ok i will thanks for the good advice.... kisses

[sexyshelby]

I agree, this would be a hot story to hear the rest of it...

As for your question, I would suggest keeping it at only one couple for now. Keep talking and exploring together, maybe in the future you could try this again, IF both of you feel ok with it.

But nothing wrong with sticking with one couple at a time

~SS

[Bonnie&Clyde]

i am going to start typing the juicy details tonight oh boy!!! :rollseyes