First Time for everyone - Tell Us!

[starlinn]

I wish I knew how to do a poll... Since we are a newbie here, I would like those willing to share, what was the first thought the morning after their first swinging experience. Be it a 3some, soft swap..whatever your first experience was. This is one of my fears. I wake up in the morning and think "Oh my, what have I done"

[dutch51]

Our first thoughts were ones of amazement, but it was a good amazement. Our first experience was a full swap with a couple we'd talked to online for a few weeks. We met at a town midway between the us, had dinner and drinks, then went to a hotel room. We'd already spent so much time flirting and talking and stuff like that (kisses and touches) that by the time we went to the hotel, we were more at ease. The evening went very well and we stayed the night at the hotel (the other couple had to go home afterward) so we had the rest of the night and the drive home the next day to talk about everything that had happened. And believe me, we talked and talked and talked! There were still feelings of being a bit nervous as we relived certain things, but overall, we were amazed and excited at what we'd done and experienced. And, I think we were both proud of ourselves that we'd handled the evening well. My biggest fear beforehand was that I'd freak out the first time I saw hubby kiss another female, and hubby worried that I wouldn't be able to do anything with another guy with him there watching. But you know what? We did it and survived, lol. And we were glad! It was a thrilling feeling that lasted a very very long time. As a matter of fact, that night was last summer and we still get a thrill out of talking about it! The other couple was really great and we couldn't have asked for two better people to "induct" us into the lifestyle.

[wisxxxfun]

It was wild, we never planned on this, just happened with a friend of his, MMF and the next day, we were in shock, the wild part was saying it outload, after 19 years with my husband "I had sex with another man". Hearing me say that was wild. But right away, we started thinking couple swap, we knew nothing of the lifestyle, we really thought it never exsisted much anymore, it was a fad from the 70's(key parties). Researching I found Swing Lifestyle, we never knew it was as big as it is....we have never looked back, if only we knew this years earlier...But, we may not have been ready back then

Christine

[northindycpl]

I remember feeling different. Giddy and 'in on a really big secret' kinda mood. Like Mr. Indy and I were somehow knocked outa suburbia and recruited into some deep secret club.

I remember that we spent a lot of time talking about it. What we liked and didn't, what we wanted to do the next time, what we thought was really hot, etc.

We spent a lot of time alone in bed the next day,too.

I still feel that way most of the time... It is a good thing!

[hilltop]

It was back in the late 70's. A spur of the moment opportunity and we both (my GF at the time) were giddy and stunned, Our male friend was kind of dumbfounded in a sweet sort of way and the three of us had a wonderful day the next day as well