Our First Club Experience

[lovedoctor]

We met an awesome local couple thru Swing Lifestyle and decided to break the barrier and go to a club for our first official "night out" after our initial screening meeting. The couple was very attractive to both of us right from the start, and we agreed that we wanted to get to know them more in depth. If you recall from one of my previous posts, we had met another couple and almost decided to go forward with it just for the experience. We weren't all that attracted to them, and most of the advice on here was to wait until it was right - and to not just "take one for the team." (You were right! Thank you so much for the advice.) We felt very connected to this couple - they were bright, interesting, engaging and intelligent but extremely down to earth. We were so excited when they emailed us and told us that they felt the same way! It was their idea to meet at the club; they'd been there once before and had a great time. We decided that we would go for it, despite the fact that going to a "club" made us a little nervous!

As usual, we were running late, but I had to make sure my hair and make-up were perfect. And different than the pre-lifestyle meeting with friends, I had to make sure I was primped in all the "right" places. That took a little longer than I had expected. God, I was as nervous as getting ready for a date in high school. The difference now was that I knew what that little tingle in the groin meant!

They waited for us in the parking lot and we went in together. The place had opened the doors for the evening only about 20 minutes before we arrived, so there weren't a lot of people there. The door people got our info and got us all registered and checked in. We were ready to venture inside!

What struck me first was how this looked like an average non lifestyle club and the people looked like normal people. But we all knew what each other was there for. I may be strange, but I realized it's all the same, but these people had done away with much of the bullshit factor that you see in singles bars. Also, the feeling of having my beloved there with me made me feel unbelievably turned on. WOW. Normal people. Honesty. Low bullshit factor. And just like that, the nervous feeling passed.

Since we were there pretty early, we went over to "the other side" to check out the on site part of the club. There was a group (grope) room, many theme rooms and a nice locker area and shower. Most of the rooms had shades where you could open them if you wanted to let others watch. It was very clean, well kept and the staff was wonderful. That warm feeling in the groin began to grow. We looked at all the open rooms and then went back to drink and socialize.

Now, I'm pretty outgoing, but I don't really like to dance. Perhaps you've seen Elaine on Seinfeld? I think I make her look pretty good. But our dates didn't dance a lot and mostly we talked and talked about everything under the sun. We were really having fun with these people. Other than some fairly heavy making out and some provocative clothing here and there, we almost forgot what we were there for, the surroundings were so comfortable. A few more drinks and we all danced some.

By this time it was getting late and our dates asked us if we felt ready to go next door.

Do you want to hear the rest of the story?

[jennandjamesinm]

Originally Posted by lovedoctor

Do you want to hear the rest of the story?

UH - YES!!!! BUt even if you wated to stop there - it would still be a good story, leaves something to the imagination.

Jenn

[lovedoctor]

...Ok, sorry I was just teasing when I stopped... gotta build the suspense...

:rollseyes :rollseyes :rollseyes

So we picked out an open room which was mattress on a built up bed area with clean sheets and kind of an outdoorsy theme painted on the walls. At that point, we weren't really noticing. I kept thinking "wow, I can't believe I'm doing this" - but in a good way - if you know what I mean?

I really didn't know how things would happen but, they started taking off their clothes. We did the same.

He had asked me if I had any samples of Viagra or the like, and I had brought Levitra, which I prefer. So I convinced her that if men had decreased blood flow to the pelvis, then so could women. I've found that many women can have improvement in their sexual experience when using this medication. So we all had a little Levitra on board (thank you and hats off to the company that brought this drug to market. It rocks!) When I saw his cock, I knew it was a good thing. facelick

I made some silly comment about "Bob and Ted and Carol and Alice" and then the male counterpart of our date reached over and kissed me. My hubby followed suit with her. Before you know it, the male part of our date was traveling south at a rapid clip right down to my little girl in the boat. Holy Shit! That was a nice beginning. I'm afraid that I was still just a little self conscious so it wasn't a huge explosion for me, but it was nice. I think what kept me from the 'total meltdown scrape me off the fricking ceiling" was a combination of: I could stand to lose about 45 lbs to start with, plus that I was concentrating on trying to give him pleasure (which I think I did...) They had commented about another couple being LOUD so I was a little surprised to hear them both being a little noisy with their sex noise making, LOL. We had a little bit of girl/girl play with her down below and then we moved back to take care of the boys!

If memory serves me right, by the sound of her moaning, she came 3 or four times!

My husband said that what made him come the first time was when he saw me tilt my head back with pleasure while being fucked doggy style when he was fucking her. I guess I ran my fingers through my hair one too many times for him to hold on. It felt great for me too, lots of sensous pleasure. But, damn, I didn't get the massive orgasm I had hoped for, even with oral sex. I think I was also a little worried that I was too quiet (hard to believe if you know me outside the bedroom) and I was still having a little bit of that "unreal" sensation of detachment. It's hard to describe.

Anyway.

She had asked me on our first meeting what it meant for me to be "bi-curious" on my profile. Was I just saying that to get my husband off or was I really interested? She let me know that she was bi and she planned to find out how I stood on the matter.

Although I don't remember the precise details, I do remember that after our men were satisfied for the moment and taking a break to recover, I reached over and kissed her, then her breasts and then down to her still excited pussy. I started out by massaging her clitoris and fingering her a little bit, and then I took the plunge, deep fingering her while eating her alternately hard and soft - just the way I like it. It was only the second time I've gone down on another woman, but I really enjoyed it. That surprised me. My hubby was rubbing me as I was eating her out and she had to pull my face off of her crotch when she was finished she was so sensitive. Guess I did ok.

So we just kind of all cuddled a little for a few moments and then got dressed.

Needless to say we ARE going to get together again. A great time was had by all. We emailed each other almost simultaneously the next day to tell the others that we'd had a very enjoyable experience and couldn't wait to repeat it.

~D

[LikeMinds321]

Thanks for summing up a great experience!

It is worth waiting for the couple that feels right for you.

Tell me, afterward, did you use the shower at the club, or did you wait until you got home?

LM

[lovedoctor]

We waited til we got home. The shower was nice, but we were just exausted and I actually fell asleep on the way home.

(It's 3 am, I must be tired...)

[LikeMinds321]

I bet you and Mrlovedoctor did alot of talking the next day reviewing everything. That's so much fun!

You probably felt like reliving the events - just the two of you.

LM

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

I bet you and Mrlovedoctor did alot of talking the next day reviewing everything. That's so much fun!

You probably felt like reliving the events - just the two of you.

LM

Oh, yes.

[sweetnnasty]

I'm glad that your first club experience went very well... we haven't made it to one yet but have one picked out for when we do want to go.

Thanks for posting your experience with us... it must have been a night to remember. Keep us updated on future experiences...

[BorisNatasha]

Thanks for telling us your story! Natasha had a similar experience to yours the first time we went to the clubs. She was able to orgasm a few times but they weren't the mind-blowing body-flopping tongue-lolling orgasms she has at home with me. We talked about it and chalked it up to the fact that she was not 100% comfortable and relaxed since everything was so new. I am the same way, except I can't orgasm at all unless I'm very comfortable and relaxed. We both figure that as we get more comfortable with everything, our orgasms will 'return to normal' so to speak.

Boris

[lovedoctor]

I am happy to report that the second encounter with this couple was even better. We were all more comfortable with each other, drank a lot less and started earlier. The orgasms happened this time and varied from great to mind-blowing. YES! I am a happy camper!

[BradAndJanet]

See, practice makes perfect!

-B