First Threesome on Saturday

[videocouple75]

Hi all,

I don't post very much but needed to for this one. Just a little background on us. We are still very new. We frequent the clubs and have had some hot action there. My wife usually only does oral activities with other males and has never done penetration with another male.

Well, this Saturday, we decided to have our first MFM threesome. We invited a guy over and got into it. First she performed oral on both of us for a while. I moved downstairs and fucked her from behind while she continued oral on the guy. She continued to do oral on him for a really long time afterwards. Her mouth was about to fall off and she sat back and stroked him to take a little break. Finally the guy tells us that he never cums from oral, (thanks for the info now, it would have been more useful before.) So the wife let's him fuck her.

After he left, she told me that she almost cried when he was doing it out of guilt. I explained to her that I really liked to see it and she shouldn't feel guilty about anything.

Being a newbie, I need some direction here. I love my wife more than anything and if she wants to stop then I won't even think twice about it, WE'RE DONE. Is there anything that I can or should do at this point? Has anyone else ever come across something like this?

Thanks
J

[txduo2000]

This is just one of those situations where you are gonna have to communicate with your wife. Reassure her that there is no reason for her to feel guilty, that you weren't jealous, that there's a difference between sex and love, that you two SHARED the event which is most important ... and above all, let her know that if she is not comfortable, that you have no problem with quitting.

She very well may be just experiencing what many of us experience on our first time out of the gate ... she hasn't fully reconciled the difference between love and sex, the difference between cheating and sharing, etc. That takes time, and unfortunately, it can really only be achieved by actually partaking in the activities and gauging responses afterward. TALK TALK TALK .... this can not be emphasized enough. You have to make sure that you both attempt to understand each others' feelings and act accordingly.

[videocouple75]

Thank you very much TX. I'm certainly happy to get a woman's point of view. This one just scared me a little because of some of the things that I've seen her do at clubs. Thanks for your remarks.

James

[jennandjamesinm]

Dito to TxDuo.....they put it very well.

Jenn

[intravox]

That was a good advice; what Puzzles me is how she engages in oral sex with other males, but when it turns to a vaginal sex, she has some issues with guilt. (this might be a topic for a separate thread)

Have a nice day

[videocouple75]

Yes, my thoughts exactly. When we first started, I thought the exact opposite. I thought she would do the intercourse and have a problem with the oral play. I guess I'll never fully understand those beautiful creatures we call females.

[BorisNatasha]

You're completely right - we're weird. I haven't been in that situation but it's one of my fears, letting somebody inside me and then feeling guilty about it. The thing is that she feels guilty in front of you, so you need to reassure her that she did nothing wrong. And you know us women, we like to hear it a million and one times. I would like to hear how things go for you two!

Natasha