We just had out first experience!!!

[NandTfromCA]

See our intro for background- http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...ad.php?t=22630

We met a really cool couple at a dance we attended a few weeks ago and exchanged phone numbers. They called us back and invited us to meet them at a local pizza place. We got to get to know them a little and our kids hit it off as well.

A week or so went by and they called us up to see if we wanted to have dinner and play games (board or card). We decided to join them and enjoyed both. Since N had indicated that she wanted to take this very slow and may never want to do anything, I was under the impression that the best thing that could happen that evening would be a little provocative talk.

As you can tell from the subject, a little more than that happened.

N is a much better writer than me and would probably have a more interesting perspective, so I’ll let her tell the rest…

[NandTfromCA]

Hello! This is the N part of NandTfromCA

Hubby came across this board first and I started reading along with him a couple of weeks ago when I decided I was ready to approach this idea a bit more. Our first experience with meeting other couples at a dance was a great low-pressure environment that didn’t scare me away. Like he said we decided to meet up with another couple we had met there.

The other night we were invited down to their house for dinner and playing a new trivia game (G-rated). It had a very ‘no strings attached’ feel as we even brought the kidlets with us. Theirs are around the same age so they had a blast playing all evening.

After the younger crowd was asleep and we’d exhausted the trivia game (actually Mr. X beat all of us soundly). We broke out the Truth or Dare cards and those made for some really fun conversation. Then Mr. X got a call from a friend that needed a ride home so he left, we thought he’d be back a bit sooner than he was. This left just Mrs X, T and myself, chatting away. Hubby offered a massage to each of us, he knows the way to my heart…lol. At first it was clothes on but I was feeling pretty comfortable with the environment so we started shedding more layers. We started to rotate who was being massaged and the other two would be doing the massaging. Having more pairs of hands was wonderful along with the oil and a really neat back massager. While I enjoyed being the recipient I also enjoyed sharing in the touching of hubby and Mrs. X. I was surprised at how much I enjoyed it; I loved the feeling of her soft skin under my fingertips. And when it was my turn to be the recipient it was very different to feel someone touching me along with T. A verrrrrry good different! During this we were at various intervals checking in on our comfort levels, something that made me feel all the more at ease.

After a while T asked me if he could kiss Mrs. X, I was unprepared for how HOT that is to watch. I’m usually the one participating so I can’t see what it looks like. He’s a pretty good kisser and I liked hearing how much she enjoyed it as well (In that ‘proud of my man’ kinda way). He asked if I wanted to kiss her but at that moment in time I wasn’t quite ready for that. So the massaging resumed and she enjoyed watching him play with and go down on me. When she asked if she could do the same I didn’t hesitate with a “Please do.” I knew that T would like watching and that it would feel really good. This was uncharted territory for me, in fact this was starting to head clear off the map, but I had no anxiety about it.

Ok, I don’t mean to tease (well, maybe I do) but if you want to hear more, I can type more later.

[Paphian]

Sounds like a good time was being had by all! Please finish the story.

[*afcouple*]

Wow, sounds pretty hot to me. Type more!

[Lovinlife59912]

Don't leave us in suspence, please continue.

[trublujo]

Very interesting..... More More!! Pretty please

[DBL D]

Just type enough to start getting a callous or two. Then take a short break (say 5 minutes!) and come on back and tell some more.

I am curious though. You didn't want to kiss her but didn't mind letting her go down on you? Just because you knew your husband liked to watch it?

Forget those questions until after you have told us the rest of the story.

I have a feeling that you would actually love to "do" her too. Fem D kissed at first, then did ther breast thing and has tasted pussy (someone besides hers). Pussy is just like cock, you just learn to enjoy each one for it's own attributes, etc. especially if you have a "bi" tendency.

Male D

[WesternSwing]

Sounds like a great start and you were excited for it. What happened next?

Mr. WS

[Alura]

Of course we want to hear more! What's the hold up here?

Mr. Alura

[NandTfromCA]

N is busy with finals so I’ll jump in here.

DBL D-
“I am curious though. You didn't want to kiss her but didn't mind letting her go down on you?”- She didn’t want to at the moment, so she said “no”. She did want to later, so she made the move herself.

“Just because you knew your husband liked to watch it?”- I could probably give you her perspective on the question but I’ll save that for her when she posts. That way I’m not putting words in her mouth. I will say this though; she is a very strong woman and would never do something just because I wanted her to.

My perspective on what happened-
I don’t want to spoil the rest of N’s story. So I’ll just highlight a couple things.

It was amazing how comfortable it felt from the very beginning. I wonder if it’s just because we got really lucky and met the right people, if it’s because of who we are, or just a combination of both.

Everything was exciting and fun but what keeps running through my mind, is the way N looked at Mrs. X and touched her. It was like she starstruck by her, a combination of amazement…affection…passion. It was incredible. I’m still working through it with myself to figure out if I am just a horny guy who liked seeing to women get it on or if it is truly because of how much I adore my wife and seeing her caught up in that.

Anyhow, her last final is tomorrow so expect the rest of the story soon.

[DBL D]

I hope you know that I wasn't judging her at all, I was just curious and got nosey. (Had a good teacher for that at one time!)

I'm glad she found she could open up and try some of the things she's fantasized about and really enjoyed it. I'm sure you did too!

Male D

[NandTfromCA]

No problem DBL D. I was being methodical and brief but I can see how it could come across as defensiveness. Sorry about that

I am always curious and sometimes nosey myself, so I completely understand.

T (male TandN)

[NandTfromCA]

Some of the exact order of things is fuzzy as I was really into enjoying the sensations. Mrs. X is someone I respect and felt so comfortable around before any of this and I think that made it an even more wonderful experience for me.

We’d been doing lots of trading off with massages, kissing, petting, etc. Hubby and I were working on massaging her when he asked if he could fuck me. We asked Mrs. X if she minded and she was quite encouraging. I stayed on my hands and knees and could continue caressing and kissing on her. And she enjoyed getting to play with me, I don’t want to sound repetitive but I got off so much just having other pairs of hands on me and all over me. Not to mention I was enjoying returning it. Not too long after this Mr. X comes back, I think he was a bit surprised but happy that we were ‘getting along so well’ LOL.

We moved things into their bedroom, I rode out a few more orgasms with hubby while watching them playing with each other. I think it was about 4am when we were all to tired and happy to move anymore. Us girls hogged the bed and the guys moved out to the living room and we all got a few hours of sleep. The next morning we hugged and kissed goodbye and did a bit of a ‘check in’ to make sure everyone felt good about what had taken place. I surprised myself with my comfort level and pretty much floored hubby with my willingness. It was definitely a good mix of the right situation and right people. We aren’t sure when it might happen again but we are looking forward to continuing our friendship with this couple.

My thoughts about swinging have definitely changed to a more positive light, although I’m still unsure about when/if I’d want to do a full swap. But this experience has me feeling more open to the possibility.

DBLD- Great questions and that got me thinking more about one that T didn’t answer. Having him watching and getting off on it was certainly not my main motivation, more of a bonus that I realized in the moment. The experience as a whole was very empowering for me and for us as a couple.