Our first swaps - Unresponsive partners - HELP! - Page 3

Cpl2share · 01-18-2007, 09:17 AM

RW1F: You hit it right on the head (excuse the pun). I know what buttons (okay, just one) to push for the Mrs. If I don't after 17 years, I have no business trying to play with someone else! But that is her, not someone I just met, or at least have never been sexual with before. I do not need the Mrs. to tell me when I am doing what she likes, but with other women I need some guidance, cuz I am just a dumb guy who knows what I like.

personal416 · 03-30-2008, 11:03 PM

We've come across a few situations like that and have coined a phrase "flat-backers". While they usually profess to having a good time, we both like more vocal interaction and have chosen to move on because the lack of feedback takes the joy out of it for us. Not to sound too harsh, but we each have our preferences we look for in partners we spend a 2nd time with.

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01-18-2007, 09:17 AM	#31 (permalink)
Cpl2share Is it too cold for beer? Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 344 Location: Way up north. Status: Couple	Re: Our first swaps - Unresponsive partners - HELP! RW1F: You hit it right on the head (excuse the pun). I know what buttons (okay, just one) to push for the Mrs. If I don't after 17 years, I have no business trying to play with someone else! But that is her, not someone I just met, or at least have never been sexual with before. I do not need the Mrs. to tell me when I am doing what she likes, but with other women I need some guidance, cuz I am just a dumb guy who knows what I like.

03-30-2008, 11:03 PM	#32 (permalink)
personal416 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 106 Location: Cincinnati Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:personal416	Re: Our first swaps - Unresponsive partners - HELP! We've come across a few situations like that and have coined a phrase "flat-backers". While they usually profess to having a good time, we both like more vocal interaction and have chosen to move on because the lack of feedback takes the joy out of it for us. Not to sound too harsh, but we each have our preferences we look for in partners we spend a 2nd time with.

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