OMG -- It's REALLY gonna happen!!!

[SBcpl]

Background - We're a mature couple (50 & 60 yo) who've been married and monogamous for over 20 years. I've lurked on the Our HotWives Forum site forever and ever. She has enjoyed my MFM fantasies when we're in the throes of wild, animalistic passion, but after it's over she's always said that I was all she needed, fucking someone she wasn't in love with just didn't turn her on, etc., etc.

What's Changed - Over the last couple of years she's been reading some books -- The Ethical Slut, For Women Only, For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality -- that have made her curious and more adventurous about exploring the limits of her own sexuality. And she's discovering that those limits are much broader than she'd ever been giving herself credit for. So that now when we're in the throes of wild, animalistic passion, SHE's the one who tells me she can't wait to experience some other guy's cock in her pussy!

What's Happened - We put an ad in Swing Lifestyle looking for single guys. Because she's really cute and looks 10 to 15 years younger than she is (you can verify that yourself by checking out our Swing Lifestyle profile under SBcpl) we've gotten lots of responses. We've tried to prioritize the guys she likes in a way that we hope will ease her into The Lifestyle as quickly and pleasantly as possible while minimizing the risk of a bad experience. Our first choice for her first fuck buddy is a guy her age who, after ending a long marriage, has been very active in The Lifestyle for the better part of a decade. We've exchanged e-mails with him, had some on-line chats, and spoke with him on the phone a couple of times. He seems pleasant, easy going, and patient besides being very experienced.

What's Happening - We live in a smaller community some 100 miles north of LA, and most responses have been from guys close to LA or beyond, including the guy who's our first choice. We're scheduled to meet him in a town part way between our homes on Saturday, 25 March. We've made hotel reservations, and last weekend we drove down there, checked out the hotel -- got to see one of the rooms -- found a restaurant that would be a good place to meet, and stopped at a couple of lingerie shops and bought her a bunch of new slut wear for the occasion. Then we came back home and fucked like a couple of teenagers! Boy, have we been hot and horny ever since we started acting on this for real! More hot, steamy sex than we've had in ages. And without Viagra even!

What's Next - We're gonna meet the guy on Saturday the 25th in the late afternoon. Probably have a light dinner and spend some time chatting and getting to know him better. Then, assuming he doesn't have three heads or something, we'll adjourn to the hotel and let the fun begin. I've told him and my wife that the primary purpose of this meeting is for him and her to have as much hot sex together as possible -- I'll take photos while they're going at it, then after he shoots his load I'll get to fuck my wife. After she sucks us hard again we'll probably do some 2-on-1 stuff that she wants to experience, and then we'll just play it by ear. We've joined the hotel's preferred customer club, so we don't have to check out until 2pm on Sunday -- we'd better make sure he has lots of condoms! I figure I want him to use her and pleasure her as much as possible with me just watching and playing a supporting role because this meeting will be their only chance to fuck each other silly, whereas I get to go home and fuck my honey's brains out night after night after night -- Whew! Don't know if I can take all that. Surrender

What's to Cum - If all goes well on the 25th, probably we'll try and hook up with another mature experienced guy for her second lover. Then maybe we'll try a couple of mature guys who are less experienced but who live closer to our home. By then she should be ready to take on a few hot young stallions that she's been drooling over. All plans are subject to change depending on our experiences, but they'll hopefully just get hotter and hotter.

Anyhow, wish us luck, because I think it's finally, really and truly, gonna happen!!!

~ SBcpl ~

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

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[Alura]

That's great to hear, SBCpl! We can't wait to hear about the meeting!

Alura

Sounds like a BLAST!!!!

It sounds a lot like our MFMs! facelick

You guys have a great time!!!

[Everlearning]

Make sure you have your blood pressure under control going in because from the sounds of things it could get raised!!! Good luck

[SBcpl]

Mr&Mrs-Naughty...

Thank you for your words of encouragement. In the backs of our minds we've been a little concerned about whether we're going about this in a sensible way. Are we rushing too fast? Are we likely to run into some unanticipated problems? Is there some disaster lurking around the corner?

But if you guys approve of our approach, then we've gotta be doin' somethin' right! Since we joined this site, you guys have become our role models.

~ Mr. SBcpl ~

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...
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[Atilla]

You've got this planned right down to the T, don't you? lol. I hope all goes well and am looking forward to hearing the news of the meeting.

Good luck and have a whole lot of fun.

Originally Posted by SBcpl

Mr&Mrs-Naughty...

Thank you for your words of encouragement. In the backs of our minds we've been a little concerned about whether we're going about this in a sensible way. Are we rushing too fast? Are we likely to run into some unanticipated problems? Is there some disaster lurking around the corner?

But if you guys approve of our approach, then we've gotta be doin' somethin' right! Since we joined this site, you guys have become our role models.

~ Mr. SBcpl ~

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...
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Thanks for the kind words.

I think the key is the two of you are going into this completely together. No one is pushing anyone and you are both equally excited.

When we had our first planned MFM we did it pretty much the same as the two of you are planning.
We met through Swing Lifestyle, did some chatting, met for dinner and a few drinks. Mrs Naughty liked him and I got good vibes, so off to the motel we went.

It was an absolutely fantastic time and it went off with out a hitch. We both enjoyed ourselves immensly.

That being said however,
Reality and fantasy do not always mix well afterwards for everyone.
For me, The reality of having two of us pleasure mrs naughty was actualy better than fantasy.

Some couples have issues afterwards. Feelings creep in about feeling "less than" because of the amount of enjoyment the woman will (or can) recieve from the other man.
It's a sexual release and I find it to be EXTREMELY Hot and fortunately for me so does Mrs naughty. facelick

But not all who try the MFM come away with the same feelings.

So, keep talking and make sure this continues to be something you both want. Make sure it stays 100% between the both of you. Make sure you understand beforehand that once it is done, it's done. There is no taking it back.

If the two of you follow through and there are any feelings of hurt or jealousy afterwards remember this is something you chose to do TOGETHER. You can not hold any negative feelings against someone for something you encouraged them to try.

It sounds like you two are on the right track. I Hope this works out for you guys as well as it has worked out for Mrs Naughty and myself!!

Good Luck & Have Fun!!!!

[lovefest04]

Hello SBcpl,

We started in much the same way as you are. We talked and finally met a man in SF and the rest is history. We had some issues with jealously, but quickly resolved those and have never looked back. Well except to discuss the great times we've enjoyed with others. facelick

All I can tell you is to remember that you're in this together and that no matter what, you are still a team. Nobody can penetrate our relationship, just our bodies. Remembering that has helped us and now we have sooo much fun swinging. I often think, why didn't we do this years ago? Obviously, we weren't ready and now we are.

By the way, I checked out your Swing Lifestyle ad. Sign us up anytime. Your wife looks incredible. My favoriate is the black bikini shot and running a close second is her rear pic, but I'm definetly an ass man.

Have a great time and please let us all know how it went.

Peace

S&A

[Sirena]

Friday is the 25th and Saturday is the 26th. If I were you the first thing I'd do is make sure you both know when you're supposed to meet.

[SBcpl]

Originally Posted by Atilla

You've got this planned right down to the T, don't you? lol.

Originally Posted by Sirena

Friday is the 25th and Saturday is the 26th.

Well, at least we hope we have the mundane details planned out -- except for maybe the date. Sorry, Sirena, it was just a case of male brain fade -- my wife noticed the error as soon as she got home and read it. She for sure knows when it's gonna happen -- and you can bet your last dollar that she ain't gonna let me forget!

There are two main reasons we've gone to extra pains to plan out our first meeting. First, we've never done this before, so we don't have any established routine that we can fall back on. Therefore, we're trying to think of any little nuisance things that could possibly distract us from our main pleasures and then do what we can to avoid them, so that, once we retire to our hotel room, we can indulge in a free-spirited, uninhibited, unscripted and unrehearsed sexual free-for-all without any annoyances to intrude on our fun.

The second reason for our extra planning is that neither we nor he spend any time in the town where we're gonna meet, so we're not really familiar with where the good meeting or eating spots are. In fact, when we first noodled around the Internet we thought we'd identified a good potential meeting place, but after going there in person we found a couple of other places that are much better choices.

So we're not really trying to over-plan our weekend -- we're just trying to make sure that no mundane stuff will interfere with our spontaneous, unplanned fun.

~ Mr. SB ~

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

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[SexhoundDog]

I guess I'd best be getting my wife one or more of those books! May your evening turn out as super as your plans, and may you and your wife have even greater times when she starts chewing up those young studs! I'm envious

[Buck]

Originally Posted by SexhoundDog

I guess I'd best be getting my wife one or more of those books! May your evening turn out as super as your plans, and may you and your wife have even greater times when she starts chewing up those young studs! I'm envious

Me too! Good luck with your new adventure.

[SBcpl]

Originally Posted by lovefest04

By the way, I checked out your Swing Lifestyle ad. Sign us up anytime. Your wife looks incredible. My favoriate is the black bikini shot and running a close second is her rear pic, but I'm definetly an ass man.

She not only looks incredible, she is incredible!

Thanks for the very nice comments. She once was a very modest young lady, just like her Mommy taught her to be. But in recent years, thanks to compliments and flattery from complete strangers like yourself, she's grown less and less self conscious and become more and more of an exhibitionist. Ain't it just wonderful?!?

~ Mr. SB ~

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

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[SBcpl]

Originally Posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty

I think the key is the two of you are going into this completely together. No one is pushing anyone and you are both equally excited.

You betcha! She's come to embrace this idea far more enthusiastically than I would ever have imagined. And, since we actually placed an ad and have gotten a bunch of responses, we've had lengthy (often hot) discussions almost every single day about what's happening and how we both feel about it. What's really neat is that we've gotten so we can have these intimate discussions even while we're slurping down our coffee, hurrying to get ready for work -- not just when we're all hot and bothered in the bedroom.

~ Mr. SB ~

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

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[LikeMinds321]

SBcpl -

How could I not have seen your thread until now!

This is such a hot story unfolding. I'm so excited for you and Mrs SB.

Particularly because Mr LM and I are your ages and because someday I hope to find a single male for us.

I'll be checking in on you.

Best of everything for you tomorrow night!

LM