OMG -- It's REALLY gonna happen!!!

[Atilla]

CONGRATS A&B. Hope there are many, many more sexy and wonderful anniversaries in your future

[Buck]

Originally Posted by SBcpl

Hi folks,

I will share some of my thoughts after we get home next week. Right now I am just riding on a big high.

~A~

That's great! This has been the most informative as well as entertaining thread I've read on this board.! Thanks to A,B and C for sharing your experience!

[DBL D]

I agree 100%! Very good thread. facelick

M.D.

[forty_somethin]

I just finished reading this entire thread. Not sure I'll be able to sleep tonight!!

The way B wrote honestly about his feelings as events unfolded was awesome.

Thank you for posting everything!

Mrs. Forty_Somethin

[SBcpl]

Originally Posted by forty_somethin

I just finished reading this entire thread. Not sure I'll be able to sleep tonight!!

Hmmm... same problem that A had that night.

Originally Posted by forty_somethin

The way B wrote honestly about his feelings as events unfolded was awesome.

Writing all that and looking through all the pictures C and I took provided something of a catharsis for me. I can now skim through those pictures without getting totally emotionally involved. However, if I look through them more slowly, so I have time to think about what I'm really looking at, some of those gut-wrenching emotions return.

Just last night, almost three weeks after the great event, A and I were looking at them and I was touching up a few in Photoshop—cropping them and adjusting the exposure and sharpness—and we both started getting all hot and bothered all over again. We wound up attacking each other in a ferocious bout of wild passion even though it was very late, we were tired, we'd polished off a full bottle of wine, and I hadn't taken any Viagra! Those pictures are still a tremendous aphrodisiac for us.

Originally Posted by forty_somethin

Thank you for posting everything!

We're happy to do it. Glad you enjoyed reading it, and we hope other people find reading about our experiences and emotions helpful in making their own decisions about entering the lifestyle.

~ B ~

[SBcpl]

Hi, it's Mrs. SBcpl here, as promised, to share a few closing thoughts on this thread...

B's posts have been a labor of love. I consider his description of our MFM as a love letter to me. He accurately captured many of my emotions, thoughts, and intense pleasures throughout our big event.

I knew that B wanted this to happen for the l-o-o-o-ngest time. I really wanted it too. He gave me the freedom and permission to experience another lover. I accepted this and felt comfortable with both his and my desires. Therefore I gave myself permission to unlock some doors and unleash my own passions, desires, feelings and physical pleasures. I, too, surprised myself with the emotional depth and intensity that I experienced. But I know myself well enough that, in a way, it was not surprising. All three of us had accepted and communicated openly about what we all wanted to do together. This made it very exciting, because I was about to experience many new, different, wonderful, overwhelming, and delicious pleasures.

I was able to do what I knew B wanted me to do—be totally "with" C. And I also was able to act on my own impulses without feeling guilty. The whole time we showered each other with love. I embraced that "it was what it was" for those hours. It was a different level of emotional and physical love. I knew I would have B to love me even more than before, and I him. I would go home with B, not C. In other words I was capable of separating the different aspects of my feelings and just had fun.

The camera flashes... I was aware of the camera as "B Was The Camera". The flashes were his hot touches and raw emotions popping off like thunder claps. As the flashes enveloped me I knew they were bouncing back to B. I knew he was seeing me in my throes of passion and witnessing my rainbow of emotions and physical delights. Even today seeing the pictures evokes strong memories of the intense mental and physical feelings of the original moments.

The whole experience was wonderful and, in a strange way, I feel more full as a person, as I think most of us might not be aware of how much we have to give each other. What a nice way to share.

Both B and I have more than a special smile for C and will remain Swing Lifestyle buddies with him, we hope, for a long time.

Thank you for reading this long thread and I hope that all of you have, or will have, as much fun as we did in our first MFM and in writing and responding to all of you.

Not the end, but just the beginning...

~ A ~

[dilligaf]

now trying to start out .wife was the same as you good to know it works

[WoodyInSoCal]

Originally Posted by SBcpl

Both B and I have more than a special smile for C and will remain Swing Lifestyle buddies with him, we hope, for a long time.

Just as in all other aspects of life, as swingers we meet lots of people, some not so nice to know, some nice to know, and very few who are substantially more on the same wave length as ourselves - those with whom we have a unique, positive connection. I felt a special friendship with both A and B when we met and that sense of friendship grew throughout our time together.

I look forward to being SBcpl's buddy too.

~C~

[SBcpl]

Well, since at least one person is curious about what has become of us, I thought I'd post one final followup to summarize our adventures since our WWWW (Wonderful Weekend With Woody). We still keep in touch with Woody and, in fact, he's going to be visiting us at our home this coming weekend.

We've had two more MFM dates with two other guys—one four weekends ago and another just two weekends ago, both at the same beachfront hotel where we met with Woody. The first of these was a major disappointment. The fellow was nice enough, and he seemed REALLY hot and eager to get it on with A but, unfortunately, he experienced some performance problems and couldn't keep it up. He and A engaged in lots of making out and petting and oral sex, but he just couldn't keep his focus or his erection. He got all upset with himself and wound up leaving way early. I lept into the breach, took a little extra Viagra, and we turned it into a hot, passionate, romantic weekend for just the two of us.

By contrast, our most recent meeting was fantastic! He's another friend that we met through Swing Lifestyle. He's the same age as A and he's been swinging for a good number of years. He's very considerate and very much a gentleman. Woody had advised us that we should try a lot more MFM activities—our night with him consisted of a lot of serial MF activities with only occasional MFM action (largely because of how I had described my fantasies beforehand). Our new friend was not just willing to comply, but started encouraging it himself. He and A first spent some time getting acquainted and naked and doing a lot of petting and kissing and oral play while I watched and snapped some pictures. Then he suggested that I join them, which I did, and we both pleasured A for a while as she went just nuts with pleasure.

When he eventually entered A, I stepped aside and watched again and took more pictures. (Question: is it considered good swinger etiquette to not distract one's wife whilst another guy is cumming inside her?) After he came they lay there and cuddled a while, and I again joined them. We both caressed and petted A and, after a bit, I mounted my wife while he continued to pet her. When we got really intense he stepped back and took a few photos of us in action.

We continued like this for about three hours before he had to leave. A enjoyed all the dual attention tremendously and got hotter and more orgasmic than she has in a long time. We definitely plan to do a lot more true MFM action when Woody visits us this weekend. As for our new friend, we think he liked us too, and we definitely plan on hooking up with him again. Here's what he wrote in his Swing Lifestyle certification for us...

On rare occassions, within the lifestyle, you have the opportunity to meet very special people. SBcpl truly are unique. They are deeply in-love with one another and enjoy the sharing sexual experiences together. It is a huge turn-on watching them together. I found them to be very intelligent, funny and engaging. In bed, it was an incredible experience. "A" is a beautiful woman with a warm, wonderful smile and the most beautiful eyes and hair. She is an incredible lover, whose kisses, are hard to forget. I cannot stop thinking about how wonderful she tastes, how sensual it is to be in her or have her mouth around my cock. I hope to be able to count them as dear friends for years to come and cannot wait to again be intimate with them.If you are invited to join them, consider yourself to be extremely fortunate.

So, the bottom line is that we seem to have adapted well to the swinging lifestyle. We survived our first disappointing encounter, and we've found two great guys who we plan on seeing on a regular basis. There are several other interesting guys who would like to meet us, and we'll try to fit some of them in between encounters with our two wonderful new friends.

~ B ~

[DBL D]

Hello "B" & "A"...Just not true. We are very interested in everyone else on the board too. You haven't been forgotten...that's for sure! Thanks for the update.

Male D

[SBcpl]

Originally Posted by DBL D

Hello "B" & "A"...Just not true.

Oops... I didn't say only one person was interested—I said at least one person was interested. I wasn't complaining or whining or any such thing. I was just acknowledging that Buck actually started a thread inquiring about our whereabouts. I'm glad you and the others have enjoyed reading about our adventures and have been so willing to let us share—none of our regular friends would quite understand.

~ B ~

[free2use60]

Hello A & B, Sounds like a wonderful time had by all would & wll written B love to have been in C,s place. Hope you enjoy all your future threesomes and A that you get all the MM attention you deserve.
J

[mfmyeahbaby]

Originally Posted by SBcpl

Having read a bunch of posts, on this board and others, from people who have experienced bad aftereffects, I've tried to think through pretty thoroughly about how I'm likely to react. I know it's gonna be a wild emotional roller coaster ride, and I'll need to control the fear and jealousy and rage while I ride out the big wave of unbelievably intense sexual excitement.

In our first phone conversation my wife's fuck-buddy-to-be asked me several questions, including how did I think I could handle the Green Monster? I wrote a long letter in response (I'd consider posting it here, but it might be too long -- about four printed pages -- what is the length limit for posting here?) and, in writing it, it forced me to think through some heavy issues. One of the issues I thought about most was what kind of limits should we impose on the relationship between him and my wife. I ultimately decided that as long as my wife is enjoying it, there should be no limits at all!

I know that opens the door wide to all sorts of things including, for example, my wife telling him, right in front of me, how much better his cock feels inside her than mine does. But that's OK, because why are we bringing an outside stunt cock into our relationship if not to make my lady feel better and more satisfied than she ever has before. I'd be disappointed if he wasn't bigger, harder, and longer lasting than me. I'd be disappointed if he didn't know a bunch of new sexual tricks that will send my wife into complete ecstasy. I mean, if he can't satisfy her more than I do, then what's the point? I figure the hotter and more intense her experience with him is, the hotter and more intense our own lovemaking will be for the coming weeks and months -- and how can I not love that thought.

Do these thoughts make sense to other people?

Does anybody want me to try posting that long letter?

I totally agree for us its the thrill of what she enjoys getting out of it and the excited sex we have afterward.

[SBcpl]

Originally Posted by mfmyeahbaby

I totally agree for us its the thrill of what she enjoys getting out of it and the excited sex we have afterward.

Mrs. SBCPL says YES. Does a big 'ole silly smile everyday on our faces say anything? So far it has been mind boggling fun in so many ways. Most of all it has made us closer, generated more open communciation and more deeply in love. Life can be wonderful.

[Atilla]

You two and W are just classy people. I've very much enjoyed reading all your updates