What happened first time swinging? - Page 2

ALilOEverything · 01-22-2005, 04:18 PM

We really didn't have any concrete rules except for safe sex. We thought we would be up for full swap but were nervous we wouldn't feel comfortable when it came to that so we just watched each other for cues. We did full swap same room our first time and it was a wonderful experience.

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-26-2005, 02:57 PM

I wish I could remember for sure, but thinking back I don't think we really had any rules set. I think we pretty well jumped in head first and then had to back - peddle a bit. Not only did we not have good rules set, but I don't think the other couple did either, or at least they didn't express them to us. The night didn't go well at all.... later we became friends with the couple and she expressed to me things about the night that bothered her. Definately a lesson learned. I wish there had been a site like this before I started swinging...lol.

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01-22-2005, 04:18 PM	#16 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,847 Location: Michigan Status: M. Female Swing Lifestyle Name:aliloeverything	Re: What happened first time swinging? We really didn't have any concrete rules except for safe sex. We thought we would be up for full swap but were nervous we wouldn't feel comfortable when it came to that so we just watched each other for cues. We did full swap same room our first time and it was a wonderful experience.
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01-26-2005, 02:57 PM	#17 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: What happened first time swinging? I wish I could remember for sure, but thinking back I don't think we really had any rules set. I think we pretty well jumped in head first and then had to back - peddle a bit. Not only did we not have good rules set, but I don't think the other couple did either, or at least they didn't express them to us. The night didn't go well at all.... later we became friends with the couple and she expressed to me things about the night that bothered her. Definately a lesson learned. I wish there had been a site like this before I started swinging...lol.

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