Chatting and Meeting New Playmate

[Newbies46514]

O.k., hubby has been at this 'on-line' chat stuff for quite a while...it's only recently that I've joined him. <g> We've met the greatest people in the coolest room! Anyway, last week Andy met this great girl and they started talking, one thing has led to another, she and I 'met' on-line last night in the room, she is great!!! In this room you can do anything you want, so Andy and I usually play with each other, but last night we had sex, it was sooooo hot! It was just awesome! Well a little while after we were done, I went to bed...on purpose to give this girl and him time to talk if she wanted to. They did and now it looks very promising that my dear hubby may be going to get laid this weekend before we go to Utopia!

I cannot tell y'all how excited we are about this! Today she's calling him on his cell phone, to meet on Friday for drinks with the possibility of more.

We have very open communication and so far I couldn't be happier with the situation! Now then, do any of you have any advice or suggestions as to what we've not thought of. We know our boundries, we're comfortable and happy with them, we've talked the whole situation through and are still really, really happy and really, really excited.

If no one has advice that's o.k., I'm just bustin' at the seems and I had to tell someone!!!

= how Laura-Kay and Andy have been going around since last night!

[Pinmonkey]

Sounds like you had a great time. I, for one, am happy for you. I hope things go as you hope. I'm sorry, I don't have advice. I'm too new at this too.

[LikeMinds321]

Laura-Kay,

You sound pumped!

As a newbie myself, and one who has almost no experience with online chat, I have a lot of questions on how this chat room you're in works.

You said, "In this room you can do anything you want, so Andy and I usually play with each other, but last night we had sex, it was sooooo hot! It was just awesome!"

Were you on Webcam? If not, how do you have "real" sex while online and chatting? Or are you talking about cyber-sex? And did this woman have the online sex with you and Andy - as in a 3some? I'm not understanding what went on and I'd love to learn more...isn't it apparent?

Be sure to let us know how the meeting with her goes.

LM

[Newbies46514]

Were you on Webcam? If not, how do you have "real" sex while online and chatting? Or are you talking about cyber-sex? And did this woman have the online sex with you and Andy - as in a 3some?

Well I PM'ed you with as much info as I could provide, now I'll respond for the rest of the board to see...<g>

O.k., yes, we were on webcam. Yes, we had real sex with each other on webcab while we were in the chat room, i.e. no it was not 'completely' private. No it was not cyber-sex, neither Andy nor I are into that. Nope, no 3-some, she's in another state, not too handy at the moment.

Andy and I had sex with each other for the others in the room to watch and enjoy. Does it broadcast to the whole internet? Absolutely not! Is it recorded? If it is I'm sueing, but no it's not. It's a very warm and welcoming place to just be who you are and nothing else. There is no pressure put on anyone to do anything they do not want to do...except 'cam up'. Whether you're dressed or naked, drop dead gorgeous, plain jane or other, we don't care, we want to see you. You can just sit there and type, or you can sit there and play with yourself, or you can have sex with your partner, or you can flash the cam, or you can dance to the music...whatever you want. And that's why we like it! Several members of this room will even talk to each other on the phone while they're chatting on-line with everyone else. It's a really cool place!

Disclaimer - While I know a lot of you may be interested in this and want to know where we go, what the room is, etc. Please let me get to know you better, don't expect me to just hand out the info. As we all know discresion is key in our lifestyle. <g>

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by Newbies46514

Disclaimer - While I know a lot of you may be interested in this and want to know where we go, what the room is, etc. Please let me get to know you better, don't expect me to just hand out the info. As we all know discresion is key in our lifestyle. <g>

Thanks for the PM!

I think your disclaimer is very wise. What obviously makes the Webcam chat room you and Andy are on so great is the control over who is on. I'm not sure how that is accomplished but I get the feeling it isn't open to just anyone.

It's like a winning recipe for fudge, you don't share it with everyone.

LM

[BradAndJanet]

Laura-Kay, I think you're doing fine! As you've said, you're comfortable, you've talked and you're excited. Go enjoy...but let us know how it went.

-B

[Newbies46514]

UPDATE:

Well they've decided to meet at her place...YAY! When he called to tell me that and that he was going over the 'rules' with her, I creamed my panties! lol We are soooo excited! He feels like he's going on a dream vacation tomorrow and he only has 24 hours to get through before he can leave!! I feel like I'm a kid in a candy store and everything is free and there's no limit to what I can take! This is so awesome!

-LK

[Newbies46514]

It's FRIDAY!!!!! OMG, how am I gonna get through this day?! It's gonna be such sweet torture!!! facelick

[Atilla]

OMG, you two sound so excited and I'm excited for you. I hope it's everything that you imagined and more.

BTW, you'll have to fill me in a bit on this room where anything goes. I'd love to have a peek.

[Atilla]

oh, and please keep us posted on how everything goes.

[Newbies46514]

O.kkkkkkkk.... <g>

He just called and he is on his way home! All in all he had a great time, and he'd do it again. I'm kinda wishin' now that I could've been there for the action...I think it would be hotter for me now if I was. I'm happy though. We've been talking on our cells and he has been thanking me up and down.

He said that she gives really good head and she went crazy when he ate her out! I can't wait to get my hands on him now! Even though he wore a condom I'm hopin there's enough of her to taste on him! <g> facelick I really think from now on though this is gonna be a partner thing...I really hated missing out on all the action and the fun, lol. We might work up to separte fuck buddies after we have some more experience.

[WesternSwing]

CONGRATS! It sounds like both your fantasies (particularily yours) came true. Glad to see you had such a great first experience!

Mr. WS

[LikeMinds321]

Laura-Kay,

From the way you've been writing this thread there were times it sounded like Andy was going to swing alone, but I thought this couldn't be they are a couple getting into this together, it must me my misunderstanding, but now you clearly say Andy played alone with this woman.

Why didn't you go?

I obviously missed your message here. I thought Andy met her initially by himself to check her out as a playmate for both of you. That seemed unusual, but since you had seen her on Webcam I figured maybe that was appropriate in this case.

Don't you feel you missed out tonight?

LM

[GFandME]

with a computer it is VERY EASY for the others to record what they were watching....which is YOU and hubby going at it.

im VERY private and id NEVER do anything like that for the world to see but I see where people would like it. just be carefull cause it can be done easily.

sounds like ya had a blast.

[Newbies46514]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Laura-Kay,

From the way you've been writing this thread there were times it sounded like Andy was going to swing alone, but I thought this couldn't be they are a couple getting into this together, it must me my misunderstanding, but now you clearly say Andy played alone with this woman.

Why didn't you go?

I obviously missed your message here. I thought Andy met her initially by himself to check her out as a playmate for both of you. That seemed unusual, but since you had seen her on Webcam I figured maybe that was appropriate in this case.

Don't you feel you missed out tonight?

LM

Nope, no misunderstanding, that was my original fantasy. <g> If she had been into girls I would've been there, but she was someone in the lifestyle. We'd talked with her several times on cam and by phone. We thought it out as much as we possibly could, and we both agree it went great. But I do want to be a part in it the next time it happens with any woman. <g> Hearing it all second hand was great and the sex when he got home was even better...but it will be even better when I can play or watch too.

So overall did I miss out? A little, but after what I got last night, in the middle of the night, and this morning...it was well worth it!