First girl/girl experience and disappointed

[40andloveit]

I recently had my first girl/girl experience and it wasn''t at all what I was hoping for. The reason being she about sucked my pussy off to the point of it actually hurting me. I feel that she only put on a show for the guys and really isn't into the pleasuring part. I had hoped for some gental touching and a lot of kissing and she did neather. I must also say I know it wasn't me considering she is the one who approached me. I have had a lot of oral sex enough to know that you must like what you are doing for it to feel good for your partner. My husband is so good at this and really knows how to make me squirt. The experience has left me in no big hurry to go out and try again. I could not be the only woman who wants to enjoy being with another woman in a fashion that brings out all the great qualities of being just that a WOMAN! facelick

[starlinn]

I am sorry that your experience went so badly. I hope that you will reconsider you thoughts on stopping because of your experiences. There are women out there that love to pleasure another woman! facelick I hope that you find her.

[RMRx2]

Originally Posted by 40andloveit

: I could not be the only woman who wants to enjoy being with another woman in a fashion that brings out all the great qualities of being just that a WOMAN! facelick

take heart, not all encounters girl girl are this way. first we seek to find those interested in meeting, then we see if they are compatable, then we meet to confirm that compatiblity and see about attraction and spark, then we play,,,,,,,,anywhere along that way it can go astray. finding good friends is a bitch,,finding good friends that are compatible in bed,,,even harder,,,,,,I hear it's worth the wait ,seriously, if you are compatible in other ways and get along good,,,,,,there is some attraction,,,,maybe you could discuss what you like with her,,what you were expecting. even in a good ole fashioned guy meets girl relationship ,,many times there needs to be a little learning exchange in the journey to great sexual experiences,,,,,the rmrx2's

[KittKatt]

Hi 40andloveit ,

OUCH....sorry to hear that it went badly, and Starlinn is right that alot of women love pleasuring another woman

Not that my experiance will make yours any less disappointing, I want to share it with you now......

Evidently this woman that was my first, had just gotten off seeing Aunt Flo..
so I took my time , everything was going well, felt nice,no eveidence of uncleanliness, then while I was assisting my hubby with pleasuring her....it happened .....

STRINGS......2.....came out!!!!!!! Surrender

Needless to say, although I didn't dare say a word to her, to save her the embarrisment.....I don't look forward to my next woman encounter much either...LOL

xoxoxo C

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

I'm sorry to hear your first experience went bad. I don't consider myself bi other than maybe bi-friendly in certain swing situations. I prefer to meet couples and if the woman and I connect (and I think she might be tender) then some play with us will transpire. For the most part though it doesn't and I don't look for it for the very same reason that you are now afraid to ever try it again.

My first experience was great (lucky for me) but it still didn't move my interest too much to women especially that all the others (part of couples we met) were rough like this woman you encountered. At one point Mr. Spoo had to grab a woman's hand and instruct her because he could see I was getting ready to shove her off for being rough. Recently we had an experience FMF, that has topped them all and was very enjoyable. Oh if only they could all be that perfect

Anyway, don't give up just try to be a little more discerning if that is possible. Maybe even talk with the woman a head of time to be sure you are both on the same page about what you are looking for and wanting in FF play.

Not all women are rough but I'm like you Mr Spoo is so incredibly good facelick at it that it is hard to find someone who measures up.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by KittKatt

Evidently this woman that was my first, had just gotten off seeing Aunt Flo..
so I took my time , everything was going well, felt nice,no eveidence of uncleanliness, then while I was assisting my hubby with pleasuring her....it happened .....

STRINGS......2.....came out!!!!!!! Surrender

Needless to say, although I didn't dare say a word to her, to save her the embarrisment.....I don't look forward to my next woman encounter much either...LOL

xoxoxo C

And she didn't say anything up front Someone should not play or at least see if you mind playing under those circumstances.

I'm not sure I would have been able to be as discreet with my shock as you were. Congratulations for maintaining.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by 40andloveit

I could not be the only woman who wants to enjoy being with another woman in a fashion that brings out all the great qualities of being just that a WOMAN!

I like women because they're women.

I like them because they're soft and gentle, like me.

I also like them to be soft and gentle when playing with me. I like a lot of kissing and caressing. I don't care for aggressive women, I prefer a bi-experience to be a delicate and sensual experience. I like the femininity of a woman.

Pushy, aggressive women scare me.

I would have ran and hid behind the men if I were you.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by 40andloveit

My husband is so good at this and really knows how to make me squirt.

You know what? It's very unlikely you'll ever find anyone as good as him, male or female. He has the most experience with you, and knows all the "right places" to work on. facelick

But, that being said, it should still be a great experience! I agree with the advice given by Starlinn, RMRx2, and Mrs Spoo. There are some great ladies out there capable of "doing it right".
As a matter of fact, Mrs two4you recently experienced one such lady that got the rating of "Almost as good as you honey".

KittKatt: OMG! That really happened??

[KittKatt]

YESSSSSSS IT REALLY HAPPENED YALL'

And I personally know that she deuches before each play date, so it's just somethin' that had to happen to me I guess....LOL

And the play with a woman was nice, but I now know that I am not gay at all, maybe bi enough to play with the write lady someday

xoxoxo C

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I like women because they're women.

I like them because they're soft and gentle, like me.

I also like them to be soft and gentle when playing with me. I like a lot of kissing and caressing. I don't care for aggressive women, I prefer a bi-experience to be a delicate and sensual experience. I like the femininity of a woman.

Ok, I had to step out for a smoke after reading this.
Thank You for that moment Ves.

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

Ok, I had to step out for a smoke after reading this.
Thank You for that moment Ves.

You're welcome.

[AlanCatherine]

Hey Ves

I like women for the same reasons you do. Well almost all. Sometimes they are too gentle on the equipment. Sometimes they are so gentle it feels like sticking your cock into a jar of butterflies. On the other hand I know some guys can be too heavyhanded on women as can some women obviously. Some like it, some don't. That's the nice thing about swinging in general, the variety of styles and sensations.

Catherine said her gangbang experience was nice because of the variations. Even if one particular guy didn't do a lot by himself, his contribution added colour to the whole experience. She wants to do it again and I am arranging that as we speak...

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I like women because they're women.

I like them because they're soft and gentle, like me.

I also like them to be soft and gentle when playing with me. I like a lot of kissing and caressing. I don't care for aggressive women, I prefer a bi-experience to be a delicate and sensual experience. I like the femininity of a woman.

Pushy, aggressive women scare me.

I would have ran and hid behind the men if I were you.

I'm with you Ves.

My first experience was wonderful. It was all four of us together, and she was very good at it, very soft and gentle. Different than than when a man is doing it, but no less enjoyable and the final outcome was the same . I made me want to return the favor in kind.

[chastityrings]

"Sticking your cock into a jar full of butterflies" my we ARE a kinky one aren't we?(I just got a visual, sorry, and I'm still giggling!! )

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by chastityrings

"Sticking your cock into a jar full of butterflies" my we ARE a kinky one aren't we?(I just got a visual, sorry, and I'm still giggling!! )

If I had a cock... I'm sure I'd really like that.