We got our feet wet!!!

jennandjamesinm · 06-05-2005, 12:08 PM

Well ya'll - we finally jumped into the pool, the shallow end of the pool, but at least now we got our feet wet. We had our first soft swing experience last night. It wasn't everything we had hoped for, but it did break the ice. We met up with a couple and a single male and single female at the club we go to last night. We did some kissing, touching of bodies and a little oral - but didn't go full swap. We were both uncomfortable with that, but we communicated with each other, and decided to leave the room together. And that was cool with both of us - no hard feelings at all. We talked about our experience - the bad and the good and found that overall it wasn't the best that it could have been, but that we wanted to continue our journey down the lifestyle road. Just wanted to share with people that would understand!!!

Jenn

BradAndJanet · 06-05-2005, 12:09 PM

Yay!

-B

**TNT** · 06-05-2005, 01:08 PM

Kewl!

It sounds like you two are doing just fine, keep the communication working and enjoy your journey.

TNT

Maybe_Someday · 06-05-2005, 01:33 PM

Jenn and James,

Congratulations on your first experience. I'm glad things went well in your first experience.

MS

-----
Swinging would be nice, but vanilla is better than rocky road.

Vespertine · 06-05-2005, 02:20 PM

Good job, guys!

It's important to take things slow and easy and not rush into anything that you're not ready for. Communication and comfort is the key.

Good things come to those who wait.

EvilMJ · 06-05-2005, 02:54 PM

Ves pretty much summed up what I was going to say. Go at your own speed. It only gets better from here (hopefully

)

Glad to see you are doing well.

confunktion · 06-05-2005, 03:32 PM

Well done, I say! <raising glass> Here's to future successes off of this building block experience.

Mr. Funk
Mazeltov!

JandCMI · 06-05-2005, 03:33 PM

Our first several experiences were of the soft-swap variety. It's cool - just go at your own pace and you'll have lots of fun.

intuition897 · 06-05-2005, 03:39 PM

Pilots say "Any landing you can walk away from is a good one." If the night wasn't a total disaster, and you're both basically intact, I'd say it was a success! I think I'd compare the first time swinging with the losing your virginity: the first time out is rarely a smashing success. But practice makes perfect! facelick Way to go guys!

guitarlover · 06-05-2005, 04:00 PM

Still have dry feet here, so we're wondering what went on that made you feel uncomfortable? I imagine that a first time experience like that would make you feel apprehensive but I admire the fact that you tried it out and are still leaning towards continuing the 'experiments'.....Would love to hear more details.
Thanks!

jennandjamesinm · 06-05-2005, 05:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by guitarlover

Still have dry feet here, so we're wondering what went on that made you feel uncomfortable?

We just started to get some weird "vibes" off of 2 of the people we were playing with. One of our rules is that if something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't - so we politely scrammed LOL. May have been just first time jitters, but nonetheless we had gotten uncomfortable, and neither of us were in the moment so to speak.....so it was time for us to stop playing. Hope that makes sense....

Jenn and James

LikeMinds321 · 06-05-2005, 08:23 PM

I 'm pleased to hear you are now broken in, but have plenty of wear left in you.

Mr LM and I wish you many happy, sexy, exciting swings to come!

LM

playmatesinpgh · 06-06-2005, 10:36 AM

Ditto to all of the above comments. Just take it at your own pace.

CuriousInOregon · 06-06-2005, 01:24 PM

wtg on getting your feet wet. Now I just need to do the same

Vespertine · 06-06-2005, 01:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CuriousInOregon

wtg on getting your feet wet. Now I just need to do the same

What's wtg mean?

I need to know!!! I can't find it on Google anywhere?

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06-05-2005, 12:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
jennandjamesinm Care to join us??? Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 1,460 Location: Northwest Mississippi Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jennandjamesinms	We got our feet wet!!! Well ya'll - we finally jumped into the pool, the shallow end of the pool, but at least now we got our feet wet. We had our first soft swing experience last night. It wasn't everything we had hoped for, but it did break the ice. We met up with a couple and a single male and single female at the club we go to last night. We did some kissing, touching of bodies and a little oral - but didn't go full swap. We were both uncomfortable with that, but we communicated with each other, and decided to leave the room together. And that was cool with both of us - no hard feelings at all. We talked about our experience - the bad and the good and found that overall it wasn't the best that it could have been, but that we wanted to continue our journey down the lifestyle road. Just wanted to share with people that would understand!!! Jenn
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06-05-2005, 12:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Yay! -B
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06-05-2005, 01:08 PM	#3 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Kewl! It sounds like you two are doing just fine, keep the communication working and enjoy your journey. TNT
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06-05-2005, 01:33 PM	#4 (permalink)
Maybe_Someday Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 32 Location: Ohio Status: M. Male	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Jenn and James, Congratulations on your first experience. I'm glad things went well in your first experience. MS ----- Swinging would be nice, but vanilla is better than rocky road.

06-05-2005, 02:20 PM	#5 (permalink)
Vespertine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Good job, guys! It's important to take things slow and easy and not rush into anything that you're not ready for. Communication and comfort is the key. Good things come to those who wait.
	__________________ Ves The art of life lies in taking pleasures as they pass, and the keenest pleasures are not intellectual, nor are they always moral.

06-05-2005, 02:54 PM	#6 (permalink)
EvilMJ Pure Evil..In a cute suit Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,497 Location: Nova Scotia Status: Couple	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Ves pretty much summed up what I was going to say. Go at your own speed. It only gets better from here (hopefully ) Glad to see you are doing well.
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06-05-2005, 03:32 PM	#7 (permalink)
confunktion This Village's Idiot Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 358 Location: Wisconsin Status: Male, happily spoken for	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Well done, I say! <raising glass> Here's to future successes off of this building block experience. Mr. Funk Mazeltov!
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06-05-2005, 03:33 PM	#8 (permalink)
JandCMI Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 96 Location: Detroit, Michigan Status: Male half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jandcmi28	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Our first several experiences were of the soft-swap variety. It's cool - just go at your own pace and you'll have lots of fun.

06-05-2005, 03:39 PM	#9 (permalink)
intuition897 Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,633 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:intuition897	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Pilots say "Any landing you can walk away from is a good one." If the night wasn't a total disaster, and you're both basically intact, I'd say it was a success! I think I'd compare the first time swinging with the losing your virginity: the first time out is rarely a smashing success. But practice makes perfect! facelick Way to go guys!
	__________________ Fear is a symptom of ignorance. Knowledge is the cure.

06-05-2005, 04:00 PM	#10 (permalink)
guitarlover Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 102 Location: Southern, Oregon Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:musiclovers05	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Still have dry feet here, so we're wondering what went on that made you feel uncomfortable? I imagine that a first time experience like that would make you feel apprehensive but I admire the fact that you tried it out and are still leaning towards continuing the 'experiments'.....Would love to hear more details. Thanks!
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06-05-2005, 08:23 PM	#12 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: We got our feet wet!!! I 'm pleased to hear you are now broken in, but have plenty of wear left in you. Mr LM and I wish you many happy, sexy, exciting swings to come! LM

06-06-2005, 10:36 AM	#13 (permalink)
playmatesinpgh Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 136 Location: Pittsburgh, Pa Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:LvrofBBWs	Re: We got our feet wet!!! Ditto to all of the above comments. Just take it at your own pace.

06-06-2005, 01:24 PM	#14 (permalink)
CuriousInOregon Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 601 Location: Oregon Status: Couple/ Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:CuriousInOregon	Re: We got our feet wet!!! wtg on getting your feet wet. Now I just need to do the same

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